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The State Of Our Nigerian Men by tpia5: 2:10pm On Feb 04, 2012
The only thing that gets them sobbing is when you comment on the various criminalities they engage in in the name of relationships, overseas.

It just breaks their heart, even when it's so obvious to even the lizard on the wall, that they are towing a wrong path.

What on earth is going on, and how can we help rehabilitate our men.

This state of affairs is very bad.

Can they be rehabilitated at all?

Just yesterday i was reading a news story about malaysia warning it's female citizens to stay away from nigerian men.

The other day it was singapore telling its females to be wary of nigerian men.

If countries are taking these things to the national level then shouldnt nigerians start doing something about it.

When did we get to this stage? Is it the effect of globalization?
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by ArQueBusieR(m): 2:22pm On Feb 04, 2012
Inferiority complex.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Mynd44: 2:26pm On Feb 04, 2012
Is it our fault that they are so gullible?
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:43pm On Feb 04, 2012
^^ I feel you.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Nobody: 3:43pm On Feb 04, 2012
Mynd_44:

Is it our fault that they are so gullible?

If they are gullible, then what do you call yourself?
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by MrsChima1(f): 3:44pm On Feb 04, 2012
Hmm.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Mynd44: 3:48pm On Feb 04, 2012
Eyah:

If they are gullible, then what do you call yourself?
We call ourselves yahoo boys aka fraudstas. Satisfied?
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by MrsChima1(f): 3:50pm On Feb 04, 2012
Mynd_44:

Is it our fault that they are so gullible?

No, it isn't your fault if the women are gullible.  However, it is their fault for selecting bottom of the gutter demon spawns.  Women needs to learn not to settle for gutter trash and the world would be a much better place.  

There is a huge difference between boys and men.  Just because a boy is 18 doesn't define a man.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by tpia5: 3:51pm On Feb 04, 2012
Is there no balm in gilead?

Why is the level of waywardness so high?


Can nothing be done to salvage ourselves?
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Mynd44: 3:54pm On Feb 04, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

No, it isn't your fault if the women are gullible.  However, it is their fault for selecting bottom of the gutter demon spawns.  Women needs to learn not to settle for gutter trash and the world would be a much better place.  

There is a huge difference between boys and men.  Just because a boy is 18 doesn't define a man.  
So no one should bash Nigeria men because some women are too dumb to open their eyes and see who is lying to them
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Nobody: 3:55pm On Feb 04, 2012
Mynd_44:

We call ourselves yahoo boys aka fraudstas. Satisfied?

Ok, NOTED!
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by tpia5: 3:55pm On Feb 04, 2012
And why cant such men claim other countries instead of nigeria?

Must they remain nigerian?
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by lolaluv1(f): 4:47pm On Feb 04, 2012
I was looking at the facebook page of a Nigerian guy, who claimed to be married to one of these 'Oyinbo' women. It was clear the whole thing was a charade. The 'Oyinbo' woman was so controlling and abusive, telling him to delete some names he'd added on FB, which he sharply did. It was also obvious that he was going to cut out once he had his desire, which was to become an EU citizen.

Very shameful, if you ask me! You need to read that stuff, cause words can't describe!
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by slimyem: 4:54pm On Feb 04, 2012
nigerian men-sharp men.
White women-shine your eye!
Hehehe.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by MrsChima1(f): 8:42pm On Feb 04, 2012
Mynd_44:

So no one should bash Nigeria men because some women are too dumb to open their eyes and see who is lying to them

No one shouldn't bash those dumb women for being used by some Nigerian men either. 

For the record, NO ONE SAID anything about bashing.   undecided undecided undecided undecided   

Defensive much?   
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Nobody: 9:11pm On Feb 04, 2012
Sad state.

God forbid! Wouldnt wish a Nigerian man on my worst enemy. lipsrsealed
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Mynd44: 1:32am On Feb 05, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

No one shouldn't bash those dumb women for being used by some Nigerian men either. 

For the record, NO ONE SAID anything about bashing.   undecided undecided undecided undecided   

Defensive much?   
Not defensive. Just tired of people not willing to look in the mirror and identify the real problem
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Nobody: 1:40am On Feb 05, 2012
All these ladies rapping here will end up a Nigerian guy
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by moonraker(m): 2:15am On Feb 05, 2012
OP

I dont get this, so what, some set of low life nigerian men (they could be from some other country)

countries like malaysia and singapore would decide to warn its women?? you would think that they

would understand the concept that all mean aint the same?? For the record, nigerian men arent the only

ones involved in such situations, unfortuantely, nigeria is known for a host of other issues so well its

pretty easy to place the blame on nigeria,

Then again what do you expect, check out the poverty index and the unemployed index of nigeria. That

would give u a better picture of what is going on. It doesnt stop there though. Which nigerian woman in her

right mind would want to be seen or date a broke ass nigerian man?? tongue
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by sexlog(m): 2:19am On Feb 05, 2012
I still love naija. We are wonderful people.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by MrsChima1(f): 2:22am On Feb 05, 2012
Mynd_44:

Not defensive. Just tired of people not willing to look in the mirror and identify the real problem

So when the dummies finally look into the mirror that will stop CROOKED and DEMONIC NUKKAS?
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by mobf: 3:59am On Feb 05, 2012
tpia@:

The only thing that gets them sobbing is when you comment on the various criminalities they engage in in the name of relationships, overseas.

It just breaks their heart, even when it's so obvious to even the lizard on the wall, that they are towing a wrong path.

What on earth is going on, and how can we help rehabilitate our men.

This state of affairs is very bad.

Can they be rehabilitated at all?

Just yesterday i was reading a news story about malaysia warning it's female citizens to stay away from nigerian men.

The other day it was singapore telling its females to be wary of nigerian men.

If countries are taking these things to the national level then shouldnt nigerians start doing something about it.

When did we get to this stage? Is it the effect of globalization?


Indeed. loneliness is a mofo grin
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Goldieluks: 5:11am On Feb 05, 2012
This sort of criminalistic attitude is found amongst those desperate Nigerian men from poor background,who by all means want to travel abroad for the sake of greener pastures. You rarely find such attitudes with the Nigerian men born abroad,these group of Nigerian men are more reserved,sensible,responsible and classic. They are clean to the core. Damn!
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:21am On Feb 05, 2012
are you saying only Nigerians are criminals? The problem with crime is that it cuts across race,so OP do not point at anybody. Come to Nigeria.Live in Nigeria.Make a difference. Remember a pointed finger has 3 brothers in the opposite direction.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by queensmith: 9:07am On Feb 05, 2012
kmt- is it today you are realising? its been a long time females are being told to stay weary of Nigerian men.

Nigerians tell their children to avoid naija men.

I dont know what globalisation has to do with it, its a result of nationwide moral bankrupcy and the countries poor state.

Regardless indians have it hard to and the men dont run around frauding women, Nigeria is also not the only country that has it bad.

the culture has alot to do with it, glorifying criminalities. tis a shame really.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Mynd44: 9:36am On Feb 05, 2012
Are you done Insulting Nigerians? Cos if your ratings are anything to go by the all Black Americans are drug peddling, gun carrying illiterate
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by claremont(m): 9:48am On Feb 05, 2012
Nigerian men (as deceptive and manipulative as we supposedly are) still remain one of the most desired males species in the world. It will take more than a thread/post on an obscure social networking site to disprove this fact.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by queensmith: 9:49am On Feb 05, 2012
^^ ok you really need to pull some proof out. saying it contantly doesnt make it true dude.

sought after my ass! lol!!

anyways

read & weep!
http://www.topix.com/forum/world/nigeria/T6MAVH1UFMVFA7K69
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by claremont(m): 9:55am On Feb 05, 2012
^Re-read the last sentence of my post, and apply it to your reply.
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by Nobody: 10:07am On Feb 05, 2012
yes o
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by queensmith: 10:13am On Feb 05, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

No, it isn't your fault if the women are gullible.  However, it is their fault for selecting bottom of the gutter demon spawns.  Women needs to learn not to settle for gutter trash and the world would be a much better place.  

There is a huge difference between boys and men.  Just because a boy is 18 doesn't define a man.  

Why must soo many of these bottom trash men be nigerian giving us a bad name?
Why must our culture embrace this?

@claremont The thread wasn't for you. I asked you show proof of this 'fact' you keep running around deceiving everyone with!
Re: The State Of Our Nigerian Men by LogicMind: 10:20am On Feb 05, 2012
foreign babes dey rush naija guys like hell. good girls will always like bad boys.
naija boys are never boring.
naija guys do anything to succeed.
a desperate naija guy will love like hell and those brief years spent with him for papers will be the most memorable of the babe's life.
naija guys don't waste time on cheesy stuff like flowers and love letters. they go straight to the point. girls feel more secure with such men.
these babes have learnt to mistrust their governments. so the more warning they issue, the more they are attracted by curiousity to naija guys.

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