It sure happened to me and i believe it's no crime as long as it's not your niece,nephew or someone so close,love i believe should be the basic thing searched for and when you find it forget where it comes from as long as it's not from your immediate sister or brother at least.

no big deal at allllllll

can't date ma cuzzin distance or near

why do u say its ur cousin. for that reason whether far or near its a taboo. because u are nice he/she might just want to hang out. and u know this people(girls) are too emotional they do not really know what they want. so be a good boy/girl there are so many girls or guys out there.

Not this topic again.

hotangel u took the words right out of my mouth.


and what type of question is that anyways ?? is it right to date ur distant cousin. distant or close when there is blood with u and the person ur talking bout then ITS WRONG. but hey, this world is turning crazier everyday.[s] but thats not even an excuse, so what am i saying[/s]

Seun sorry for the double post. my computer messed up again. e ma binu ( don't be angry) 


nevermind this

If you dont know,the issue of blood or no blood means we'll all be unable to get married for the fact that we all are tracable to one source,make findings and you'll be surprised as i was when i first noticed.Can get back at me if you want to know more.

so u're tryin to say that almost evribody is related to the other?

Ding! As the world crawls to an end!

First it was:

is it wrong to walk buck naked on the beach? then,

Is it wrong for a man to marry a man, ditto women? (didn't someone say God made them so?)

Now it's whether it is wrong to date a "distant" cousin.

Soon we shall be asked if it is right to marry our mothers, afterall kings of Isreal did so in the bible!

Goodbye world, i'll stay no longer with you,

when are you planning to die or are you relocating to mars

mukina2:

when are you planning to die or are you relocating to mars

my dear, i'm not planning to die. Jesus is coming soon! the endtime is near.

u think

Now i get it,the problem here is that no one as had the experience of love intimidation,well i hope and pray all goes well for everybody because that is the reason we ask questions and expect real answers,if we get good answers we'll know how to make life worth living.

Abeg this is not China where such absurdities are allowed.Dating n f**king a cousin is a taboo whether distant or near period.

wat type of question is dis in d first place?
nah, it doesnt matter how many kilometers there is with dat cousin but d word "cousin" is there n itz crazy to even think bout it

for crying out loud its incest and we all know thats a sin.so no matter how close or far its not right.

PLEASE DON'T DATE OR SLEEP WITH ANYBODY U GOT BLOOD LINKS WITH.

AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS.

PLEASE

I can really relate because this happened to me TWICE!! with 2 different cousins. Okay 1 is a daughter of some third cousin to my pops and she had a huge crush on me but i told her it was a no no!.
The other one is harder!!!, she's a step sister to my cousins!!!. We always had this mad crush on each other and it stared way back when we were shorties but it simply has refused t die!! when i went 2 naija in 2004, we messed around (didn't do it and she's a virgin) many people were alarmed and told us what we were doing was wrong, we tried 2 convince them but they weren't having it.
  To be honest i don't think it's right myself. I think you should never have those kind of feelings for anyone that has any kind of connection with you, i know its hard but believe me if u mess around like having sex and stuff, u setting yourself up 4 a lot of bad luck to come!!!. A friend of mine said he pumped his because and they both had some terrible things happen 2 them!

i can't

yea it depends on where your from,i know some of the arabs and asian countries who inter marry,they actually see nothing wrong with it.but in the african society its not acceptable,its incest.

Posh:

Abeg this is not China where such absurdities are allowed.Dating n f**king a cousin is a taboo whether distant or near period.

Said it all.

Nope! It is not right to date a distant cousin, no matter how far or how close to each other!

Because it is incest, period! God forbids!!!

Not thinkable sef