Segedinho:

What law should be used to judge the case

I don't think you understand whatever u have been writing since.

At first u blame d girl for not walking away.

You indirectly accepted mason did it but the girl is older and would have averted d scene using maturity.

You brought in d bible to show even if mason did it..he is right since they are assume as married couple under parental consent..

What is the correlation between what the bible says and what is on ground now knowing fully well they ain't married...

I don't know if you are related to hensben cos u are sounding exactly like him...

Ellexy:
How did you arrive at this ratio?


Both of you can get naked for all I care but if she tells you I'm not doing again, as a guy you dress up and free her to avoid stories that touch. NO is NO. STOP IS STOP.
If your partner is hurt emotionally or physically or otherwise, she might want to be curdled and pampered, doesn't mean your third leg must get action that particularly time. Wisdom has always been profitable to direct and is always justified by her children but it seems Greenwood's foolishness was too strong.
With the way things have gone and is going so far, we might never hear his part. He needs a miracle right now.

Segedinho:

You are getting more confused bro.


You brought in God's view using the bible as a yardstick.

You said there shouldn't be sex starved in any form.(((*So there is right*)).

U said where u are...they are assume as marriied couple since they live with each other under parental consent.

They onus is on u

Segedinho:

Does mason have right over when to spread her legs

Segedinho:

So according to you now.

Will they need a divorce paper from court b4 going their separate ways

Ellexy:
Since the case na bf/gf matter, I no see need for the Bible quotation but lemme just add that the Bible was addressing both partners and not women only using sex as a weapon.

Ellexy:
But then even in marriage, consent is key in relating with each other between reasonable partners, where you seek to please your spouse, rape should never come in the picture at all.

So when your partner is not feeling alright, you don't place your sexual gratification above their physical and emotional welfare and seek to get it by all means by forcing yourself on them. This is even between married folks not to talk of bf/gf matter.

Ellexy:
I'll also say that Greenwood is the one using sex as a weapon against the poor girl not the other way round, maybe you should check out the psychology of rape.

Segedinho:

In this case..there is no marriage.

He doesn't own the girl neither does he have any sort of authority over her pusssy.

The 2 things than can probably save mason
are

1)The video was doctored

2)Mason didn't hit her.

Inspite of that .I think his image has been rubbished.

I heard his name has been omitted from fifa21

Ellexy:
So did the Bible also say if your partner does not consent/agree or is not feeling fine you should go ahead and rape them?

BenNash:

So far, no one's come here to curse Greenwood and rain curses on him. Because of the evidence presented, we're sympathizing with the girl. Which is what a normal human being will do. Not blame the victim and claim innocent till proven guilty.

Do you know how many women around us go through all this shit but can't speak out because of this same shit. Victim blaming and trying to see things from the perspective of the alleged perpetrator not the victim.

Ellexy:
How can you expect everyone to act like Rihanna ffs?
When you abuse someone you don't have any right to determine how they react to it. Rihanna chose her own way maybe because Chris's was a one off, meanwhile Mason has been habitually abusing that girl

Karleb:
This kain discussion na for offline e sweet pass, for online, people go just dey emotional.

What if after everything, just like Neymar, Greenwood comes out innocent?

BenNash:
And it goes on and on. No post sympathizing with the victim. It's all about victim blaming, how she might be a manipulator, how she's older them him and should know better.
You're a sick fella.

BenNash:

3rd full posts.

BenNash:

2nd full post.

I can't quote your one sentence replies cuz the context is missing.

BenNash:

Your first full post about the case. You can't see the sickness in this?

donjazet:

Bro, all your posts so far on this issue have been to blame the victim.
We make an informed judgement on what is before us, not suppositions and intangibles.
So far, the evidence at hand shows a lady who has been physically and sexually abused by her lover. We see graphic pictures, we hear HIS own voice where he is aggressive and overpowering to her.

Any decent human being will be outraged knowing the kind of society we live in. If you start looking for justifications and manufacturing excuses to exonerate the perpetrator, it exposes your cynical mindset as an arbiter of crime. You are enabling crime. You dilute the message which should have been passed. Just look below and tell me if you see a pattern, someone hell bent on pinning this ordeal on the victim.

This is where you start to absolve the criminal.


This is where you swing fully into victim blaming. So shameful to read. I hope your employer sees these. You are a danger to women.




When someone even pointed out that his teammates had unfollowed him on social media, this was your shameful response.



At this point, it's fair to say, not only are you heartless and devoid of empathy, you are a potential rapists. No one goes this far to defend a rapist. It's mind jarring.

BenNash:
There's a video for God's sake. There are recordings and pictures for God's sake. Detectives are investigating and even added additional charges.

Do we need videos of the real action before we start sympathizing with the victim?

PS. My posts about this case has been against that fella trying repeatedly to indirectly blame the victim. You should probably go through his old posts.

BenNash:

I'm not a Saint and I'm not trying to be a Saint. If openly condemning rape and sexual assault makes me a Saint, then so be it.

98% of your posts since has been concentrated on how the girl could have done better and so many other sick stuffs. You've rarely said anything in support of the victim. That says a lot about your mentality.

A normal human will sympathize with the victim before throwing different postulations as to why the victim could be the one to blame.

You went as far as pointing out her age and how could have cause his reaction. That's sick bro.

Karleb:
I really don't get why some people get emotional over cases like this. It's best to be logical when rape, sexual assaults accusations are brought up.

Also, it's important to know that while some men or women can be abusive, the victim can be really manipulative too, especially if the victim is a woman.

It's something that has happened a lot in the past, I can't even start making list of women whom were later found to be lying after soiling a man's reputation.

Make we wait for higher authorities before calling names abeg.

donjazet:


It is gut-wrenching reading your posts. My disappointment comes from my expectation of you. I wouldn't be bothered if someone like donstan made this statement.

How can a right thinking somebody be defending a rapist.
You know the world we live in and the numerous obstacles that faces a woman. You most likely know a woman around you who have been beaten by her husband or boyfriend.

You see a picture of a girl bleeding, scars and lesions on her skin, you hear an audio of the rapist defying her wishes to not be penetrated and all you can do is to keep blaming the victim??

How so unreasonable can you be?? Victim blaming is heartlessness. It depicts a darkened soul, a mind washed of empathy. Where is your humanity?
Would you say the same if it were your daughter??

BenNash:

He's actually saying some crazy stuffs though. I don't think it's being old School asking why a rape/ assault victim didn't leave the situation.

Ellexy:
Lol, Elamps is a bit old school so I understand where he's coming from, that doesn't make him a potential rapist though. We can always argue out this things from 2 varying perspectives albeit he's wrong in this Greenwood issue.

donstan18:

You just dey cut corners since.

Come out plain bro. Own your opinion over this issue, nobody go beat you.

Kpata kpata dem go use epistle attack you, but you don talk Wetin you talk.

Stop disguising.

donjazet:


This is how you know potential rapists. People who see women as objects. Who degrade and dehumanize women, see themselves as superior to women, when they are in fact losers. Such a shameless human. To think I saw him as one of the wise posters on this thread. Tufia.

BenNash:

She walked away, didn't she? Are they together now?
Just rest abeg.
Dem say person rape and assault person sexually, you dey ask why she no walk away. Which kain sick talk be that one.

BenNash:


What part of this statement points to the parents knowing about the abuse that went on. I don't understand you o. He's stating what his daughter told him in the morning and what he feels about their relationship. Do you think the girl will play the recording of Greenwood trying to insert his dick into her to her father? Try to be logical about this thing.

The worse he could have know about this is that they had a huge fight and broke up.

Ellexy:
Marriage dey eradicate bad vices like Greenwood's?

elampiro:

‘She has told us her phone has been hacked. We told her to take it down, which she has done but it’s out there now so it is too late.

‘She is devastated because she didn’t want it released. We have known him since the under 21s. He has been part of our family for two or three years.

BenNash:

Maybe read a little about people in abusive relationships before making any further comments. It's not as straight forward as you think. He might beat her today and rape her and ask for forgiveness the next day and act like a total different person. The woman forgives and things go on normally until the next time it happens.

So many of it is also connected to psychology. And I'm pretty sure the parents didn't know anything. What even gave you the idea the parents would have an hint of what went wrong. People break up and get back together every time.