Chanchit: @op, tnk u very much for being sincere, for d first time, that i'm seeing o, OP did not say he/she is seeking advice for her friends enemies neighbor... She even went as far as saying she wants it....? And u will get it, in Jesus name...

tobechi74: Got one question.have u reach mariagable age?

He just wants fun too.
Frm wat ure sayin, u dont want to yield 2 d temptation.

Wen u go 2 see him, dres like a deeper life.go with bible..tel him ure a changd gal. Ure born again.u dnt du those shit no more.wen u chat him, divert ur discusion 2 God, bible, righteousnes, hell nd heaven.preach to him. ask him wot church he atends.

Watch his reaction--he might see u as a holyholy girl and mite nt want 2 annoy u by requestin 4 such previous fun.
If he is stil intrestd in u, his respct and regard 4 u wil increase.he mite ask 4 comitment.

If he is nt interestd, he mite dismis u, he wunt ask 4 s*x. Even if he does, cal it an abomination.tel him its a sin and leave.u wunt gve in 2 d temptation.

Don Carlos: No matter how hungry u might be, never succumb to sex on ur first meet, it devalues a woman's worth.
After 2+ years, u surely have a lot to talk about and watch his eyes as u talk, men are very poor at lying with their eyes. Why did he not call all these years, if he goes on 2, what if u're in a relationship already.
Whatever he comes up with, take it home to digest before making a decision. Never show a man u are in a hurry to accept his proposal, massage ur self-esteem, u're a lady damn it, let him work not walk his way into ur heart.

tres-chic:
This Is One Of The Times I Wish I Had A Boyfriend

My ex of about 2 and half years just came back from South Africa and he called that we should see. This is our story:

When we were together, we were in a non committed relationship. I really liked him, he was my type in everything: 6ft 4in, great body, (works out a lot), very good looking, speaks well, very nice, good job etc. But it was clear that he didn't want commitments, so I zeroed my mind and went along with the flow just for the fun of it and we both enjoyed each others company.

So he got transferred to South Africa and I will say the relationship ran its course. Now he calls like 2 and a half years later that we should see and sends messages with words like baby, darling, kisses etc. Now am thinking he wants to see for either of the following reasons:

1. Just for seeing sake, gist catch up on old times.
2. He wants to get serious.
3. He wants to get laid.

Now the issue is I don't want 2 be uptight and avoid seeing him, but if its for option 3, I really don't know how to avoid this because he is so attractive, and am so sure that for whatever reason either 1, 2 or 3 he's going to make a move to get intimate.

My problem now is that like I said earlier, he's rely is attractive, and I haven't been laid in like 6 months,(and am kinda 'hungry') so I might find it hard to resist, now here is what the part I wish I had a boyfriend comes in: If I had one, I wouldn't be that 'hungry' and wont find it hard to resist plus I would consider it cheating, but now nothing to serve as a check.

I've told myself that the furthest I'll go wit him is kissing, but never say never.... What should I do?

dasparrow:

Another adulterer on the loose

Since you are so 'hungry' like a female dog on heat, why don't you get married first and then "get laid"? This is why I have adviced my younger brother never to marry a Nigerian woman. Most of you ladies in Nigeria nowadays seem to be glorified prostitutes who will sleep with men for money, blakberry, brazillian weave and whatever else. Only God knows how many men you ladies in Nigeria share body fluids with before you people finally 'settle down' if I can even call it that. And then we wonder why HIV/AIDS and STIs are so rampant in Nigeria. But then again I don't blame you people. You people need to keep poking around to get your minds off the boko haram problem. LOL

as if you are a saint yourself

STFU dude - pot kettle black!!

life her alone, its her life

or can you manufacture a common GREEN COATED house fly which u are

dasparrow:

Another adulterer on the loose

Since you are so 'hungry' like a female dog on heat, why don't you get married first and then "get laid"? This is why I have adviced my younger brother never to marry a Nigerian woman. Most of you ladies in Nigeria nowadays seem to be glorified prostitutes who will sleep with men for money, blakberry, brazillian weave and whatever else. Only God knows how many men you ladies in Nigeria share body fluids with before you people finally 'settle down' if I can even call it that. And then we wonder why HIV/AIDS and STIs are so rampant in Nigeria. But then again I don't blame you people. You people need to keep poking around to get your minds off the boko haram problem. LOL

190: please somebody remind me
what OKAFOR'S law used to be. . .

dasparrow:

Another adulterer on the loose

Since you are so 'hungry' like a female dog on heat, why don't you get married first and then "get laid"? This is why I have adviced my younger brother never to marry a Nigerian woman. Most of you ladies in Nigeria nowadays seem to be glorified prostitutes who will sleep with men for money, blakberry, brazillian weave and whatever else. Only God knows how many men you ladies in Nigeria share body fluids with before you people finally 'settle down' if I can even call it that. And then we wonder why HIV/AIDS and STIs are so rampant in Nigeria. But then again I don't blame you people. You people need to keep poking around to get your minds off the boko haram problem. LOL

Ranoscky: Ivy, d tin sef taya me o!

kandiikane: Lool@ "kinda hungry"

Op, if you go see that guy, you will definitely nyash. If you really really sure you don't want to nyash, abegi, biko, do not go.

Even if you go there with your mind made up that you will not nyash, you will definitely nyash. I can bet you £10.

Anyway, you are an adult(I believe) and you are single and hungry. Go have fun jare.

Just don't make him take you for mugu, make sure he spends for what he is chopping.

Ivynwa:

Naughty Kandi
You made me laugh with your post.

Girl, we don Nigerialize you finish. See how you are using naija pidgin "ny*sh" and "biko". Na waa for you