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Why Men Lust After Women.... by marvelck: 3:19pm On Apr 26, 2012
Dear Linda ikeji,

I am a fan of our blog, and I often visit your blog.

Please Linda, I need your readers’ advice on my indecisive situation over two girls currently in my life.

The story is this: I travelled to UK in 2003 to study Medicine and Surgery, at a top UK university. While I was in first year, I met this British born Nigerian girl; she is from a very wealthy family. The girl is full of intelligence; she graduated as the best medical student.

After our graduation, she asked which area I would like to specialise. I told her, I just want to be a GP, and work in any small General Practice office in London. As for her, she wanted to be a Surgeon or Anaesthesiologist. We pursued our aspirations, and now she is indeed a Surgeon and I work as a GP in a local GP Medical centre.

Since two years ago, our relationship has been going town hill, my GF does not do normal things she use to do to look prettier; She has stopped doing her hair, she is always at the hospital, and she has put on weight a lot because she stopped exercising. I even spent £2,000 to install all sorts of gym equipments in a spare room at our house, yet she won’t exercise.

Here is where the story got awkward; five months ago, I was at my office a Brazilian single mum came in with her daughter. Her beauty is incomparable. Her Bottom is something from outside this planet. I checked her daughter and found out she had influenza, after prescribing medications for her; I could not control myself, I asked the lady for her number. We started texting each other, she told me she is a divorcee, and she also has no job. Her sources of income are jobseekers allowance and child benefit. Yet, I found myself felling for her. She has learnt how to cook Nigerian Soup via youtube just to impress me.

I am confused. At the moment, I love the Brazilian girl, but she has no career. My girlfriend has a career but she doesn’t know how to cook, and she is not half pretty as the Brazilian girl. If I were to brake-up with my girlfriend, we will surely have a legal battle on who would have a lion share over our £550,000 house. But the property is not what bothers me at the moment. What bothers me is to make the right choice. Sex with the Brazilian girl is a dynamite..

Attached here is the back view picture of the Brazilian girl (see attached picture below); she took this photo when she went to her country on a holiday. I sent the photo on a UK based blog requesting for an advice, people were busy downloading and uploading the photo on their facebook instead of giving me an advice. Based on our ages, i am 29years old; my gf is 27 years old. The Brazilian lady is 30 years old. What would you do if you were in by situation?

Culled from Linda Ikeji's blog.

Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Idowuogbo(f): 3:23pm On Apr 26, 2012
Wtf!!!!! So ur point is?
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by marvelck: 3:27pm On Apr 26, 2012
O boy, u're only lusting after the brazilian lady cos she's sexy. love and lust are not the same. u better stick with ur girlfriend and forget about this brazilian girl. who knows,maybe she's only interested in you cos of ur money and what she stands to gain and benefit from you. and she's very much likely to break ur heart later, after getting what she needs from you. be wise and break up with the brazilian girl. and try to make ur real girlfriend realize how she's been neglecting her looks. sit her down and try sort things with her. she's someone to cherish. both of u make plans together and work towards achieving them. dont cos of lust, lose a good woman. do away with the brazilian girl. cos what u are feeling for her is not love, but lust! angry angry angry angry
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Exponental(m): 3:34pm On Apr 26, 2012
Lust! Lust!! Lust!!!
Nothing but lust........ What will u do if she losses her shape n beauty?
I advice u resolve issues with ur gf, else lust will keep pushing u around.
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by luckgames(m): 3:39pm On Apr 26, 2012
Please don't let looks cloud your judgement
NL will not be able to help you
You need to list 10 things you want from happy marriage
two sheet of paper one for your Nigerian woman and the other for Brazilian woman
Please don't base your judgement on Money and Marring Nigerian wife
Base it on what you think will make you happy
Get marriage prenuptial agreement, You need to protect yourself, nobody will protect you
if you marry the Brazilian woman
Good luck, Hopeful you can get a woman that will make you happy and a woman you can make happy
There will always be women coming through your door as a doctor
Please be very careful
Do you want to marry a woman with Kid?
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by ArQueBusieR(m): 3:45pm On Apr 26, 2012
Bull!
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Killz3(m): 4:06pm On Apr 26, 2012
ArQueBusieR: Bull!
. . .sh[i]i[/i]t!!
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by richy5(m): 5:18pm On Apr 26, 2012
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Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Skii(m): 5:26pm On Apr 26, 2012
MEHN shocked shocked shocked

That is what you call a drop top *ss!!!
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Maleeq(m): 10:28pm On Apr 26, 2012
A$$ like whoa!!!! wink
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Flashaldrin(m): 10:35pm On Apr 26, 2012
ArQueBusieR: Bull!
~Killz~:

. . .sh[i]i[/i]t!!
brb with the wikipedia definition!
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by 190: 1:36am On Apr 27, 2012
Menh Any lady with that Bottom up there should quickly contact me for marriage immediately

Im talking about marriage within the next 20mins ooh


No time cool
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Booty4me: 11:10am On Apr 27, 2012
Waow is that booty4me? How can one person be blessed like this?
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by xynerise(m): 11:27am On Apr 27, 2012
Mehn dis na temptation grin
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Tinax(f): 1:14pm On Apr 27, 2012
Booty4me: Waow is that booty4me? How can one person be blessed like this?
The more u look,the less u see
Re: Why Men Lust After Women.... by Idowuogbo(f): 1:16pm On Apr 27, 2012
xynerise: Mehn dis na temptation grin
Asewo!!! Lolzz

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