.

So with all your mouth na widower you wan end up with.. your case is spiritual..

We know your plans is to milk the wealth of the man so why not go ahead and marry him instead of seeking for a go ahead from nairaland

Zzor:
Please what are the consequences of marrying a man with kid/kids from a previous marriage(widower)? I really want inputs from married women here and anyone with such experience should share please. Now would you advise a 20yr old lady to marry a 44yr old man(widower)with kids(four kids to be precise),real money is involved here lol.This is the current situation of my friend and she's already kind of attracted to the man and he's very handsome,fit and so young looking you wouldn't even know he's 44yrs already,your matured response is highly needed. NOTE:Please romance section e-warriors should stay away,I always come to this section for serious issues,please respect yourselves and please I'm not the person in question. Thanks

We know that gold digging "friend" is you.

For the right amount, they surely will.

Once money is involved, I wouldn't put anything past them

If she's ready to take care of the kids as her own..she can.. Or you can still take the opportunity afterall that's how you ladies snatch men..

Zzor:
Please what are the consequences of marrying a man with kid/kids from a previous marriage(widower)? I really want inputs from married women here and anyone with such experience should share please. Now would you advise a 20yr old lady to marry a 44yr old man(widower)with kids(four kids to be precise),real money is involved here lol.This is the current situation of my friend and she's already kind of attracted to the man and he's very handsome,fit and so young looking you wouldn't even know he's 44yrs already,your matured response is highly needed. NOTE:Please romance section e-warriors should stay away,I always come to this section for serious issues,please respect yourselves and please I'm not the person in question. Thanks

Whenever a woman begins to answer questions nobody's asking, just know she's lying.

All these Nairaland fake Amazons sef...na penis go finish you last last

You and your friend are premium gold-diggers

A friend of a gold digging bitch, is a gold digging bitch indeed.



A 20yrs old young lady should be developing herself in different areas of life, not developing appetite for a 44yrs old Pennis.

lilvicky68:
If she's ready to take care of the kids as her own..she can.. Or you can still take the opportunity afterall that's how you ladies snatch men..

Impossible. Only their mother can. Now imagine, the widower has multiple kids. Remember that the lady in question is just 20. This Zzor sef.

YourMajesty:
A friend of a gold digging bitch, is a gold digging bitch indeed.



A 20yrs old young lady should be developing herself in different areas of life, not developing appetite for a 44yrs old Pennis.

Let me be civil in answering you,the lady's dad is rich too and she has her own money so it's not a case of gold digging or whatever you may be thinking, everything is somehow complicated

Serious money is involved.
No finance no romance

lilvicky68:
If she's ready to take care of the kids as her own..she can.. Or you can still take the opportunity afterall that's how you ladies snatch men..

Taking care of the kids is not an issue,I don't think she has much to do as the kids are mostly abroad

Although he is too old for her, she can manage him, especially if he treats her like a queen and she loves him. This is a case of a widower, not a divorcee, so there wount be any ex-wife drama involved. However she needs to be ready for a lifetime stress training those kids, and managing a home of step-siblings.

Yes, if he has money

If her parents are rich, then what on earth is a 20yr old girl doing with a man who is close to middle age?

Zzor:
Let me be civil in answering you,the lady's dad is rich too and she has her own money so it's not a case of gold digging or whatever you may be thinking, everything is somehow complicated

LilMissFavvy:
Although he is too old for her, she can manage him, especially if he treats her like a queen and she loves him. This is a case of a widower, not a divorcee, so there wount be any ex-wife drama involved. However she needs to be ready for a lifetime stress training those kids, and managing a home of step-siblings.

When there's money there's nothing like managing him

Zzor:
Let me be civil in answering you,the lady's dad is rich too and she has her own money so it's not a case of gold digging or whatever you may be thinking, everything is somehow complicated

Shut up Mrs Civil Servant,

If she has her own money, she would use it to do something profitable that would take her mind from a 44yrs old Pennis. I can tell you for free that you or your friend are just gold digging ambassadors looking for excuse to deceive gullible Portharcourt men.

LilMissFavvy:
Although he is too old for her, she can manage him, especially if he treats her like a queen and she loves him. This is a case of a widower, not a divorcee, so there wount be any ex-wife drama involved. However she needs to be ready for a lifetime stress training those kids, and managing a home of step-siblings.

Hmm as for how he treats her,I give him distinction in that regards and he's very decent and God fearing infact everything is so right with him but my friend is so confused and really don't want to take decision she will later regret

She will have to manage his old age far into the future.

lilvicky68:

When there's money there's nothing like managing him

LilMissFavvy:
If her parents are rich, then what on earth is a 20yr old girl doing with a man who is close to middle age?

You guys are actually taking her seriously? Any 20 year old girl in Nigeria today will only Bleep a much older dick for financial gain. They have guys between 20-30 they're heavily crushing and lusting on.

LilMissFavvy:
She will have to manage his old age far into the future.

If the man eat and lives well he would be okay..it's just 24yrs difference

People marry for different reasons, including marrying for financial gains. I thought this girl is probably going for the money. If she's from a rich home and only 20, then I would not advice her to accept him.

Zzor:
Hmm as for how he treats her,I give him distinction in that regards and he's very decent and God fearing infact everything is so right with him but my friend is so confused and really don't want to take decision she will later regret

Una suppose know since Na

No be zzor use her mouth talk say Na only married/old men(like her father's age) she fit marry

Na only second hand men she fit attract



Zzor don't misuse this opportunity
This may be your only chance to get the man of your dreams

You and his first daughter go just dey share pad

LilMissFavvy:
If her parents are rich, then what on earth is a 20yr old girl doing with a man who is close to middle age?

The way everything started is somehow, it was from the church and the man's dad been an elder in her church liked her and gave her number to the son,in fact the man's dad don't want to accept no as an answer,he's already seeing her as her daughter inlaw.The man in question too won't let go,it's so hard for my friend to take her decision, everything is complicated

LilMissFavvy:
Although he is too old for her, she can manage him, especially if he treats her like a queen and she loves him. This is a case of a widower, not a divorcee, so there wount be any ex-wife drama involved. However she needs to be ready for a lifetime stress training those kids, and managing a home of step-siblings.

You believe this useless lies rolling out from a troll?

Sarcastic101:
Una suppose know since Na

No be zzor use her mouth talk say Na only married/old men(like her father's age) she fit marry

Na only second hand men she fit attract



Zzor don't misuse this opportunity
This may be your only chance to get the man of your dreams

You and his first daughter go just dey share pad

On a serious note I'm not the person

LilMissFavvy:
People marry for different reasons, including marrying for financial gains. I thought this girl is probably going for the money. If she's from a rich home and only 20, then I would not advice her to accept him.

You are right because the dad don't want to hear something of such,main issue is that age difference but his appearance does not reflect at all in his age,you will think he's in his 30's

YourMajesty:
You believe this useless lies rolling out from a troll?

Please leave and let people give their opinions, go to romance section and continue what you know how to do best,I warned you and your likes to stay away

Zzor:
Please leave and let people give their opinions, go to romance section and continue what you know how to do best,I warned you and your likes to stay away

If your father is the owner of Nairaland, then I will leave.


44yrs old Pennis kee you there.

lilvicky68:

If the man eat and lives well he would be okay..it's just 24yrs difference

Are you sure?at 40 he'll be 64

Zzor:
The way everything started is somehow, it was from the church and the man's dad been an elder in her church liked her and gave her number to the son,in fact the man's dad don't want to accept no as an answer,he's already seeing her as her daughter inlaw.The man in question too won't let go,it's so hard for my friend to take her decision, everything is complicated

Do people still do that?

lilvicky68:
Do people still do that?

somehow but in rare cases

lilvicky68:

Do people still do that?

You should know this girl for pete sake, no Truth in this bullshit.