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Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by google1(m): 12:03pm On Jul 19, 2012 |
So there's an article on nairaland this week that says that about 1 in 4 married couples sleep in seperate rooms for various reasons, and that it's becoming a popular trend and that by 2015[b] builders[/b] are going to start to include homes with adjoining his/her bedrooms(like you'd see in a hotel suite). Is anyone doing this in their marriage or approve of it and if so - why?? |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Tedpgrass: 1:22am On Jul 21, 2012 |
A man needs his space. His bedroom... the den/ study/ praying room... his workshop / garage Simply need ur space..... Particularly if one partner has an annoying sleeping habit like ..... snoring! Ever heard a locomotive come down your lane............ Men, u go bow!! . |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by 190: 1:25am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Any woman dares suggest such nonsense With me wud wake up d next day 2 meet all Her property and load outside d gate Arrant nonsense# #chews gum and strolls out of thread# 2 Likes |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by chelseabmw(m): 1:32am On Jul 21, 2012 |
I can't sleep alone without ma woman beside me....... We will stay together in one bed,one room for better for worse |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Tedpgrass: 1:51am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Can assure u these feelings disappear after a couple of years together. The man needs his space so does she.. It does not indicate lack of nocturnal activity but com'onay...... a bit of space pls..... . |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by doeeyed: 2:07am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Yep... can have separate rooms. Suppose if snoring was an issue, beats trying to grumble my way thru the night. My room for the clothes, shoes, whatnots... Closets aren't large enough. Trust me Me a permanent resident of his bedroom. And occupier of his closet too. Hmm. |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Princeparix(m): 2:09am On Jul 21, 2012 |
This bullshit, damn cowshit. Sleeping in different rooms? She better use her cafa or she wan go 2 months suspension{maybe explusion go better} bt nawa o>woman wey d suggest such tin; her husband d chop suya and onion sleep? |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by doeeyed: 2:33am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Wetin Prince, As long as its consensual.... no hala. It's not everyday u wan do the do.... reasons being: fasting, finishing an assignment or completing a project and not wanting to disturb the partner. So let her be.... Absence makes the heart grow fonder.... no be so. 1 Like |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Princeparix(m): 2:41am On Jul 21, 2012 |
doe-eyed:Separation makes the heart bleed; i no gree |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Princeparix(m): 2:42am On Jul 21, 2012 |
doe-eyed:Separation makes the heart bleed; i no gree. Nawa u o>DO WETIN> |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Nobody: 3:00am On Jul 21, 2012 |
But the best part is sharing a room I would think there is plenty of "space" elsewhere. |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Mynd44: 5:54am On Jul 21, 2012 |
We might be all that but we are still human. I don't know about y'all but I love my quite time and privacy so separate rooms it is 1 Like |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Nobody: 6:05am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Having grown accustomed to sleeping alone on my queen-size bed and enjoying the space and freedom of leg, I can imagine how clusterphobic and uncomfortable it might be if someone else slept on it every night. But even with that, I don't think I would do the 2 room thing. I'd just get a King-sized bed. |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by cindyrella(f): 7:19am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Mynd_44: We might be all that but we are still human. I don't know about y'all but I love my quite time and privacy so separate rooms it isUmmmmmm I see |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Princeparix(m): 8:02am On Jul 21, 2012 |
cindyrella:mynd_44 ur in trouble,dis one cind is kinda say I SEE>NA BALCONY SLEEP 4 U O |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Mynd44: 8:12am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Princeparix: mynd_44 ur in trouble,dis one cind is kinda say I SEE>NA BALCONY SLEEP 4 U OHave you ever heard of anyone who got in trouble for speaking his mind? |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by pendo89(f): 8:18am On Jul 21, 2012 |
So how does one handle this habitual drunkard that walks in the house very late,kids are asleep,ur bed all white linen smelling vanilla and he has pee and vommit from head to toe plus a trail of no. 2?? Uuuhm where does he sleep? me thinks a mat just next to the door would be more honourable for him. |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Princeparix(m): 8:31am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Mynd_44:No bro;hvnt heard>bt hv seen sumone getting into deep shit for threatenin sumone indirectly.lol Mynd_44 bounce dis talk and lets enjoy nairaland. |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Mynd44: 8:33am On Jul 21, 2012 |
NL is getting boring jorh. I try as hard to enjoy it as possible but noting helps again |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by LewsTherin: 5:48am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Are you married? (No, that's not it) Are you married and in love? (Not it either) Are you married and in love with the same person? (Almost it) I got it now. Are you married nd in love with the same person who loves you back just as much and is soo beautiful to you you can't get enough? What space? |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by amyg(f): 9:04am On Jul 23, 2012 |
Seperate rooms?4 wot nah?did u nt marry me basically 4 companionship,my company u shall have. Space ko space ni,haven't u had enough of it single?na me and u 4 dat room. Wherever u go,beside u is ma position.case closed!(abi u wana go back 2 d days I will wake in d morning and come knocking on ur door 2 greet u?) 1 Like |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Mynd44: 9:14am On Jul 23, 2012 |
^^ You don't get it. Everyone might need space sometimes. You will sleep together but just to maintain my sanity, I will keep a certain space to me |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Tedpgrass: 2:36pm On Jul 23, 2012 |
^^^^ tell them bro. In dem early days, yeah..... its like u can't get enough. But give it some time or years.... need ur space Don't mean the man's cheating.... Just need some space. U can sleep with a man every day or night and he'd be cheating if he wanted to... With dem viagra n redbull available.... * whistles off* . |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by amyg(f): 3:26pm On Jul 23, 2012 |
Mynd_44: ^^So hw ll u knw if I v night fever?drs no space/privacy in marriage. If u love ur space,u v no biz getting married in d 1st place. Kpom |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Tedpgrass: 5:07pm On Jul 23, 2012 |
^^^^^ Dear Amyng.... If u expect to be cuddled every night of ur marriage ........ u need to grow up n stop being clingy. No offence........ . |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by amyg(f): 9:04am On Jul 24, 2012 |
Crying(poor me) |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by micklplus(m): 7:59am On Jul 26, 2012 |
Space ko, space bus ni! We are going to be together on that bed oooo. I can excuse her if there are things to be done or deadline met. Anything other than that, na me and am on top my bed forever and ever. Amen. My parents have been sleeping on the same bed everyday for over fifty years! They don't appear tired ooo and I don't think they are going stop anytime soon. Come thief the space nah. Abegi, close up the space make I cuddle small jare. |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by Sanguine77(m): 12:48pm On Jul 27, 2012 |
amyg: Crying(poor me) Stop crying. The truth remains that most men are not comfortable with women and their baggage mentality: make up kits, ointments, perfumes, pancakes, mary kay's, face cleansers etc that smells stuffy. For me, I have already told my woman; seperate rooms and nothing's gonna stop that. Run ur things let me run my things but no infidelity. |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by mo2raur(f): 11:31pm On Jul 29, 2012 |
My parents share d same room but i would prefer my own room wen im Mrs, my younger sister n I shared dsame room b4 but since 7yrs ago we v different rms.Infact i cherish my privacy |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by victorian(f): 12:11am On Jul 30, 2012 |
One needs the privacy,as time goes on. |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by KayDee4: 12:44am On Jul 30, 2012 |
[size=13pt] The bedroom is a place for relaxing, sleeping, and where all the magic happens , not for office- or homework. I'll rather make the second room a study where I can sit in and do serious stuff when they come up but we'll have a common bedroom and common bed. Still wondering what privacy/space some peeps are talking about here. [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Sleeping In Seperate Rooms While Married? by afrobaby(f): 11:03am On Jul 30, 2012 |
Wetin ma eye dey read for nairaland self, space and privacy for marriage, the moment u say I do, dat one don go, except u wan say I no do again, I have my room but its trictly for my shoes and clothes, my room and the guest room are both for guests, except that the kind of guest will determine if u will b in my room or my guest room cos of my valuables in my room, but still I have some of my clothes and shoes even in my hubby's room. Let ma hubb build a mansion and decide to use a small cubicle as master bedroom, we will both be sleeping there, as long as we both love each other, there is no space to be given. Talking about meeting deadlines, study or doing assignment, back in school where we had roommates, do we tell them to leave the room because we want to read, mba, what God has joined together, let no bed or room put asunder |
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