#Confirm,deny/dont bother#

Nope am not switching,just plain analysis(they are both solemnized).I was thinking since both vocations end up with one sacrament,y should it b much stressful nd tasking 4 d matrimony.wedding in the catholic church means d couple still wishes to proceed with the church not cos they got no options lyk some replies came in(right?).so y make it lyk they r running away?and if some dissappear and reappear only wen they need something from the church,its probably cos of the treatment they got along the line or they simply don't have it.mass wedding lyk some are suggesting(d deed and harm has been done)where's the joy?we are all human,my one pence sha.

Sal C: Honestly i can no longer place my hand on what you want.

Do you want us to just accept the fact that the priests are wrong and you are right. Even if we do, will that settle the issue?

Your reason for opening this thread should be to seek solution not just to criticise.

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Read d topic again,it will help u 2 understand.

italo:

"Lady" wey no dey hear word.

"Lady wey condemn me as an extortionist and exploitative priest.

"Lady" wey condemn all parish priests charging for wedding as "bastardizing" the faith.

"Lady" wey accuse me of being "tax collector," even though I have never met her not to talk of collecting anything from her.

"Lady" wey condemn me and the Church of these and many many more.

Pls don't call this one "lady."

That would be a disgrace to all the cultured ladies out there...whom I absolutely cherish.

10q also
Some more?

@lacum,thank u 4 telling d truth.so how much is d fee 4 ordination?

@Italo,Frm d onset of MY thread,u depict ANGER,BITTERNESS &UNHAPPINESS as a priest.am wicked,stingy,inconsiderate&a thief?thank GOD its a faceless forum else u would v slapped me as well or even cursed me.sorry u r nt God.u must really b guilty cos u r trying so hard.a while ago,u wanted 2 know wot can b done 2 salvage d situation&even feigned ignorance.how much did d church charge u 4 ur ordination?u feel couples r better opportuned and lucky 2 be married while u chose 2 suffer as a clergy so they ought 2 b purnished as well.both married laity&clergy r a vocation,no compulsion.u v ur holy order,they get dr holy matrimony. I repeat,HOW MUCH DID U PAY 4 UR ORDINATION?

Charging a fee is milder 2 d ears,greater than 7k is nt a fee its EXTORTION&EXPLOITATION.stop twisting words 2 suit u/sweeten it.

One thrilling fact about this is DT no receipts are issued so u don't v a proof/evidence of transactions.d game:even u ll deny wen called up.am not asking 4 a change ONLY FOR ME/MY GF,am asking U 2 stop bastardizing d catholic faith.None of d sacraments is 4 sale.speak out 2 ur colleagues involved &STOP if u r involved.no amount of explanation can justify d extortion&exploitation on couples,u r tearing homes apart!dis comes in2 play after d wedding.4 fear of being accused of running down an ordained priest,nobody ll talk so u think they r cool with it.like a poster said,if d couple is stretched,they can opt 4 another church DT can welcome them.cos d population is much,u wnt notice d withdrawals until u start wedding empty pews.Win souls 4 God,not 4 urself!pple including me are happier wen they give freely and nt wen compelled/wen its tagged.after d wedding,true Christianity begins.

Reveal ur identity then I'll give out the couple's names/other vtal details in a forum like this.@italo,I don't need ur pleading 2 get wedded in d church buh I hope in ur later years u ll look back and b happy 2 c d fire u started gutting u as well.we r quick 2 blame d president 4 his short comings buh d spiritual office u r spear heading,u'v become a tax collector.if u r yet 2 inform d bishop then u v been practicing human doctrinization.go back nd find out y u were ordained a priest nd stop conforming urself 2 d world with love of money.

Go 2 Imo state,Orlu dioceses.I won't b specific 4 anonimousity sake.also go 2 Enugu.

U already know the truth,cos u r fighting so hard 2 cover up.I v sighted enuf examples, need I say more?am glad 4 a forum like this,we are not allowed questions in the church.people are dying inside cos of their love for the catholic church,while those that can't cope just creep away.just incase u don't know,the population of sacramental weddings has droppeD greatly,reason"my thread".I rest my case but I thank God that I finally got the chance 2 speak up.God bless u as u give all we argued about a thought and mayb effect a change for the sake of weak souls.

There are 3 sides to every story,ur version,my version and the TRUTH.its like a stain of oil in water.even if it be a tanker of water,it must always FLOAT.once more,happy sales.

Dear Italo,can we pls stick 2 our point of arguement?I nevr preached against the holy eucharist(am a communicant),so u don't lift what I did not say.did u just mention thieves stealing frm d church?biko what are they stealing?salvation?whose is salavation?I bet u r a priest cos u r trying so hard 2 justify the church action.so if u were God,you would give children only 2 ur so callEd free-givers/better still only those that pay aS @when due?ha!you are frm true Christianity then.I beg to say that your thoughts are prejudiced.so you are happy to tell us that your sister paid 60k for the church to wed her?monetized matrimony(am I right?)lol.was it a freewill donation or tagged fee as usual.pls ask her how happily she gave.Considering the harsh economy,she must be highly paid.Frm ur angle,once a couple setS to wed then they must be rich.u r angry@the money lavished@wedding,bend down well my dear,its either on credit/loans.and the truth which u and I know is left to our conscience.be careful as a shepherd that you are not feeding off your own flock.u demand payment for those serving @ the lord's vineyard,its God's work u were not forced.u will be paid buh it must not be caShwise.most times,u r invited to the reception.money must come to God's treasurey buh don't withhold the sacrament when it dosnt come.and oh 4 the matrimonial sales,happy sales.

@italo,u sound so bitter.u may need 2 calm down.u mentioned giving cheerfully and freely,y then do they impose?all am saying is that just because its in their power to administer the sacrament,they should not use it as a means of extortion and exploitation.are u married yet?if no,pls ask those that wedded in catholic church what they passed thru. and when u wed,pls come back and tell us the honest version of ur story.I asked my priest back home,he told me that 2 get a reply after publication alone is 10k?Mary league 20k and others I wouldn't mention.pls am not here 2 pass judgement buh I hope my Jesus will b happy with them when they tell him what they v done with his flock. Tel me about the whites that introduced church wedding to us and how its done in their place.

Don't get sentimental my dear,Christ I love buh the so called Christians I dislike their attitude.I v notn against the sacrament buh those that v d authority 2 administer are deviating and making it so difficult.this happens in dis country alone.u may want 2 analyse white wedding for what it truely is and those dat introduced it 2 us,u ll surely tell urself the truth.pls take me back 2 St valentine and why he is being celebrated.so many human doctrines have been included.I will love to have a sacramental wedding buh am scared with the church demands.

All ur emphasis is on the choir,am a choirster and choir does not get more than 10k as substitute 4 their food nd drinks.why would the village parish charge up to 10k just 2 announce the bann whereas the wedding will not be held there?my dear,pple clearly opt 4 court marriage 2 avoid all these shit.

I understand clearly well all u v stated buh do u realize that the banns will also be announced in their villages.and so the payment continues.yes payments must b made buh dis high?hmn don't know if the couple will be left with much.I think then that white wedding is truly for the rich.

It really baffles me as to what's happening in churches @large,catholic church in particular.a friend of mine opting to wed in the catholic church was asked to pay 20k."y" I asked? Is it wrong to b wedded in the church/is the sacrament of matrimony for sale?y commercialize everything and yet they ll turn around to preach against abortion?I know some priests&Catholics 'll read this but just b4 you crucify me,just explain y.y r we deviating from Christ's teaching?y did st.valentine really die?NB:am a practicing catholic buh with these,I may b forced to leave so that I can really worship God for who he is.

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They are all thieves nd other stories.

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U shouldn't b here then.

Seriously,d dude(she-man)looks like a demon.I can't even look@his eyes.hope he has chopped off his joystick so we know how far he is willing 2 go 2 achieve feminity.*spits*

Dee amadi,what are u saying?I don't comprehend big grammar @night,someone please simplify it for me.So my grand parents',parents' tax were in vain.now its my turn to be exploited."shee NA like this e go dey dey?"what am I gonna Tel my kids?anyways,thank God am not a Nigerian

Me think his identity was @ stake.he needed 2 cover his tracks lest they talk

D-Explorer:

I was reliably informed that you ran away with a broke lad

, so we can't save it abi?

D-ex,wen r we gonna save ours?

,so today's lecture is about lying?*yawns*

I look 4ward 2 going 2 work everyday(AC things)