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The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 10:21am On Jun 15, 2012
Building and maintaining a healthy marriage is not that easy. It needs a lot of efforts and enough time. Both the partners should equally take efforts to make their marital relationship enjoyable and comfortable. Given below are some helpful tips that you can practice for a successful married life.

Communication is the most important key to a healthy relationship.Effective communication helps develop a strong bond between the couple. You should be able to express your feelings and share all your joys, worries and concerns with your partner.However, communication is not restricted to talking only. You should also be able to carefully listen to your partner.For being able to communicate effectively, you need to keep aside enough time for each other from your busy schedule. You must spend some time with each other for a meaningful conversation. Try to have a lunch or dinner together everyday.
You both should take hard efforts to develop the relationship. You can take a review of past moments and find out your mistakes and problems in your relationship. By this, you can decide the areas to be strengthened and improved. You can also seek help from a professional marriage counselor.
Another important thing for a healthy marriage is to express an appreciation. Saying 'Thank you' can make your partner feel special and appreciated. You should never miss to appreciate your partner even for everyday things such as cooking the meals, cleaning or taking care of the kids. It would make your partner happy and more enthusiastic.

Commitment is one of the most important factors in a healthy marriage. Your relationship with your partner should be a priority in your life. A relationship needs an attention and efforts to grow. Although you are too busy with your work, do spend some quality time together.

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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by 190: 10:23am On Jun 15, 2012
and you expect me to go there and read more

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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 9:27am On Jun 18, 2012
190: and you expect me to go there and read more

kmt - im outta here

You mustn't comment if you don't have something to say baby boi.

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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Ybutterfly: 5:52pm On Jun 18, 2012
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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 4:48pm On Jun 20, 2012
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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 5:46pm On Jun 20, 2012
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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 9:36am On Jun 21, 2012
Another important thing for a healthy marriage is to express an appreciation. Saying 'Thank you' can make your partner feel special and appreciated. You should never miss to appreciate your partner even for everyday things such as cooking the meals, cleaning or taking care of the kids. It would make your partner happy and more enthusiastic.

Commitment is one of the most important factors in a healthy marriage. Your relationship with your partner should be a priority in your life. A relationship needs an attention and efforts to grow. Although you are too busy with your work, do spend some quality time together.

Always be honest with each other. It is the most important thing for a successful marriage. Infidelity of one or both partners can ruin a marital relationship. If you commit any mistake, admit it to your partner. Being honest with each other, you can build a strong relationship.

Trust is the strong foundation of a marriage. You should fully trust your partner. It not only gives a solid base, but also helps develop the relationship.

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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 9:51am On Jun 25, 2012
Compromise is a very essential for any relationship. But it is especially important for a healthy marriage. Always keep in mind; your partner may be brought up in a different culture. Hence, you should be ready to accept his/her views and opinions. Even if you disagree on any issue, discuss it calmly. Try to find the ways to meet each other in the middle. If your partner makes any mistake, don't panic or don't hurt him/her by using harsh words. Control your anger and forgive your partner. By this, your partner will start to respect you.

Maintain your sense of humor. Have fun with your partner and laugh often. It helps relieve stress and helps get through a difficult time together.

Most marriages are romantic in the beginning. However, as time passes, a couple becomes distracted by work, business and kids. You should keep the romance alive and make your partner feel special by some romantic things. Go for a date with your partner, or arrange a picnic, or have a walk on the beach. Culled from www.familylifeguide..com

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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by claremont(m): 10:27am On Jun 25, 2012
An African alpha-male simply requires a lady to be good in the bedroom and in the kitchen, this system has worked perfectly for our ancestors. All these modern day theoretical bull-shit have not worked for us, and will never work for us.
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 6:23pm On Jun 25, 2012
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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 2:12pm On Jun 28, 2012
Marriage is a very precious and important commitment. It is a bonding of not only two individuals, but also of two families. Marriage offers personal, emotional and economical stability to a person. Hence, every person strives to maintain the marital relationship.

However, only living together is not a sign of successful marriage. It should be pleasant and enjoyable for both the partners. Successful marriage means commitment, caring and tolerance for each other. It is responsibility of both partners to make their marital relation healthy and cheerful. By adopting these useful tips, you can make your marriage a healthy and successful affair for years. Culled from...www.familylifeguide..com
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Amaryah(f): 2:27pm On Jun 28, 2012
The secret to happy marriage lies with the couple. All they need is understanding,love and patience. Op, nice write up by the way.
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 4:21pm On Jun 28, 2012
The poster above me just said it all
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 5:41pm On Jun 28, 2012
Mynd_44: The poster above me just said it all

@MYND 44 your opinion matter too, contribute!
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 6:09pm On Jun 28, 2012
Anyone who is in a happy, content marriage will tell you that a happy marriage recipe is keeping faith and trust in one another. Of course there are other factors as well, but if a husband and wife don't trust each other, then the marriage is definitely headed towards doom. How a person manages a relationship depends entirely on him/her. Lost trust can make the love between husband and wife sour, and it quickly turns into a frustrated marriage for both.It's a sad occurrence when a couple loses the one important element in their marriage. Believe it or not, but gaining someone's trust is really tough. Whether this feeling was intentional or unintentional, it brings a cloud of sadness for any couple. In our article, we are going to see how a couple can work together in rebuilding trust in a relationship and keep it so forever. Culled from www.familylifeguide..com
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 9:41pm On Jun 28, 2012
SunnyChus:

@MYND 44 your opinion matter too, contribute!
Na by force?
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 4:22pm On Jun 29, 2012
Mynd_44:
Na by force?
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 4:27pm On Jun 29, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]
Na by force?[/quote
I don't know where your coming from....do you have problem with the topic.
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 5:16pm On Jun 29, 2012
[quote author=SunnyChus][/quote]
No
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by mimima(f): 5:34pm On Jun 29, 2012
NICE THREAD.KUDOS

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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 5:22pm On Jul 05, 2012
TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

The Man:
1. You must provide for your wife. Don't allow your wife to provide for you.
2. Marriage is for two advanced forgivers. Don't allow grudges to build up, they create walls
3. Prevent evil from happening to your wife. Prevent people from taking your wife for a ride
4. Permit your wife to shine. Give her some place and space. Make her feel important
5. When last did you open the door for your wife? It is not about culture, it is about honour
6. Be kind to your wife. Grow as a man. Provide for her. You can not react to every thing as a man
7. Your greatest honour as a man is in your home

The woman:
1. Don't marry a man because of what he drives but what drives him
2. Seduce your husband. Don't always allow your husband to ask for sex. As a woman your under wear should match
3. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Be creative. Don't be predictable. Give him what he wants.
4. Everyone woman has an influence. If you lose influence over your husband you have lost womanhood
5. You must learn to synchronise with your husband. Be part of his plans
6. Don't have too many children. Sex is not all about making children. Dress to please your husband
7. Don't fix time to have sex with your husband. When a man is sexually satisfied he is emotionally stable
8. As a woman you should invest in yourself so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as a woman

Culled from www.familylifeguide..com
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 7:53pm On Jul 05, 2012
That is your magic pill? It is a waste of time jorh
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 12:54pm On Jul 06, 2012
Mynd_44: That is your magic pill? It is a waste of time jorh

@ Mynd44 or whatever you name is,I think your problem is that your a product of broken family.There is noway you can appreciate this topic.So you better keep MUTE and stop fooling yourself here. Thanks as you take my advice.
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by tobechi20(m): 3:08pm On Jul 06, 2012
9ce post.

I laff because majority arent married.

Wen we get marid, we forget everytin.

Are u Lookin 4 mariage tips? Then get marrid.

XPRIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER

ONCE AGAIN, GOOD POST
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 3:29pm On Jul 06, 2012
SunnyChus:

@ Mynd44 or whatever you name is,I think your problem is that your a product of broken family.There is noway you can appreciate this topic.So you better keep MUTE and stop fooling yourself here. Thanks as you take my advice.
And you read people's emotions too. You are the best but your idea still sucks
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by JojoArmani(m): 4:00pm On Jul 06, 2012
Mynd_44: That is your magic pill? It is a waste of time jorh
heeey man ur comments in dis his thread is not fair, if u dont ve anytin to contribute or to appreciate his thread. Is beta to read and pass dan .. . . . . . . . . . . . .Haba!

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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 1:16am On Jul 07, 2012
Jojo Armani: heeey man ur comments in dis his thread is not fair, if u dont ve anytin to contribute or to appreciate his thread. Is beta to read and pass dan .. . . . . . . . . . . . .Haba!
Bla bla bla
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 1:43pm On Jul 10, 2012
Mynd_44:
Bla bla bla

Oga Mynd 44...can u hear that...'a word to the wise is enough'. You have exposed yourself.

"The aim of education should be to teach us how to think, rather than what to think."
James Beattie
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Mynd44: 3:47pm On Jul 10, 2012
SunnyChus:

Oga Mynd 44...can u hear that...'a word to the wise is enough'. You have exposed yourself.

"The aim of education should be to teach us how to think, rather than what to think."
James Beattie
Bla bla bla
Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by SunnyChus(m): 3:06pm On Aug 06, 2012
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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by Tolaaaaannni(f): 9:11pm On Aug 06, 2012
Patience, Patience, Patience and more Patience.

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Re: The Secrets Of Happy Marriage by beedam(f): 10:27pm On Aug 06, 2012
smileynice

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