I met this girl sometime this year and then we started seeing even tho' she told me that she had a boyfriend who is based in another town. The whole thing started like a casual fling a couple of months back and all we did was have sex with absolutely no commitment. Before we both knew it, we were deeply in love with each other. I have offered her my all if she'd only let go of the other guy, whom she claims she doesn't love but can't leave. We have had this discussion several times within the last few months but haven't been able to make much sense out of it, We have broken up but come back together during the last few months more times than I can remember cos she just wasnt ready for any commitment. Anyway, recently, she had to travel and visit her boyfriend where he is. On her return, she said she couldn't go on with it cos she felt her life was getting too complicated. I dont mind the casual thing if she'd have me that way cos all i want is to be able to see her face everyday and hear her laugh everyday. We have been apart for just a couple of days but guys,, I cant sleep or eat and I feel like am dying. What do I do

Can't sleep or eat and feel like you're dying? My candid advice? -- Just die.

o boy go on with the relationship, don't advice her to leave her formal guy b/cos he was there b/4,if u can show her love more than the other guy she will love you more and she might eventually leave the guy. GOOD LUCK

@ Wed123

That's a bit nasty dawg,

i elieve you're not stisfying her well, i believe she was just using you to satisfy her below the belt needs, and her other man must be better.
let it go man or keep on straffing her.

na both of una dey waste time, I think she likes what u do in bed, and d other guy dey give am goood money, u get 2 choices, keep sleeping with her, get caught by d other guy wey fit kill u or not, or make u leave am go find someone else, u dey sleep with person, she say she no fit leave d other g uy, u con tak say u no fit eat, u never see better food be dat

well u knew she had someone else n u still wanted to date her, why would u want someone who is unavailable. abi u thought she would leave the other guy 4 u. stop dreaming n get a life.

let it go

she belongs to someone else.

Man!!, una nasty for this Nairaland oo!! CHAI!!!