Cyntie55:
Yes, he did. I even have the video as evidence. I don't want it go viral, I would have uploaded it.

If u ask me, I think he is already on drugs. All the signs are there. He is over pampered and using hard drugs too. I doubt if he is doing Yahoo because he is too lazy to even do what is needed. Find a way to get him tested for hard drugs and start rehab asap...I feel ur pain, may God turn his heart around

And y'all need to stop giving him money the way you do, you are funding his habits and spoiling him more. I really dont see any reason why you had to reduce your money to give him more. This is part of the pampering

jomarq:
please abuses are not enough, anybody reading this post should flog me but help out on solutions, do husband borrow wife money and get it back?elders please, i want to know if I was wrong

Although you made a mistake by giving out money that doesn't belong to you, both of your money belong to each other, however, she came and ask for you to borrow her, not dash her. Let her hold her own end of the deal and pay back. She may not know, but her integrity is also at stake. I think she should pay back, and I think you should insist that she pays back, because of next time. Put your ego aside. And please, make sure not to do more than yourself next time. As for this 100k, go n look for how to lend and return d money to d owners for now. Good luck

Danybest:
The same thing happened to me too on the same whatsap TV and I sent messages immediately to my mumu first bank and nothing was done by the bank uptill now and I strongly believe that first bank is encouraging fraud in nigeria like seriously

First bank wld never make any effort. They wld tell you the transfer was not made under duress, dat u gave your full consent by sending it yourself. Very useless people

SirMichael1:


Please try to read elaborately. I didn't choose to host the get together. It was my turn in the church.

Must you be in the gathering. When you joined, you knew what the requirements were. It's not by force.
Dem no dey take shame chop poison

SirMichael1:


I don't invite people, it follows a pattern. It's a monthly stuff. It's a get together. The last time it was held in my house was over a year ago. We're mostly over 20 members. 20 people spread over monthly will be 20 months, that's a year and 8 months. That's enough time.

Also more than enough time for you to save up 1k for food per person, on your next hostig

SirMichael1:


The previous get togethers I went to, their wife did the cooking. It's just making of soup while I make the swallow.

You might as well just make d soup. Since it's just.

Walk:
Does she have someone she listens to? Maybe a mother or something?

Listen to because of what na. On top of something so trivial. Cooking ain't easy, it's no joke, more especially when the numbers are more. Pls Mr op, of you can't afford the caterer for now, there's no shame in asking the organizers that now isn't a good and convenient time for you, pls move it forward. Simple. Don't kill the poor woman with unnecessary stress, just because you want impress some group of people. As far as I am concerned, it's absolutely unnecessary

macIB:
The doctor has a right not to attend to any patient he or she feels not comfortable attending to.
There is no law forcing him to attend to the patient. He has that option. He has done nothing wrong.

Very true. If he attends to d child and something bad happens, d same woman wld rain fire and brimstone. I am not a doctor, but I think I understand d doctor's angle.

moscobabs:

Can you read at all? Where did I say the driver begged?

Incase u dont know Lagos, Vehicle can climb airport bridge from Ikeja to avoid traffic and come down and turn to iyana ipaja road and that was everybody's believe until he drive down to the international airport even when we ask him where he was driving to he didn't talk except the passenger that start telling us that he had agreed with the driver bfre and that was when we have passed every bus stops around. Till now we never heard sorry from him.

If this is the first time you are experiencing it are motors like this, then you have been lucky. Their drivers are very useless and rude. They would even challenge you to call whoever you want and they would tell you their names. They would cramp up d bus without caring about passengers comfort. On one occasion, they placed a bag of rice to rest on my thighs. After much shouting, they removed it. I don't blame then though, Nigeria ain't functional. Otherwise, they should have long been shut down