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wrex001 (m)
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I recently watched a documentary on abortion and felt terrible about the whole process. It made me wonder how ladies feel after going through an abortion. some even go as much as three to four times.
according to the footage, the process involve bursting, disemminating, crushing and flushing. All these are done within the woman's abdominal part. Would any lady on NL that has gone through the process tell us how this feels???
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Hollysmile
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Ask your g/f. She must've had a couple of experiences.
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Monicaa
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Wat is wrong with his question Hollysmile?
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SeanT21 (f)
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Abortion is wrong.
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Hollysmile
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Oh, monicaa dear. Good mornin! How u doin?-?
I had 2respond dat way 2get him 2understand dat it's right there in his corner, cos he seem not 2 feel affected (he feels exempted).
Abortion affects you and i - everybody. Hope u know dat?
Neva meant to be dis harsh, anyway!
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Akinagirl (f)
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Hollysmile, tell us some reasons why it affects everybody.
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Hollysmile
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If it doesn't adversely affect the society, it would be very much accepted in the society.
Do u realize how many 'World Changers' dat have been denied de chance to realize dis assignment?
Besides, every life on earth has a particular problem they've been assigned to solve, so as to better the society.
Imagine if Obama was conceived as an unwanted baby and was aborted, do u think MLK's dream will be realized?
Come on gal, i can't believe u just asked me such.
If u have once had it, u don't have to condemn urself, just realize God has forgiven u (not really sayin u've done it, oh)! Hope u get me right.
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190 (m)
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A couple of decent babes in nland have had abortions its a well know tin so whats the big deal, 190 has spoken again as usual  |
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patwhizkid (f)
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Lmao
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wrex001 (m)
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I dont really get your point in what you mean by If it doesn't adversely affect the society, it would be very much accepted in the society.
. What made me brought this topic in is the fact that alot of ladies go through abortion without any sense of remorse. To know that abortion is practically a murder process since a child is formed within four weeks. I want to believe most ladies dont know this fact,as such does careless of whatever they had done. It seem no lady will genuinely open up to say what they feel after the process, yet they see it as its a well know tin so whats the big deal, 190 has spoken again as usual My question is this, do you really know what happens inside of "you" when you lay on that bed while those metals to goes in and out of your body? |
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ezinne1212 (f)
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It's a choice to have an abortion, and it remains a private matter. Don't know what documentary you watched, but i really wish people would educate women on not waiting till the last moment to decide to have these abortions. It's sad to think of the emotional and physical trauma that they go thru. I guess because of the stigma attached to it, people don't open up early in cases of unwanted pregnancies and thats where things get out of hand. There are two arguments to abortions, giving life and providing quality of life. It's all a gamble that we put in God's hands. There are also the exceptional medical cases where abortions become a necessity, but it still doesn't wipe away the stigma or the trauma.
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Abz
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@ poster
why would you want a woman who has gone through such as intimate experience come to a forum and disclose it, is your question about why would any woman want to go through such experience, in that case, is it not preferable to have that choice than not to,
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wrex001 (m)
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I believe if someone would share her experience on this platform, it would enlighten anyone that lacks the knowledge of what really happens during abortion.
Yes abortion is a thing of choice, but the choice needs to be clear and understandable. I once over heard a lady telling her friend "its just removing the spermatozoa from the womb". This I see as mis-information. The truth is; It is killing a baby in the womb before it grows.
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190 (m)
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@post ewwwwww @ abortion grooooooshhh well thousands of nland babes have done abortions they know dem selves so whats the big deal abt it u ladies knw urselfs,u have all done it b4 now watch dem bite me! |
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kok (m)
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Why truth come dey hard to talk like this na? no body wan talk make all this kia picanto girls wey full NL for fit learn. @post ewwwwww @ abortion grooooooshhh well thousands of nland babes have done abortions they know dem selves so whats the big deal abt it u ladies knw urselfs,u have all done it b4 now watch dem bite me! You this benin girl, e be like say concience dey judge you. which one concern you and thousands of nland babes? abi na your real name be thousands of nland babes???  |
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Akinagirl (f)
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Oh holysmile, I was just asking you to give details. And no I never aborted, I dont believe in it. But I just wanted you to explain the statment that you had made, thats all. I totaly agree with it though.
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spoilt (f)
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Abortions arent always as gruesome as they are depicted. Those documentaries usually are made and compiled by the anti-abortionists. It is their duty to give you the worst case secenarios. Watching those videos would make you wonder if the woman waited till a day before her due date before deciding she wanted to terminate the pregnancy. The aborted fetus is well formed with blinking eyes and moving arms! In reality most abortions are very uneventful and only take a few minutes. They have even been referred to as the lunch time aborton. You're in, you're out and back to work like it never happened. Not many people feel guilty about their experience. To some there was no oher choice and they would do it again and again if they had to. P.S I've always subscribed to safe and protected sex. Hasn't prevention always been better than any cure or fixes?  |
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Hollysmile
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@akinagirl, i know! I ain't really sayin u've tried it, just wanted u 2picture urself full of dat guilt (murder of an innocent child who's vested wit the mandate of makin a great change in de world). Atleast, just a thot of doin dat is enough reason to see why it's a general problem.
My dear, dis abortion thing tire me. Wish there was nothing like dat. But since we can't do eliminate it, let's educate ourselves, positively, about it.
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ezinne1212 (f)
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I believe if someone would share her experience on this platform, it would enlighten anyone that lacks the knowledge of what really happens during abortion.
Yes abortion is a thing of choice, but the choice needs to be clear and understandable. I once over heard a lady telling her friend "its just removing the spermatozoa from the womb". This I see as mis-information. The truth is; It is killing a baby in the womb before it grows.
Actually the woman has a point, the fetus is not formed until 8 weeks after fertilization, an ultra sound or doctor worth his salt will point that out. It is from that fetus that a baby is formed. So in effect, some abortions just remove fertilized cells being the ova and sperms. It's semantics really,but what you should be pointing out as the truth is not that all women remove babies through abortion, but rather all abortions remove the chance of a new life being born. Which is why i wish people would educate women, so there can be less casualties and in effect less abortions in our society. It should remain for medical purposes at best. |
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theolar
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Ladies shld really learn 4rm dis thread aside d info . Ladies shld read btw d lines d way guys are dissociatin demselves like it is only a womans problem. U sleep wit a guy witout protectn and u alone climb d table u alone have metals inside u , u feel d shame alone. Ladies shld use dis (NO ERECTION WITHOUT PROTECTION)
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touchmeder
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i once read there is the process where a hole is drilled thru the baby's head then everything in the head comes out thus shrinking the head and making it smaller so that it comes out of the woman's body with ease. sad huh But lets not forget tho they are instances when a woman's health is on the line where someone is raped or that sort of thing that becomes her choice and i feel i am not in a position to judge that sort of person All in all for those who just have sex without protection and are left in this sort of situation  |
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sexyLeamon (f)
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what is this doing in the romance section?  |
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Kemjisuper (m)
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Hmm, I like this "NO ERECTION WITHOUT PROTECTION" slogan for ladies. After all, they're the ones responsible for the erection in the first place! They better be armed with the prescribed protective device when shit starts going down - Oh y'all know what I mean!
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ashaby (f)
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[quote ] what is this doing in the romance section? Good question |
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dominique (f)
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what is this doing in the romance section? thought so myself. . . but iice and co don't seem to mind |
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dominique (f)
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i once read there is the process where a hole is drilled thru the baby's head then everything in the head comes out thus shrinking the head and making it smaller so that it comes out of the woman's body with ease. sad huhBut lets not forget tho they are instances when a woman's health is on the line where someone is raped or that sort of thing that becomes her choice and i feel i am not in a position to judge that sort of person All in all for those who just have sex without protection and are left in this sort of situation you read? me i saw. the unborn baby was dismembered and bits of tiny body parts were brought out one by one. . . i actually cried (which is something i hardly do   ) is that what the poster want women to share in this forum |
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190 (m)
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lol @ all these new comers they dont even know what they are doin here who told u man that im a benin girl abeg i get pric.k and privates ooh i no fit shout |
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nethacker (m)
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@topic, i don do one b4, it was really painful |
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biola44 (m)
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hmmmm, |
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wonderbod (f)
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Abortions arent always as gruesome as they are depicted.
Those documentaries usually are made and compiled by the anti-abortionists. It is their duty to give you the worst case secenarios. Watching those videos would make you wonder if the woman waited till a day before her due date before deciding she wanted to terminate the pregnancy. The aborted fetus is well formed with blinking eyes and moving arms!
In reality most abortions are very uneventful and only take a few minutes. They have even been referred to as the lunch time aborton. You're in, you're out and back to work like it never happened.
Not many people feel guilty about their experience. To some there was no oher choice and they would do it again and again if they had to.
P.S
I've always subscribed to safe and protected sex. Hasn't prevention always been better than any cure or fixes? so true.and its always funny when guys sit bak and wait to critize a lady for having done one when they,most likely hav asked a lady to do one |
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Bolarge (m)
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Abortion is wrong.
Seconded. |
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