we ve bein datin for four months now but each time i try to get intimate with her,she refuse claiming dt she has nt done it before.she told me that she is virgin and she cant disflowered till she marry,she neva told me from the beginning abt her virginity yet she agreed to enter intimate relationship wit her. i love her so much bt i cant date without sex i have the intention of marrying her bt how can i stay witout sex it will only make me randy which i dont want .leavin her is hurtin myself nd her bt stayin wit her is to worsen ma ministry.am jst confused ur candid advice pls.

if she say she is a virgin,then take her word for it..
If you can't deal the way she wants to deal,then end it!
Btw,what's with your ministry?

If you cant hold yourself, is it right to cheat? Just tell her your stance and walk out of the relationship. That is the thing with life, you have options

Op, i understand u need a regular dose of se.x to stay alive? Luk 4 someone who has d same needs as u.... If u cant cope in a no-sex-relationship den butt out

thank u all 4 ur advice,she jst told me dt since i cnnt wait 4 her.dt we shld quit.

wynezz: thank u all 4 ur advice,she jst told me dt since i cnnt wait 4 her.dt we shld quit.

Smart girl

u dont av to force her

u knw exactly wat to do, bt GEJ's speech has being confusing u abi ;Du knw exactly wat to do, bt GEJ's speech has being confusing u abi