davidylan:

No you all would have fought like violent cats.

jennykadry: Lol@ outstrip

The man saw hell in my hands. . No day went by without Jenny doing something . Now I know why my dad did not collet bride price from him, the old man must have been so happy that finally, someone has taken this girl out of his house he gave him me for free .what about the one that I lost my cool once and wanted to start breaking things again? Haa,, the way he jumped up from the sofa and grabbed me ehn, gosh men strong ooooo grabbed me so tey I was sitting on him with both hands held together by him, Cheii. the next thing you hear is "calm down, calm down, take a deep breath, ok I am letting you go now but don't break anything oo, good girl".

Outstrip I feel like causing another commotion, remembering those sweet times is turning me on to do another bad. I swear no one will tell that man in his next life never to marry an under 21, he learnt his lesson the hard way

@david
Honestly I enjoyed it, I still rake ooo but I Try not to break things

Richvkunt: [b]@Jennykadry,
This is a very amusing attempt to defend violence in your masochist1c relationship with your husband.
1.From your initial post he PINNED you on the bed for two minutes so that you could not move while you recovered from your brain wave?
2.You have equally admitted to being a loose cannon in the early stages of your marriage where every thing was meant to be decimated.
3.You were fond of throwing heavy objects at your husband.
4.You normally gave him 15 minute blow jabs after these incidents of extreme violence.
These are all facts from your post because I was not there,however I have stated these facts to show that Violence in a relationship is not the monopoly of any one of the sexes.Men and women can be violent in any relationship in equal measure,however if it was a man that was exhibiting this kind of attitude to a woman-you and your cohorts would be up in arms and would be calling that man all kinds of names.
Jenny it is rather funny that you keep stating that it was in an early stage of your marrriage-that you wer exhibiting these brain waves and that you have now changed?That means you agree that human beings are not static and that human beings can change?The question Madam loose cannon,is why do you not give poor women in fresh relationships the chance for their husbands to change?Rather you take pleasure in advising such women to leave their husbands?Do you even know what you are doing to peoples relationships?Do you realise the evil havoc you are creating in cyberspace?
If you and your husband can change from a rabble rousing couple,what stops other people from improving their relationships?Why all this advise of DIVORCE!DIVORCE!!DIVORCE!!!
The advise I have for those women always bringing their problems online is be careful which advise you take,because a lot of the women you come to for advise are either in worse relationships than you are or are women that are on the shelf and not married or proberbly just living with a man without any formal marriage rites.
A word is enough for the wise.Meanwhile Jenny,please continue your masoch1sm-You and I know whats going on![/b]

Richvkunt:

The advise I have for those women AND MEN always bringing their problems online is be careful which advise you take,because a lot of the women AND MEN you come to for advise are in MUCH worse relationships than you are AND COME ONLINE TO OPPRESS OTHERS SO AS TO FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEIR OWN LIVES. . .

Chrisbenogor: 12 pages and here are my thoughts.
The man obviously has plenty of learning to do, women need to be put in their places. I will send my sister fast out of my house if she cannot get along with my wife, not because I don't love her enough but simply because she is really the only one I can send out, even if my wife is the tiger.

I mean what will I be teaching my sisters? That their own husbands can turn them into punching bags if they have disagreements with their sister in laws? Heck if the mans sisters do not even realise that they would be in this lady's shoes someday then there is a problem.

That said I do not believe that the fault lies squarely with the man and his sisters the OP must have aided it one way or the other. The way forward is simple, the violence part should be dealt with, not in the "fire brimstone I take my kid and runaway and you never see us again" type of way but in a diplomatic manner that brings lasting peace.

chaircover: Debo oshe jare. I couldnt have said it any better

Grammer no too plenti for this time, so I fit read and understand ur post. Good boy

dayokanu:

Look at it this way, a confrontation was brewing and things are about to explode, an infant is in the middle of things? Whats the rational thing to do? push the wife while she is carrying the baby? if he did that what would you say about him?

Richvkunt:


NA LIE!
This can not be Jennykadry.
How dare he assult you and you did not DIVORCE him as you have been advising poor ladies on this forum?
I find this hard to believe-a whole HARD babe like you?
WTF?
Ordinary pillow na him you throw na hin he come give you pinfall?
All those f00lish and impressionable ladies lapping up this womans advise need to open their eyes and minds. Respect your husbands the same way she respects her own husband.
Blow jab for 15 minutes after assult? The mind boggles!
This is what intelligent posters have been saying for years-These women are deadly-they will advise you to divorce/disrespect your husband while their homes are worst than yours.
A word is enough for the wise woman.

Richvkunt: [b]@Jennykadry,
This is a very amusing attempt to defend violence in your masochist1c relationship with your husband.
1.From your initial post he PINNED you on the bed for two minutes so that you could not move while you recovered from your brain wave?
2.You have equally admitted to being a loose cannon in the early stages of your marriage where every thing was meant to be decimated.
3.You were fond of throwing heavy objects at your husband.
4.You normally gave him 15 minute blow jabs after these incidents of extreme violence.
These are all facts from your post because I was not there,however I have stated these facts to show that Violence in a relationship is not the monopoly of any one of the sexes.Men and women can be violent in any relationship in equal measure,however if it was a man that was exhibiting this kind of attitude to a woman-you and your cohorts would be up in arms and would be calling that man all kinds of names.
Jenny it is rather funny that you keep stating that it was in an early stage of your marrriage-that you wer exhibiting these brain waves and that you have now changed?That means you agree that human beings are not static and that human beings can change?The question Madam loose cannon,is why do you not give poor women in fresh relationships the chance for their husbands to change?Rather you take pleasure in advising such women to leave their husbands?Do you even know what you are doing to peoples relationships?Do you realise the evil havoc you are creating in cyberspace?
If you and your husband can change from a rabble rousing couple,what stops other people from improving their relationships?Why all this advise of DIVORCE!DIVORCE!!DIVORCE!!!
The advise I have for those women always bringing their problems online is be careful which advise you take,because a lot of the women you come to for advise are either in worse relationships than you are or are women that are on the shelf and not married or proberbly just living with a man without any formal marriage rites.
A word is enough for the wise.Meanwhile Jenny,please continue your masoch1sm-You and I know whats going on![/b]

dayokanu:

Look at it this way, a confrontation was brewing and things are about to explode, an infant is in the middle of things? Whats the rational thing to do? push the wife while she is carrying the baby? if he did that what would you say about him?

debosky:

This is illogical - the woman went to make food and wanted to feed her child - her actions did not denote any 'confrontation'. The man would rather fight than allow the child's mother to feed him/her and that is simply despicable and shows where his priorities are.

You do NOT mess around with a mother child bond - the man's action simply showed that he held his sister in higher regard than his wife, even when it came to the wife's child! Such an action is that of a phoolish man.

Besides, since the sister was involved in the confrontation, how can you claim to be taking the child out of the confrontation by giving the baby to the source of the confrontation? You are instead making the child a pawn in the fight.

[size=16pt]If not that the man himself was eager for a fight, why couldn't the 'confrontation' it wait till the woman had fed her child or was the fight more important to him than the child being fed by its mother?[/size]

jennykadry: Listen to me(I still need your answers to my questions) but sit your husband down and talk to him, order him to stop being silly else the next time he handles you the way he handled you the previous night, he will have to eat sand and garri to see his child again.

Don't you have sisters that can come to your house and throw those girls out? what is this? why are you acting so soft? they declared war on you the minute they decided to wanno take over your child. FIGHT BACK DAMMIT

This is why women need to be doing something that brings them income, I don't know what you do for a living but step up your game cos right now? it's You and God against the world

Richvkunt: WTF?
Big Bumper,
I would sincerely advise you to sit on the fence and not comment if this is all you have to say.
Jennykadry utilises shock therapy?
Jennykadry does not advocate divorce?
Lady you have got to be taking the mickey here or just using an extreme dose of sarcasm on me.
So it is shock therapy to abuse and insult any woman/Poster that disagrees with her view point?
It is shock therapy to seek to destroy the little self esteem that remains in the life of a woman whose husband is cheating on her?
The fact is that most women who bring their problems to this forum have found her out and you can see that most logical posters dismiss her hare brained advice out right.
By the way BB,are you now a solicitor?While I will not advise you to mind your own business,I would advise you to return to the space you created for your self on the Nairaland fence,where you can watch the world go by in peace.

Busy_body: This is dedicated to the feisty Sisters in the house, especially Sisthren Jennykadry, so when y'all get home go on your knees before your Husband to appreciate him and thank him for loving you warts and all and personalise the small poem below for him. I am sure they will not change y'all for the world, wish y'all forever married life






I WANT SOMEONE WHO WON'T CARE THAT I AM INCAPABLE of sitting still,

that i can't grasp the concept of cleaning,

someone who realizes that half of the decisions i make are usually ones i regret,

and i have the right to overreact at any given moment.

I want someone who knows how completely insane i am. & he wouldn't want me any other way

Outstrip:

Admit it girl. You were just doing it for the rough make up sex. Spoilt child

Busy_body:




You can call it tomayto, whilst i call it tomaato. It is what it is and it is blunt as they come and is meant to shock and awe. She never tells anyone to divorce. Generic namecalling such as dog, cat, ashawo, should not get people's heckles raised and deffo should not dent anyone's self esteem. Or maybe its me that don't get it sha because everyone else was raised in glass houses and cocooned in cotton wool and feather all their lives sha. What do i know ehn


We are now confuzzling two issues/two kinds of Jenny together. But in all, it is always about "their response". THis is why i am always repeating ad naseum that she is not "talking/fighting" herself. For every "reaction" from them, there is a corresponding "reaction" from her. Jennykadry ceases fire with immediate effect, the moment her opponent throws in the towel.


*There is blunt "you don't have to put up with BS in the arms of any man/you can still have your own voice" Jennykadry. She sees things in black and white and she holds her side down and says it as she sees it. Does this stop the other extreme side from saying their piece too? NO. So why not "live and lets live". . . Even if the OP disagrees with her advise, why not just ignore her and gloss over her post, so Jenny can get in her "parting shot" of "siddon dey suffer dia" in quick. Now to be clear, the "siddon dia" in this case does not connote the opposite i.e. get divorced. Heck she can even be seen sometimes holding their hands hence reason some people actually come out in shock to exclaim if it is another person using her handle.



*And then, there is also the other "already known" spitfire Jennykadry whom the sanctimonuous holier-than-thous of Nairaland are always forever having issues with. She is who she is, and as long as the sleeping dog is allowed to lie, there is usually no wahala. But because they want to be seen to be doing the right thing, and want to claim the higher moral ground, they come and throw cheap potshots at her, and true to form she responds, then they respond back and things blow out of hand, then they do a u-turn and start wanting to
be seen as doing a magnanimous selfless act, bolting the stable door after the horse had escaped. Then they start crying wolf that she never gets told off blah, blah, blah . . . Fa fa fa fowl, that cannot wash with me at all. . .Social cognition is something close to my heart, so I rather do jocularity and self-deprecating stuff and pick on myself, definitely not sarcasm. . .




Erm. . . i am not a Solicitor, those ones are not going to make heaven for defending criminals, but a busybody soliciting for peace as you pointed out. Haba if i mind my business how would i eat and feed my family and supplement my dearest Husband's income. I also occasionally moonlight as Voltron Defender of the universe to er . . .supplement my income again. Erm. . . can you do me a favour and help me write a glowing reference about me to Mukina2 that i am always sitting on the fence radiating and advocating peace always.





brb. . .

Richvkunt:

Madam sitting on the fence,
Watching the world go by,
Never standing up for anything,
What do you think you have described?
A schizophreniac !

Stop trying to defend what you don't know because you are doing a bad job.
There is no way you can defend this woman.
Like every one here knows she is a loose cannon.

Richvkunt:

Madam sitting on the fence,
Watching the world go by,
Never standing up for anything,
What do you think you have described?
A schizophreniac !

Stop trying to defend what you don't know because you are doing a bad job.
There is no way you can defend this woman.
Like every one here knows she is a loose cannon.

jennykadry:


Can you remind me why your wife divorced you again? You keep dodging this question. I mean for someone that preaches no divorce, you'd think he'd practice what he preaches

I am a loose cannon, is that all? See him degrading me, I am a confirmed yaba left inmate so please upgrade my status ASAP and give honor to whom honor is due

agiboma:

HMMMMM loose canon you say!! Well i would of choosen a different word to use i.e lunatic, among other things but thats my opinion. Throwing heavy objects at the love of you life. Hmmmmm and then broadcasting it on NL wow. Well since her support network has sprung into gear lets bring in some reinforcement, thats the reason behind this post.