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Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Johel(m): 10:20am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Pastorjohn2: I'm just marvelled at the other comments,they on code pushing the poor boy into depression...30-40k that can't enable one have a decent life in lagos knowing how expensive things are becoming speedily. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 10:20am On Apr 28, 2021 |
OP stay in your parents house for now.... When I started making little money...my mum called me aside and told me that my father's house belongs to me and I shouldn't think of renting an apartment then..... That was the best advice because I was able to save for some months and boom.... opportunity came....I was able to buy 2 plots of land.....of course with the help and little contribution from my parents....same money I could've spent on house rent was used in buying land.... My house is not yet completed but I'm proud of myself because before the year runs out ... I'm moving out of my parents house....not to a rented apartment......but my own house.... OP by the way .... I'm 28 y/o..... relax..... Don't put yourself in unnecessary pressure and hardship.... different strokes for different folks....just think it over... 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 10:21am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Your daily pay is #1k.How much do you spend in a day?#30k is a meagre salary compare to our lawmakers whose daily pay is #1m and #30m in a month. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 10:22am On Apr 28, 2021 |
EGBA AND IJEBU GUY'S IN LAGOS NEVER LEAVE THEIR PARENTS HOUSE _____SOME OF THIS GUY'S SLEEP OUTSIDE AFTER RENT THEIR ROOM TO TENANT |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by CheedyJ(m): 10:23am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Fall2021:A lot earn less ooo, people are just surviving by God’s grace ... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by GHOSTMODEBIZA: 10:24am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Guy man stay your parents house for atleast 1 full year so you can save enough to cover your daily expenses, naija nor funny oh. No let social media deceive you, majority of people telling you to leave immediately stil lives with their parents. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by ibechris(m): 10:25am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Take the decision and leave ur parents house. U will never regret it,and when leaving them,pls avoid gambling and friends who gamble. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by mbahdi(m): 10:29am On Apr 28, 2021 |
I calculated 350 naira you said you spend on transport,is it to and fro.if it's to and fro that means 350x27 working days=9450 Then 9450*12=113400.you spend in a year on transport, Then let's assume you rented an apartment of at worst 40k per annum. 40k-113400=73400 So moving out of your parents house is the best. 25 isn't good living with parents.you are already a man an should even be having like 10children by now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Heavensent01(m): 10:30am On Apr 28, 2021 |
30-40k is a small money, start the job first, at least spend some months before thinking about staying on your own if your income is 80k-100k then I can advise you to give it a try. is better for you to still be there while you plan ahead than move out and move in later when the burden is too much house rents, NEPA bills, security money, some expenses contribution in the rented house, feeding, transport will swallow that change you called money, not even in this economic crisis Nigerians are facing instead of seeking for advise, take your calculator and calculate 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by mbahdi(m): 10:30am On Apr 28, 2021 |
CheedyJ:A friend of mine with two children earn 10k as a secondary school teacher |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by CheedyJ(m): 10:33am On Apr 28, 2021 |
mbahdi:There you go...the situation of d country is just so pathetic..10k for a father of two, I can’t imagine how they are coping even if he does extra lessons to augment his meagre salary, it still won’t be enough... na wa oo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by SamuelLoch: 10:34am On Apr 28, 2021 |
You want privacy to be trying things out abi? Draft a SMART plan first... Make sure your plan would make you have savings! Don't depend on that job too much! Policies can change! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by quadriolakunle(m): 10:38am On Apr 28, 2021 |
It's really a tricky business. This was me some months ago opening a thread like this, just a few difference in facts. I think you should consider some factors which may take about 3 to 6 months. How much you would be able to save within the 3 to 6 months trail period, because somethings you may end up spending more living with your folks How much you're cna invest in your personal development within the period, and the sense of independence and responsibility you would need to charter the course of your life later. And after the trail period, if you feel you need to stay fine, But there should be a timeline. A year or two, you need to man up eventually. By the way, that income, I can only imagine how you would be able to survive with that on your own. While at the job, try to increase your capacity to earn. CIAO 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by frank417: 10:42am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Leave and soar |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 10:44am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Gabflex: If I were you, I will opt In for self-contained because I can't/don't pray/will never reside In one room apartment. I moved out the age of 19years and my salary was N13,000 then. Now I earn In Six Figures!!! All the best..... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 10:44am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Yes |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by morelli: 10:47am On Apr 28, 2021 |
My brother, firstly congrats on the new job.Now to the real deal,you are 25 and want to go and live on your own.I don't think your parents are chasing you out,I rather think you need the freedom so you can have unlimited access to numerous distraction like having girlfriends coming over to sleep over and the rest of all the the things that will steer you away from the path of progress (ie kepping late night etc).My brother STAY AT HOME and enrol for your Masters and other professional exams and get yourself equipped before leaving..please use your head.you got a small job and you already want to leave,God knows what you will want to do when you get an oil company job.Have you not seen young boys that build houses and tell their parents to come and live with them..Be wise[b][/b] 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Victoria938(f): 10:49am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Honestly if I were you I would try to keep living at home. This gives you the ability to save money and focus on your career. In a few years you will have a nest egg and hopefully a promotion/higher salary. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Blackdisciple(m): 10:53am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Bros no mind them ooo... If u are still with your parents and working you will have more money ... Stay there work first and see how next coming years will be... If na me sef na till am about to marry before I will leave 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nickymezor(f): 10:55am On Apr 28, 2021 |
frank417:Hmm |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Kyngfarabale1(m): 10:58am On Apr 28, 2021 |
leave ur parents home now and you'll come back here to complain to us again..... better use ur brain b4 dem help u use am.... are ur parent chasing u out of their house.... if no den I think you're a fool..... sorry... Hahahahhahahha 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:01am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Initially many peoples have given a good advice's, in different perspectives, but try and study the work,before packing.. Staying alone is good and challenging, but very good for good future possibility.. Best of luck.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Karleb(m): 11:09am On Apr 28, 2021 |
You want to live on your own with a salary of 40k. Na joke! I don't know where you stay but as a single guy who lives in his parent house, I can tell you categorically that you can't survive on a 40k salary. You could if you like to suffer tho but if you want to live life like a young person that you are, stay with your parent and enjoy the accommodation and free meal. If you think I'm wrong, you can try it. But I need to warn you, the experience would not be nice unless of course, you like to suffer. I once fed myself on a salary of 40k and it wasn't funny at all, funny thing is, the rent was free. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Fall2021: Welcome to Nigeria...... |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by ayandee: 11:34am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Khd95:lol |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by bnovative(m): 11:44am On Apr 28, 2021 |
You can go to work from your parents house while saving some money. By this you only spend on transportation. If you have your salary increased at the course of your work, then you can move out. 40k is grossly inadequate for you to live alone. Also, If you must leave, then come to agreement with your parents to augment your salary with some money. I wish you good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by izubext007: 11:48am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Yap............but after 3 months |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by SavageResponse(m): 12:02pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
Gabflex: Go and live on your own so you'll develop money management skills 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by kinkykinky2: 12:08pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
liveyourlife007: Dear OP, Please, do not listen to this advise. Comfort zone is not about leaving your parent's house to suffer. Be wise. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by THANDS619: 12:36pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
Fall2021: I earn 25k as a private school teacher. Before month ends, I don borrow borrow...This country is really a disaster. only few would believe yesterday's afternoon was the last time I ate... I no lose hope Sha because God dey 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by liveyourlife007(m): 12:38pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
going by your moniker, you are a girl, waiting for a man to bring you under his roof, you won't understand. So if you leave your parents house you are bound to suffer. then sit down there till you start growing grey hair. kinkykinky2: |
Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by THANDS619: 12:41pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
The decision is for you to make. My advice is that you should try to save first(100k or above). You can rent an apartment after saving. A man must be a man, you will leave them one day but the freedom that follows when one is alone is great as you will be able to think on your own, on how your life should be. |
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