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sexydoll (f)
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first of all i do not like guys that smoke or drink i just can't stand that smell. so my answer is definately no  |
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Txlonghorn (m)
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I smoke and drink, and I go out on soo many dates so eat you heart out.
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Oracle (m)
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well itz left for love to answer
if the girl loves the guy she'll definitely date him
she might even help him stop smoking and drinking
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Renike (f)
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nope!
what is the essence of going on a date with something u can't tolerate..pshhh..
don't smell a food u wont eat
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snazzydawn (f)
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I don't know why this Seun sef deleted my reply in this post.Very annoying.Well,to the question....hehehehee!!!!I don't know o.If I am down with the guy,why not?
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obum (f)
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Oracle, hope u ve not forgotten its easier said dan done.U think its very easy to stop a guy who has been smoking and drinking a chain smoker ?.
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lorraine (f)
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i date a man who smokes and drinks i just make sure he doesnt smoke around me
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lorraine (f)
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its all about talking if you let them know that you don't like it then they should understand it and respect you and then you both will get on much better
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Seun (m)
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Lorraine, what if you live with or marry such a man? Are you going to tell him he can't smoke in his own home? How will that work?  |
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obum (f)
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i really wonder oh  |
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Txlonghorn (m)
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Lorraine, what if you live with or marry such a man? Are you going to tell him he can't smoke in his own home? How will that work? (In his own home)........wow I need me a wife like that. |
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obum (f)
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Hmn txlonghorn u need that kind of woman in your mind.
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IAH (f)
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Hell No! Smokers tend to spit a lot, cough a lot and stink a lot! They also have red eyes and blackish teeth. Not to talk of being liable to die young.
Drinkers also belch a lot, stink a lot, have pot-bellies sooner, act so irritating when drunk and vomit more often. Yuck!
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Txlonghorn (m)
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Is that a question Odum?
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kellorah (f)
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hopefully..i wont marry a smoker....or a heavy drinker. my mom married a smoker (my dad) but he's stopped smoking (since december last yr tho).
i don't think God hates me that much...Lol
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mide2 (f)
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Smoking and drinking has got different levels......a social/occasional drinker is different from a binge drinker or an heavy drinker or an addicted alcholic. Likewise a smoker. So it depends on which category he falls into.
Personally i wouldn't dare go out with a smoker because i can't stand the smell and also can't risk my lungs with polluted air. Safer for him smoking than for me inhaling. As for a drinker........if it's only socially and occasionally, i don't see any trouble with that.
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WesleyanA (f)
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Lorraine, what if you live with or marry such a man? Are you going to tell him he can't smoke in his own home? How will that work? One, i don't pray to get married to a smoker/drinker. and talking about Lorraine. if they get married, why should the home be "HIS" and not "THEIRS"? |
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virozuru (f)
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HELL yeah! my ex, all he did was smoke and drink, i absolutely HATED kissing him, and he had the nerve to wonder why!!!  his mouth tasted like he was eating his own $hit! i guess drinking is okay, NOT TOO MUCH, but smoking is completely out of the question. i don't want to bury my boyfriend because of his habit. |
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virozuru (f)
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HELL yeah! my ex, all he did was smoke and drink, i absolutely HATED kissing him, and he had the nerve to wonder why!!! his mouth tasted like he was eating his own $hit! i guess drinking is okay, NOT TOO MUCH, but smoking is completely out of the question. i don't want to bury my boyfriend because of his habit. lmao i mean HELL NO!  |
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Z4M4eva (f)
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No I wouldn't date a man who smokes and drinks, his breath will be like...disgusting!
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Oracle (m)
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Oracle, hope u ve not forgotten its easier said dan done.U think its very easy to stop a guy who has been smoking and drinking a chain smoker ?.
yeah it really is easier said than done but itz possible Obum i guess u don't know how strongly love binds people besides he didnt kill or rape he just smokes love can turn him around |
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Ashbaby (f)
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love can turn him around
That will take a large amount of love! I think the thing is how strong is one to be able to put up with smoking and drinking before the person can change, or before one gives up and decides that enough is enough? As humans, we're resistant to change. We get comfortable in our habits in such a way that when a new concept is brought about, unless we're fully willing with all our hearts, souls, minds, everything we have, it's really hard to change someone, especially a smoker &/or drinker. I agree, to some extent, love can turn him around. But how long is that going to take? If you ask me, as humans seeking humans....for marriage, for friendship, for a relationship, it only makes utter sense to seek out someone who is as tolerant as possible. If I tolerate someone that can drink &/or smoke, so be it. If I can't, there's no point of looking for someone to 'change' as that will just end up making me frustrated and angry and mad for a VERY AVOIDABLE reason. |
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eveseh (f)
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if he stops i will,but if he dosnt than i'll telll him the last goodbye  |
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kizzy (f)
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HELL NO!! |
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Emad (f)
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yes of course
what is wrong with smoking and drinking
as long as he does so responsibly, sometimes they just need the right woman to help them get over their bad habits
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pannyman (m)
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In my experience all the girls always say "no way!", they wouldn't go out with a guy who smokes, yet it seems smokers get laid more than non-smokers. Girls sort of like the way the smokers exude confidence when they smoke. Women are funny creatures who are not sure what their likes and dislikes really are.  |
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busygirl (f)
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Hell NO. . it's a no go area for me.
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samsilo (m)
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It so happens I used to smoke and drink moderately.Like Emad said there are different levels to smoking and drinking. If a guy is a drunk who does not drink responsibly and gets drunk and misbehaves ,that's a big no no.
If a guy chain smokes and smells of tobacco all the time,that's also a problem because even when smoking I never liked the smell of another persons smoke.
To all the ladies , pray you never fall in love with a guy who smokes because from my experience during my days in the game(retired now)
First I never let any girl know at first meeting that I smoked.
Secondly I never smoked heavily so I would never be smelling of of smoke or have my mouth reeking of tobacco.
By the time the girl got involved in the relationship and knew I smoked,I never knew any girl who had the will to end a reltionship because I smoked as far as they were not there when I was smoking.
Even the ones who claimed to be conservative or religious. I quit smoking on health grounds only
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samsilo (m)
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I will just add,and I hope I will not be crucified. Most guys who are playaz know women generally do not practise what they preach, that will be the down fall of any "guyman", if he takes every thing women tell him verbatim. This why like Pannyman said, the seemingly bad guys get all the chicks.  |
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