Hi, family members on NL
my baby is 8 months plus and my love has refused to be intimate
with me for fear of having another baby coz a lady whom we both delivered
at the same time is pregnant again.
i ve tried to convince him dat a nursing mother,actively breastfeeding
cant be pregnant,but he wont succumb, okay use barrier method,no way.
its exactly 4 months we became intimate last.

He wants me to go for family planning but i' m of the opinion that they all
cause hormonal inbalance one way or the other.

What do i do?

Moderators, i wouldnt know if u could help move this to FAMILY section

or is it okay here?

swty, i totally understand ur man's fear. so do take care of it.
about family planning, ders ds method called iucd.
no hormonal imbalance stories, lasts for 10 years, very cheap, is done in less than 10 mins, you are not injected nor given any drugs to drink nor cut open to insert it.

visit ur nearest hospital n ask abt it. its d best option there is. try it.

n get ur man back on duty b4 he gets tempted outside. hot chicks full evrywher oo looking for who to send to hell.

poster your husband needs to go with you for the family planning he told you to go for because he has to be educated about the options and risks that way someone who knows can ease his fears.

you can use the pill or a patch he can use a condom or get a vasectomy if he doesn't want anymore kids

omega25red: poster your husband needs to go with you for the family planning he told you to go for because he has to be educated about the options and risks that way someone who knows can ease his fears.

you can use the pill or a patch he can use a condom or get a vasectomy if he doesn't want anymore kids

Vasectomy?
We just had our 1st baby!

Handle with care.Doctors kindly advise, this is ur area.

My dear, why not try female condoms.

I haven't used one before but I also didn"t do and don"t want to do family planning till I am done with childbearing. I have my reservations about them.

hardleyC:

Vasectomy?
We just had our 1st baby!

didnt say a vasectomy is a must just saying if you dont want anymore kids

Guess the only method that does not have hormones is the IUD with copper. It can be taken out when you are ready to have another child.

Only side effect in my opinion is that you could have cramps for several days after it has been fitted.

Op,tell him to use condom,instead of stayin away 4rm sex that long... as it helps keep ur union strong.

Tgirl4real: My dear, why not try female condoms.

I haven't used one before but I also didn"t do and don"t want to do family planning till I am done with childbearing. I have my reservations about them.

Female condoms? it sorta sound awful, never seen one and dont wish to.