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Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello Leaves EFCC Office, Yet To Be Interrogated by Ferdinandu(m): 8:32pm On Sep 18
Nigeria is a failed state, it only takes Warlord to survive here. You carve out your own territory and exerts your authority over there . Yahaya Bello has carved out Kogi state as his territory and he is ruling there. You can only invite him to a table for dialogue not arrest,Wike is trying all to hold Rivers state he has carved out for himself, IPOB is trying to hold down South East for themselves even though their Leader is indisposed now, People like Asari Dokubo, Tompolo are carving out their own Turf in Niger Delta areas, Boko Haram and Bandit Leaders are creating their own kingdom in the North. You either create your territory or pledge allegiance to major Warlord or become a loyal subject to any of the Warlords. Ladies and Gentlemen this is Nigeria

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Celebrities / Re: Isreal Dmw's Deep Bow To Davido – Loyalty Or Too Much? (video) by Ferdinandu(m): 8:00pm On Sep 14
wealthyprince:
Nairalanders, something happened recently that has got people talking—Isreal DMW, one of Davido’s most loyal aides, made headlines after delivering a deep, respectful bow to Davido at a public event.

While some say it shows "genuine loyalty and respect" for the music superstar, others believe it might have been "a bit over the top". It raises the question: At what point does loyalty cross into something else?

Here are a few things to consider:

1. Cultural Significance: In many African cultures, bowing is a sign of respect, especially to someone considered your superior. Was Isreal’s bow simply a reflection of his upbringing?

2. Public Display:: Was such a public gesture necessary, or could it have been done in private? Does this kind of display put unnecessary pressure on others in the team?

3. Loyalty vs. Flattery: Where do we draw the line between true loyalty and flattery for the sake of staying in good favor?

What do you guys think—was it "a pure gesture of respect" or "a bit much"? Let’s hear your thoughts!


Video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_mBMqpZ7pY?si=MT2MO_bCjASNBg4_
People trek through Sahara desert, someone who cannot swim enter canoe to cross sea, all to escape Nigerian poverty but Isreal saw someone who helped him escape Nigerian poverty you expect him not to worship him day and night,all of you are what we call village people..

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Romance / Re: The Reason Many Young Men Are Afraid Of Getting Married... by Ferdinandu(m): 11:41am On Sep 14
seunoladele:


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Out of every Ben Carson, Cosmas, Mensah there are millions of Men who got disillusioned with life with the idea of "just get married and everything will take care of itself as time gets by". In a place like Nigeria if you don't want to end up in Poverty for the rest of your life don't ever get married and start bringing children to this world if you don't have some measure of planned out life. The kind of poverty I'm seeing in this country, it is better you live out your life in comfort without raising a family than living with a family with Nigeria kind of poverty. Angela Merkel never had children though a partner, same with Macron of France, Kamala Harris who is close to becoming American President don't have children but all these people are living their lives to the fullest without Children. In a place like Nigeria just make sure you secure the bag than Marriage. You can always get a partner or children at any time with your money but, you see that kind of Nigerian poverty, if you fail into it you are likely doomed to poverty for life. Don't let Motivational speakers deceive you. If a woman marries you because of your money, it is still okay if she is still loyal, you can always send her parking at anytime if she becomes disloyal. Ned Nwoko knows Regina married him because of his money but they are still happy, Same with Oshiomole and his wife, Hon Ukachukwu and his wife. So Bleep this kind of motivation

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Celebrities / Re: "Don’t Leave Your Husband Because He Cheated” – Laura Ikeji by Ferdinandu(m): 8:44am On Sep 13
eyesoflagos:

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/09/13/dont-leave-your-husband-because-he-cheated-reality-star-laura-ikeji/
She is really right but most of the new Generation will condemn her but they never knew that if their mother has left their cheating father 95% of them would have grown up in a single parent home.Nigeria divorce rate would have been as high as 95%
Education / Re: MC Oluomo's Son Gaji Graduates With First Class From University Of Hertfordshire by Ferdinandu(m): 10:23am On Sep 11
The Idiot continue using other people's children as Thugs while he refines his own Children. Calamity will still fall on him and his children
Travel / Re: Awka Fun City Gradually Taking Shape(video& Photos) by Ferdinandu(m): 1:23pm On Sep 10
Bestmanfornow:

Anu what do you know?
Mpama I know it is because of peanuts they are giving you as publicity agent
Travel / Re: Awka Fun City Gradually Taking Shape(video& Photos) by Ferdinandu(m): 10:29am On Sep 10
Bestmanfornow:
The ongoing Solution Fun City which is situated at the heart of Anambra state capital Awka is gradually taking shape, the governor of Anambra Prof Charles Soludo is determined to transform Anambra state, this Fun city comes with Water Park, Amusement park, Country Club, Sports complex, Family Park, Arcade, Cinema, Food court etc when completed it will be a very big boast to Anambra state tourist sector and boast the state IGR

Watch the video of the project through the link below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78449Left8
Why should Government waste money on this kind of project that will obviously be mismanaged and become a wasted resources. This kind of project can only be done by private enterprise. Soludo is becoming one of the most useless Governors of this country
Politics / Re: Percentage Of Nigerians Who Are Happy By Regions - Statisense by Ferdinandu(m): 9:09am On Sep 07
Biodun556:
grin

It takes some level ignorance and numbness to be happy in a place like Nigeria.
Politics / Re: The Origin Of The Lekki Refinery by Ferdinandu(m): 10:17am On Sep 06
We have heard and believed that Governor Tinubu carved out Lagos out of the Atlantic ocean and turned it to the biggest, cleanest,richest, safest City in the world and you all said he is going to do same in Nigeria. We are waiting just that I hope he won't kill us all with hunger first
Politics / Re: "Mele Kyari: NNPC GMD Must Go” - Protests Rock Abuja Over Fuel Scarcity by Ferdinandu(m): 3:19pm On Sep 04
1nice:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8W2PTQi7Qg
"NNPC GMD MUST GO” - Protests Rock Abuja Over Fuel Scarcity; Protesters Demand sack of Mele Kyari
Paid Idiots sponsored by enemies and rivals of Kyari to remove him from office. The real problem is the President and his cabinet. Removal of Kyari can't change a thing
Career / Re: When We Say A Toilet Cleaner Abroad Is Better Than Bank Manager In Nigeria by Ferdinandu(m): 11:10am On Sep 03
Notfogotten:
When we say a toilet cleaner in USA, Canada, UK, Australia is better than the manger of zenith bank, what we mean is that the toilet cleaner will never suffer what you are currently suffering in Nigeria.

Example include:

A. A toilet cleaner will never queue for fuel.
B. A toilet cleaner is less likely to be kidnapped in those countries
C. A toilet cleaner has 24/7 electricity.
D. A toilet cleaner has access to excellent Medicare.
E. A toilet cleaner is less likely exposed to armed robbers
F. A toilet cleaner eats better food and fruits than your bank manager.
G A toilet cleaner has access to good amenities
H. A toilet cleaner may have his children schooling for free in primary and high school
I. A toilet cleaner has a longer live expectancy than your bank manager in Nigeria.

Abeg this is slave mentality. You have been brainwashed to believe that life in the West is Eldorado. A place like US is Eldorado but the suicide rate there is 10 times that of Nigeria. The number of people who died of violent crimes like mass shooting, Gang violence is 5 times more than people killed by kidnapping, banditry and terrorism in Nigeria . Check facts and confirm. West is far better than Nigeria but choosing a low job like cleaner abroad over bank Manager is Slave Mentality

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Family / Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by Ferdinandu(m): 10:24am On Sep 03
Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!
One side of the story never tells the whole story. Your wife's side of the story is important here
Politics / Re: Katsina, Zamfara, Kebbi State First Ladies Receive Humanitarian Awards In Abuja by Ferdinandu(m): 8:58pm On Sep 02
ecamzy:


Source
https://thesun.ng/zulaihat-huriyya-and-nafisa-honoured-at-humanitarian-awards-and-magazine-event-in-abuja/
Useless awards to spouses of Idiots stealing their states dry while Bandits ravage everywhere. They give pack of Idiots tiny change from their loots, they went to Area 10 artists who prepare plaques on imagined achievement for them
Politics / Re: Billionaire Bill Gates To Visit Nigeria On Tuesday by Ferdinandu(m): 8:31pm On Sep 02
Nigeria is just full of ignorant fools that is why they'd rather believe beer parlour gossips instead authentic verifiable news, their politicians, religious leaders knows this that is why they kept using them like used sanitary pads, making sure they are forever kept in perpetual poverty and Ignorance. They drop beer parlour religious and Tribal rivalry amongst them and they keeps bickering instead of facing reality exactly as they are fast in accepting these beer parlour gossips about Bill Gates. See what most of the ignorant fools are writing here about a noble man who just wants to use his vast wealth to help the poor of the world to the extent he can.

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Politics / Re: Nigerians Lambast Oshiomhole For Calling Edo Governor, Wife Childless by Ferdinandu(m): 9:41am On Sep 02
politicoNG:


https://www.icirnigeria.org/nigerians-lambast-oshiomhole-for-calling-edo-governor-wife-childless/
Edo first lady fired the first shot by questioning the bachelorhood of Monday when it has nothing to do with his performance as a Governor. How can someone who doesn't have children be questioning someone who is not married 🧏

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Politics / Re: Chinese Firm Seizes Another Nigerian Jet In Canada by Ferdinandu(m): 2:29pm On Aug 22
InfoGuru118:

https://news360ng.com/chinese-firm-seizes-another-nigerian-luxury-jet-in-canada-amidst-asset-confiscation-trend/
But seriously, Is Federal government a party to that contract. I've not heard where a father is been held to pay his son's debt

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Business / Re: ₦110.9 Billion Public Offer: Key Takeaways From FCMB Group's Investor Pitch by Ferdinandu(m): 2:23pm On Aug 22
Only a naive person will still go and drop his hard earned money for these criminal Nigerian billionaires to be used in buying private jets in the name of buying shares. After 10 to 15yrs they think Nigerians must have lost their memories

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Politics / Re: Response To Osita Chidoka On Bayelsa, Imo, And Kogi Elections by Ferdinandu(m): 11:12am On Aug 20
ogugwa1992:
Re: Revelations of Bayelsa, Imo, and Kogi Elections by Law School Student, Chidoka, A Mere Tabulation of Personal Opinion of an Extern



https://www.peoplesdailyng.com/re-revelations-of-bayelsa-imo-and-kogi-elections-by-law-school-student-chidoka-a-mere-tabulation-of-personal-opinion-of-an-extern/

Na data we go chop? Everything about data is a threat to APC existence. See how the 1diot wasted 10 pages on cock and bull story not able to disprove any of chidoka's data

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Politics / Re: Young Artists Win Prizes As Enugu Marks End Of Sit-at-home With Art Competition by Ferdinandu(m): 4:37am On Aug 20
Tabithatim:

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2024/08/18/young-artists-win-prizes-as-enugu-marks-end-of-sit-at-home-with-art-competition/
If they didn't dialogue with IPOB they are really wasting time. Just putting a no of life in danger and then back to status quo
Education / Re: MFM Has Highest Number Of First-Class Graduates In Nigeria - Olukoya by Ferdinandu(m): 12:41pm On Aug 19
Everything must be used to hold down the sheeples
Politics / Re: I Mistakenly Signed Away Ogun Trade Zone To Dubious Chinese Firm - Amosun by Ferdinandu(m): 11:41pm On Aug 17
PressMyButton:
I knew Peoples Gazzette and dumb Obidients will always find a way to twist and manipulate the headlines to satisfy the hoardes of headless mobs. Rather than read the context of an article with clear understanding, they'd rather pander to sensationalism. The reason your brain becomes obselete when you bow down to Kanu to lick his urine.
See Idiot his father would mistakenly poured the sperm on the ground like ibikunle Amosun and he would have been spared the shame of a hopeless son rather his cunning mother like the Chinese cunned him into pouring it in. See the result now.

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Business / Re: Meet 24 Nigerian Billionaires In Oil And Gas Industry by Ferdinandu(m): 10:26am On Aug 17
SmartPolician:

Source: https://businessday.ng/news/article/meet-24-nigerian-billionaires-in-oil-and-gas-industry/
Is the list for Upsream only ? No AA Rano, no Salbas. Minus NNPC these 2 people who are family controls 70% of the remaining of oil distribution in Abuja where I live and Atleast 50% of the remaining Nothern states.. The list is either biased or the person sat down in his room and wrote fiction

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Politics / Re: Porn Video Interrupts Nigeria’s Investors Call On Dollar Funding by Ferdinandu(m): 9:09am On Aug 16
Islie:


https://www.thecable.ng/pornography-video-clip-interrupts-nigerias-investors-call-on-dollar-funding/amp/
Hacker my foot. A porn addict was part of the meeting, he inadvertently didn't control his addiction during the meeting

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Politics / Re: Enugu State Gives Churches, Mosques 90 Days To Remove Outside Speakers by Ferdinandu(m): 6:41am On Aug 16
OLAADEGBU:


The decision was made during a stakeholders' meeting on Thursday, aimed at implementing the Enugu State Anti-Noise Pollution Policy.
For this I endorse Enugu state Governor for 2nd term
Politics / Re: Simon Ekpa Hires A US Lobby Firm At ₦205 Million A Year by Ferdinandu(m): 9:55pm On Aug 14
10mobile:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/08/battle-for-biafra-moves-to-us/
Yahoo Yahoo comes in different forms in different countries I guess. The obvious similarities is that the Predator must find out what it's victim is desperate for and use it as a bait
Romance / Re: Alice Finot Proposes To Boyfriend After Breaking European Record In Paris2024 by Ferdinandu(m): 5:38pm On Aug 09
Welcum:

Doesn't seem romantic enough to me. I think there's something naturally wrong with women taking the lead in romantic tangos.




Nlfpmod
That's for your culture. This is a culture where in the first Family the President is marrying his secondary school teacher I guess and he is the youngest in the family he is supposed to be the father of the house. His wife and his children are all older than him

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Romance / Re: Text Between A Lady And Her Talking Stage Guy by Ferdinandu(m): 5:32pm On Aug 09
Westchester:
Who do you think is at fault here grin
Our culture is different from cultures in the West, if you invite a girl out you are supposed to take her out to where you can comfortably afford and pay for that or you can tell her before hand that you just want to take on a walk maybe to public park where you don't have to spend a dime. You can only decide to deal with some Girls without home training that will come and start ordering like a fool without your permission.
Politics / Re: EFCC Grills NAHCON Chairman Over Alleged Misappropriation Of 2024 Hajj Fund by Ferdinandu(m): 8:38am On Jul 31
Dapromzy333:

https://news360ng.com/hajj-scandal-efcc-grills-nahcon-chairman-over-alleged-misappropriation-of-fund/
Whether the idiot misappropriated the fund or he really used the fund for what it is meant for, all are misappropriations. Wasting 90 billion in another economy that is 10 times better than your own, to go and knack head on the ground and throw stones at imaginary devil is a bigger misappropriation
Fashion / Re: We Can’t Have A Nigerian Compete In Miss SA - South African Sport Minister by Ferdinandu(m): 4:30pm On Jul 30
God1000:



ActionSA leader Herman Mashaba also joined the debate.




EFF leader Julius Malema spoke about the matter during the party's podcast interview last week.



https://www.timeslive.co.za/politics/2024-07-30-we-cant-have-a-nigerian-compete-in-miss-sa-mckenzie-enters-debate/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8oRGfO1VEhU?si=enp1QeeEnrf4zzkS
South African content creator Jacqui jax
If in Nigeria if you were born and brought up in one state different from the one your father came from but your mother is from that state you are seen you as not been an indigene of that state so we don't have any morale ground to condemn South African views on this
Politics / Re: Tinubu Palliative: Anxiety As 740 Trucks Of Rice Fail To Arrive Most States by Ferdinandu(m): 8:24am On Jul 22
Imagine demanding for your father's bakery but the people who stole it from you sent you 2 loaves of bread to let you shut up. That is what Tinubu and his criminal Empire want to do Nigerians
Politics / Re: 'Nepotism Pro-Max’: Six Of Tinubu’s Last 10 Appointees Are From South-west by Ferdinandu(m): 6:01pm On Jul 19
Good2go1:


https://reubenabati.com.ng/feature/nepotism-pro-max-six-of-tinubu-s-last-10-appointees-are-from-south-west
Till everyone in this country understand that appointment in government position does not favour any region in real terms then we will never learn to look deep and fight for good governance. After Buhari's 8yrs of Nothern dominated Government, I'm definitely sure that Katsina his home state didn't change it's position in Poverty index in this country
Politics / Re: N70,000 Minimum Wage: We Can’t Pay Unless…. – Organised Private Sector Cries Out by Ferdinandu(m): 11:48am On Jul 19
treesun:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/07/n70000-minimum-wage-we-cant-pay-unless-organised-private-sector-cries-out/
If your business is not making enough to pay 70k salary to someone at this economy then close down the business or do all the work by yourself. 70k that cannot give one person one square meal per day for 30 days. Private sector in Nigeria is where you will find the most wicked set of human beings in the world. Sometimes you will see some people changing to the latest cars constantly, sending family abroad for holidays regularly, some even own private jets but the salary they are paying most of their workers will not be enough to eat only beans and Garri non stop for a whole month

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