[b]I had a clash recently and it was right in my room.
Let me start with the proper story.

7 months ago I slightly quit my relationship because of the insults I was getting from my ex-girl due to unemployment and

other issues.
I decided to quit the relationship then 3 weeks ago I went into another relationship which was moving fine but my EX kept

on calling me with the reason that she would really want to see me and discuss some issue with me and I affirmed it and

told her to come over to the house. Meanwhile I wanted to use the opportunity to introduce her to my new girl friend.

The day she was supposed to come, I had a little face-off with my gal cos of a text message from my person Doc who wants me

to have dinner with her on the same day and I simply told my girl to calm down, that we will discuss it later in the

evening.

But when she (my gal) came that night, my EX was already coming to my house for the said discussion and there was no time

for me to tell me girl that I would have a visitor because she was in the company of her friends, I was waiting for her to

be alone.

My EX came in abruptly and I couldnt do the introduction. But my girl friend came back to the room with an insult saying I

was so wicked and I told her to calm down and remember what i told her in the morning. but she continued and suddenly made

a call to her friend who came in into my sitting room and started pouring buckets of insults to me and I ordered them to

leave me my room immediately.

Now I went back to beg my girlfriend after sending my EX out that same night but decided not to listen to me and sent me

out of her place.

I am very very confused, is it right to call my ex back or keeping on getting the insult from my new gal every time I try

begging her?[/b]

my gf,my ex,my this my that,go get a job.

How old are you my brother? BRB

you messed urself up bigtyme bro..dont you have a house

Keep on managin ur new girl n live ur life with buckets of insults.

Call ur ex, apologise(if u humiliated her) n arrange a neutral place where u can meet.

kola oloye: How old are you my brother? BRB

Poster answer the bolded

whoever gave you internet access instead of a job should be shot...

@Kola I am 31 yrs.
I am only seeking for advice please. Help your brother.

realpeople: @Kola I am 31 yrs.
I am only seeking for advice please. Help your brother.

U are 31 in d body of a 12 yrs old, like seriously Man Up!

U have explained and apologized ,dats all you needed to do.

All dis continuous pleading is getting childish, do something valuable with ur time abeg!

i dont even understand d piece of sh1t he wrote

lol funny story........u need to start thinking deeply before making any decisions. Your current girlfriend should have known about the request to converse with your ex before you even agreed. U should explain everything to your current girlfriend and any action you wish to take. All the same, wish u the very best

OP,try and get ur new gf back and stop all this unnecessary beging. talk to her like a man and btw what are you still carryin gf's around,or you wan friend all naija babes finish, and as for your ex,let her remain EXpelled

shilees: Mcheeeeeew,those girls are either overaged or ugly to b disturbing demselves over an unrepentant jobless, homeless guy like u.go & find a job

Wetin warrant all dis raking? Who u b sef? Na ur junior sister dem dey Bala ni?

U don't no d guy , so u have no frigging rite to call him jobless and Homeless.

Jeezzz na wa ooo

Mstewwwwwwww!

@poster
you dont really have any problem as far as I am concerned. It is just one of those events that shape us as humans and also allow us opportunity to know who our partners are. Fir of, your ex is clearly still in love with you and she is a material girl.

As for your gf, she has every right to act that way because the setting as you narrated is a perfect set up for infidelity and deception by men. However, that doesnt mean you have done anything wrong either, provided that you actually didnt meant to cheat on her.

My little piece for you is this...

Stop the begging and allow the storm to calm. Call your gf best friend who is coolheaded and can understand.. Not one who is a fool and will join in raining curse on you. Explain to the girl and make a simple request of her facilitating a meeting between you and your gf. Once this is done, calmly explain what happened..and try to ensure you clear the gray areas...

Openess is important just as trust. You see, put yourself in her shoe, and let the event happen in reverse order... Will you not have reacted that way? Dont be selfish and dont be paralized with fea r of lost.

If you do all you can and she still refuse to bulge... Leave her alone and stay away from both girls. Unless you are desperate for something.. If you are real and not selfish.. You can do it. You will always find someone who love you. For sure, your ex will still be stalking you and you gf will also be licking her wound..

Hey, you said you are jobless... This is good news! Simply concentrate on being somebody and they will fight over one another to have you have you back!

olanajim: @poster
you dont really have any problem as far as I am concerned. It is just one of those events that shape us as humans and also allow us opportunity to know who our partners are. Fir of, your ex is clearly still in love with you and she is a material girl.

As for your gf, she has every right to act that way because the setting as you narrated is a perfect set up for infidelity and deception by men. However, that doesnt mean you have done anything wrong either, provided that you actually didnt meant to cheat on her.

My little piece for you is this...

Stop the begging and allow the storm to calm. Call your gf best friend who is coolheaded and can understand.. Not one who is a fool and will join in raining curse on you. Explain to the girl and make a simple request of her facilitating a meeting between you and your gf. Once this is done, calmly explain what happened..and try to ensure you clear the gray areas...

Openess is important just as trust. You see, put yourself in her shoe, and let the event happen in reverse order... Will you not have reacted that way? Dont be selfish and dont be paralized with fea r of lost.

If you do all you can and she still refuse to bulge... Leave her alone and stay away from both girls. Unless you are desperate for something.. If you are real and not selfish.. You can do it. You will always find someone who love you. For sure, your ex will still be stalking you and you gf will also be licking her wound..

Hey, you said you are jobless... This is good news! Simply concentrate on being somebody and they will fight over one another to have you have you back!

@Ola you are a good person what you have said here. I am sure without washing your dirty pants outside nobody knows how dirty it looks. I thank everybody for your contribution and from the Advice and insults, I will learn and it cant stop me from sharing my f...ck ups with noble and briliant ppl like.

Your old gf is better than the new one. U said she poured you bucket os insult ask urself what if it was bucket of acid. I can never date a girl who can insult me weda angry or not

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realpeople: [b]I had a clash recently and it was right in my room.
Let me start with the proper story.

7 months ago I slightly quit my relationship because of the insults I was getting from my ex-girl due to unemployment and

other issues.
I decided to quit the relationship then 3 weeks ago I went into another relationship which was moving fine but my EX kept

on calling me with the reason that she would really want to see me and discuss some issue with me and I affirmed it and

told her to come over to the house. Meanwhile I wanted to use the opportunity to introduce her to my new girl friend.

The day she was supposed to come, I had a little face-off with my gal cos of a text message from my person Doc who wants me

to have dinner with her on the same day and I simply told my girl to calm down, that we will discuss it later in the

evening.

But when she (my gal) came that night, my EX was already coming to my house for the said discussion and there was no time

for me to tell me girl that I would have a visitor because she was in the company of her friends, I was waiting for her to

be alone.

My EX came in abruptly and I couldnt do the introduction. But my girl friend came back to the room with an insult saying I

was so wicked and I told her to calm down and remember what i told her in the morning. but she continued and suddenly made

a call to her friend who came in into my sitting room and started pouring buckets of insults to me and I ordered them to

leave me my room immediately.

Now I went back to beg my girlfriend after sending my EX out that same night but decided not to listen to me and sent me

out of her place.

I am very very confused, is it right to call my ex back or keeping on getting the insult from my new gal every time I try

begging her?[/b]

HOW MANY BUCKETS OF INSULTS HAVE YOU RECEIVED AND HOW MUCH MORE DO YOU NEED BEFORE YOU USE YOUR COMMON SENSE??