My bf and I are having serious issues recently. At this point I don't even know if there is still a relationship btw us. Personally I am trying to get over him anyway. He is on my bbm and status updates from him always get my mind racing back to the relationship. My friends have advised me not to delete him even though I really want to. They say that if I do then it'll be obvious that he's gettn to me. What do u people think? Would you still keep an ex's pin on your phone where he or she can check on you everyday?

It's your phone ain't it?

Delete it jare, so far it's officially over. Why cry over spilt milk?

Point is that it isn't 'officially over'. Just facing though times. But becos he's hurt me so deeply I want a closure from him. However don't wnt to show him how it hurts.

jenny2007: Point is that it isn't 'officially over'. Just facing though times. But becos he's hurt me so deeply I want a closure from him. However don't wnt to show him how it hurts.

you want an Official closure from the guy cuz you're hurting What i think is if you're truly hurting, you wud be d first person to end/close the relationship officially. But it seems you deeply love this guy..

You said he's an ex but its not official. What does that even mean
If you have serious issues you can't reach a compromise on then it seems you will always be at crossroads making it hard for both of you to continue. Aren't you an adult? Its ur life so make up ur mind

^^ In all my time here, I think this is the first time I am reading a normal comment from you. I am impressed
I hope you're not doing this just for the Mod post

Ijeoma

ijebabe: ^^ In all my time here, I think this is the first time I am reading a normal comment from you. I am impressed
I hope you're not doing this just for the Mod post

Politics is a biatch

^^I was hoping it was an honest turnaround but i'm not holding my breath.

bennyraz: Ijeoma

Na wetin, am I sabotaging ur campaign?

ijebabe: ^^I was hoping it was an honest turnaround but i'm not holding my breath.

Yeah don't hold it

ijebabe:
Na wetin, am I sabotaging ur campaign?

never/not at all.. I'm the electoral officer nt a campaign manager.. I think u are way too smarter than urself that's why i called/typed ur name ijeoma

Electoral officer? Where did you look that up?

190: sit down and have a 1 on 1 chat with this dude
stake your points and whatever the outcome then you can choose
to delete him or leave him on ur bbm
seems ur mind isnt made up cos u still love him
which is why you need 2 seat down and find out your position in his life

Taaaa! Stop it! Tell her to stop acting like a Nigerian gal mann!

@op

U don't want closure. I sense u very much interested in wot he thinks rather than how u feel,if u ain't comfortable wiv d updates, u no wot to do. U here seeking advice is pointless, na we dey boil wen we see update ni? We no b wizard and winches, only u no d kmphr ur body dey do. Act on it and stop living ur life based on people's emotions.

If na ur ex or u wan ex am, count ur losses and take a walk jor. wetin two of una wan discuss except una jam for road.
Sh!t happens, flush it, dats why d whites made toilet, stop gettin constipated on d mata jare.

oseiwe: If na ur ex or u wan ex am, count ur losses and take a walk jor. wetin two of una wan discuss except una jam for road.
Sh!t happens, flush it, dats why d whites made toilet, stop gettin constipated on d mata jare.

Having an ex as friends show only two things. That you still want that person back so you chat with him/her in the hope that they will come back or you are so over the person, you don't see how chatting with that person will bring back and feelings

190: sit down and have a 1 on 1 chat with this dude
stake your points and whatever the outcome then you can choose
to delete him or leave him on ur bbm
seems ur mind isnt made up cos u still love him
which is why you need 2 seat down and find out your position in his life

190 d clown so u can be serious like this,i am really suprised at ur change in behaviour lately and by d the way why are u always usin red font?

kulyie: 190 d clown so u can be serious like this,i am really suprised at ur change in behaviour lately and by d the way why are u always usin red font?

Though i dont av a BB..but i av d majority of my so cald ex on my 2go n fb chat..i dont c anytin bad in it..even some of them do update status like 'i lov my bf'..of recent,1 even uploaded a pix kissin a guy..but am not movd,cos dia cases r already settld in my mind,they r my ex,n we al av to mov on..so,to cut d epistle short,i dont fink its bad avin im on ur BB..but it wont b easy if u fink u are d 1 at d recievin end..besyds,dont eva fink of discusn anytin wit d guy as per d relatnshp..u ll only av suceeded in cheapen ursef..end of epistle..1 lov

Shebi girls dey get plenty toasters,why can`t you just jump to another guy with immediate effect,if to say I be woman,nobody for dey break my heart,if my boyfriend just fucccckk up,na to dump him asap,then jump follow another guy sharp sharp,after all am no longer a virgin and I got nothing to loose.