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| Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Gabflex: 9:58pm On Apr 27, 2021 |
pls Pardon my poor writing. Am 25yrs and I live with my parents. I have never lived outside my parents roof since i was born, I feel its kind of slowing down progress not because I live with them but because I feel comfortable. I really love my parents and can't stand to watch them go through stress, especially my mum. that woman na Gold, she too try. I got a job recently and I thought I should get my own apartment close to work. one reason is people who held the post got transfered in less than 2-3yrs to another state and i learnt once ur good, u get promoted and transfered to be working in a branch outside the state. salary around 30-40k Transport from my parents house: #350 per day. some people are telling me to remain in my parents house and save since i wont be paying house rent in my father's house. getting a house close to work will cost me 30-50 per annum for a room (not self con) I base In western part of Nigeria. I want to be responsible and also my privacy really matters. what do you think guys? 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by liveyourlife007(m): 10:08pm On Apr 27, 2021 |
It's a good idea if you want to start living on your own,at that age, some of your mates are married, since you also mentioned staying with your parents is slowing down your progress, I know it may be hard to leave your comfort zone and all that, but believe me you will enjoy the Freedom and respect that comes with it. You can always visit your parents anytime. Go and Conquer. Gabflex: 37 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 27, 2021 |
Have your parents given you any discredit now sit down and calculate how much you might loose on rent 17 Likes |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Gabflex: 11:24pm On Apr 27, 2021 |
liveyourlife007: God bless you 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by liveyourlife007(m): 2:25am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Amen. God bless you too Gabflex: |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Greyworld: 3:00am On Apr 28, 2021 |
You see that same mama wen you call gold now at 25 won't be happy to let you leave at 30 or even 35. Then you go know she is diamond. Bros I advise you to leave if yu think you can handle being on your own. After all you would leave someday. Ask your dad at what age did he leave his father's house. 19 Likes |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Johnmax95(m): 9:56am On Apr 28, 2021 |
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| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by DamnnNiggarr: 9:57am On Apr 28, 2021 |
 Stay in your parents' house for now, Work at least 1yr in order to master the work and save a little. If you rush out now that you don't know anything about the job, you might get hurt. Immediately you mastered the job and saved a little, you can now pack out of the house. Pay no attention to those telling you to dwell in your parents house forever just because of what you'll gain there, me I packed out of my parents house at the age of 22yrs even with a meagre salary of 1.5k( though, that's about 23yrs ago) And I learned a lot, as the saying goes that experience is the best teacher. Do it, so that you'll learn to be independent in any situation you may find yourself. That's an elderly advise. 39 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Pastorjohn2: 9:57am On Apr 28, 2021 |
The salary of 30k How much is a bag of rice talk less of rent,feeding electricity and then transportation? You better stay with your parents Speak to your parents at least to know their thoughts on the matter 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by StylesX: 9:57am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Some are in Thier thirties and still in Thier parents house, just know if you move you can't come back anymore, with the way job insecurity is in Nigeria, you might loose the job at anytime, be sure that the job will sustain you and be constant so it won't be had I known, if your parents aren't pressuring you to move out stay put, everything is unpredictable in nigeria. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by hustla(m): 9:57am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Gabflex: Save for 6 to 7 months first and then move from there 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by richmond500: 9:58am On Apr 28, 2021 |
I think u should leave, ur transport only will take 90k yearly |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by phr0nesis(m): 9:58am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Remain with them for now, it will help you save. 40k isn't enough to cover all your expenses including house rent. I left home before getting a job and I know what I went through. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Bbbwings: 9:58am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Think very well. Your expenses will definitely be more than 40k each month. Have you been to the market recently? 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Iseoluwani: 9:59am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Gabflex: now you are becoming a man. leave home but don't be a damn niggar |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by design104: 9:59am On Apr 28, 2021 |
YEP |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 9:59am On Apr 28, 2021 |
pls leave home but weekends should be a good time to visit home and be of help to family... again save save and save... look for a good lady too who works as well. meanwhile do you need to track a stollen phone or dom you want to monitor any whatsapp line do you need to know what that person does on his or her whatsapp just call in on 0,,8,,1,,1,,3,,0,,7,,7,,1,,6,,7,, |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Onyi22(f): 9:59am On Apr 28, 2021 |
 Chai Mummy thank ma full Nairaland |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Fall2021: 9:59am On Apr 28, 2021 |
It really breaks my heart when I hear that people actually earn N30k per month with the high cost of living. This country is a disaster 19 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by lovinhubby2wife(m): 10:00am On Apr 28, 2021 |
How do you plan on feeding? that should be above 25k per month. where do you plan to get money for rent and other stuff from? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by CryptoTeacher(m): 10:00am On Apr 28, 2021 |
You've done the maths. And it's time to be a man. Leave that comfort zone and build yourself better. |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Springboot: 10:01am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Don't even think about it, work for at least two years or more before making attempt to leave your house, ignore the pressure from peers or social media. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by SmartyPants(m): 10:02am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Gabflex: Slow down before you fall into the trap of increasing your expenses in proportion to your income. At least earn for a while, save some, and then move out comfortably. You don't need privacy while you are still poor! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by fatymore(f): 10:02am On Apr 28, 2021 |
30/40k.... And you want to start dreaming of getting a new apartment Nigeria isn't smiling for now o. By the time you pay utility bills, feeding and transport fee you won't have enough to save. Plus 50k per annum is face me I face you so which privacy are you looking at 10 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by revived: 10:02am On Apr 28, 2021 |
E go be |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by AmazingELixir: 10:04am On Apr 28, 2021 |
 Op if you know what is good for you better remain in your parents house, N40k as salary is peanut in the current economic situation of things. It will count as failure if you move out and later rush back in as a result of hardship, it will be understandable if you're being transferred outside the state. Paddy man stay with mummy and daddy dey flex your comfort dey go jejely until you start earning something reasonable. My 2cent. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by FiverrTutor(m): 10:04am On Apr 28, 2021 |
If you have the patience. I would advise you stay with them for about 6 months before you finally move out. |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Anaerobi(m): 10:05am On Apr 28, 2021 |
My dear, stay with your parents for now... in Nigeria... 50k no b money... it's not easy out there o. please stay with them, save some little money, also be assisting them and also try to invest too. when the time to leave comes you will know... 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by StepTwo: 10:05am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Bro, save money while still with your parents and save real good. Nigeria is very unpredictable right now. Food prices are on a daily rise, you night not see it now because maybe you don't do the buying but I can tell you that 30k salary is not good enough for you to be on your own right now. Take more time to think about your decision. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by tiswell(m): 10:14am On Apr 28, 2021 |
 Iseoluwani: |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Nobody: 10:15am On Apr 28, 2021 |
tiswell |
| Re: Should I Leave Home After Getting A Job? by Khd95(m): 10:17am On Apr 28, 2021 |
you better stay in ur papa house, salary of 30k monthly would barely sustain u thru the month when u start living alone, u have not factored in nepa bill, monthly fee for security and cleaners, foodstuff and other miscellaneous expenses, when u stay with your, all these will be avoided excep[t occasionally when u give your mom money to buy food stuff in the house and once in a while buy stuff for ur parents, this will help you save a whole lot staying in ur father's house does not slow down ur progress oga, when u stay alone, you will be exposed to whole lot that will even distract you from making some critical decisions, because i am speaking from experience. you can be 30 and still live with ur parents, so far you are a responsible child and useful to them, no let people decieve you thatt at 25 you should have your house and all that, there is so much debit alert outside ooo so stay with your papa and be useful to ur parents, u have a job now you wont be at hme all the time and that will earn u more respect, thank you 6 Likes 1 Share |
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