SecretReporter:
through which of the company?

Lamanii22:


It's not a problem... It's a normal phase for a breastfeeding mom...

Lamanii22:


It's not a problem... It's a normal phase for a breastfeeding mom...

Lolachef:
Ask your sisters buffoon

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Lamanii22:


I said after a baby o... Especially if you're breastfeeding...

Married people please gist us

KemLaughs:
Develop superior belief systems.

Get the right exposure.

Be well-educated.

Have a life worth partnering with.

P.S: Am single.

1Sharon:


Then you'd get bored...

anigbajumo:


I don't understand, am taking care of her as if am her father. The two guys were to be her exs' when she was in secondary school. They met on Facebook exchange watsapp contact and tricked her for penny. Right now her sister is on my DM on watsapp begging me to accept her back, I don't knw if it's by force to date. If the begging is too much, I will block her. My guy 98% of them are coded olosho, just that many were smart and dribble their BF so they av not been caught.

uthlaw:
Bleep the sister begging you

MummyD2020:


You people should stop all this stereotypes. A woman can be widowed due to many reasons beyond their control. Open your mind

Kingzeez10:

You're right. I'm a living witness

Strech:
but you fit find me attractive na, so! How is it gonna be ?I fit do you all day non stop because the thing don too gather, I gather to offload.

larryjonze:





Alol !! have you ever wondered what makes forbidden fruit unresistable, you tell a child not to go near fire n suddenly fire becums alluring they will not hear won ma'waa ijn
I wasnt expecting much from you anyway,i support ur advise n i think it should go both ways. men should just fvck & dump gurls that carry entitlement mentality. no marriage without collective support. reality await you abike

abike12:


I gave this advice as a married woman with a lot going on for myself so I'm not sure what reality you think awaits me. When I say avoid stingy men, it's not because of the actual amount the man will spend but because it shows care and willingness of the man to take up responsibility. Also, men show love with giving, either giving of material things, time, effort and making sacrifices, so I strongly believe that a stingy man is a man that does not love you. I don't even advise a woman to marry before having a good source of income and life plan because having your own resources reduces the likelihood of abuse. Some of you need to understand that a lot of things can be correct at the same time. A woman can marry a generous man AND still have her own money AND also contribute to the family bills. Get rid of your myopic way of thinking.

Preshieben:
I'll come back and comment when I marry

I never marry

AutoChick4U:
So I resemble person wet go offload am?

Strech:
I promise to do you good and I no go rough handle you.. I can spend my last kobo on you.

revolt:

A Widow is not a single mother. Children do not learn what they are told to do they replicate what they see. There's a significant difference once the father dies but atleast ....Family is engraved in the girl child's brain ad compared to single motherhood where the girl is raised to be a strong independent woman and probably turned against her dad whom she sees as toxic. The mentality stats with the child even in marriage. They simply DO NOT know what a family is. They have a Cinderella nollywood idea of it which is a disaster.

AutoChick4U:
Thank u. Already got a good engineer

Xilsbridalhouse:
Pray

My dear, do not marry just anyone all because you are due for marriage, otherwise you’d see anyhow.
Before accepting to marry anyone, please and please involve the Author of marriage and our creator who knows the person you want to be with 100% and while doing this, work on yourself as well and pray to be a better spouse for your partner.

1. Do not fornicate with your partner before going into that marriage o! The accuser is always looking for opened doors to accuse you before God. Thank God we are serving a Merciful God but He is also a Consuming Fire.

2. God is not an author of confusion, so He won’t give you someone you are not compatible with! Watch out for compatibility as this would be necessary for peace to reign in your home.

For instance, I wouldn’t advise an introvert to marry an extrovert if you can’t handle his or her moving around, just stay off!

3. Ladies be submissive and respectful o! Dump all those feminists talks at your father’s house as no man will tolerate your rudeness, being disrespectful and nagging like wetin I no know!
Treat your husband like a King, trust me that is his MuMu Button o! Treat him like a king and he’d be willing to do just about anything for you.

4. Pray! This should be like your top most priority in that marriage. Don’t be on social media all day, go down on your knees for few hours and pray as a couple. Pray together please, as this is the unity the devil is fearful of. When two or more people....you know the rest. Pray together o!

5. Kill pride and be extremely humble. Stories like, he offended me so he has to apologize first should be left in your church bin after the ceremony biko! Don’t keep malice oooo...I repeat, do not and never keep malice! Forget pride, just walk to hubby or wife and start bombarding him or her with kisses and hugs, whether you are at fault or not. Be childish, tell Your spouse to carry you like a baby, pull a childish stunt to get your spouse attention and let peace reign. It is for your own good o! Don’t be forming I can keep malice for 200 years, na bitterness and sadness go finish you.
Also learn to forgive like a child. Don’t say things like, I need time to forgive you...which time biko? Unless of course he is a cheat and a wife beater, then you might forgive but I understand emotionally things can’t go back to normal. But once you pray for the right spouse, God will fight for you.

6. No room for Laziness in marriage darlings! You are Lazy? Dirty? Go work on yourselves now! You can’t enjoy such marriage. Also assist each other, wives are not slaves so men do what you have to do as a loving husband and how a king treats his queen.

7. Ehhhhh!!!! Third party Hian! Don’t try it!!! Erm “ I’ll report you to your Mom, Dad, Sister, Brother, Friend etc ...” eh! Don’t try it o! You only need God to resolve your issues. No single outsider should know what is going on in your marriage o! Quickly settle things before it gets out of hands.

8. Erm “My best friend is coming, My friends are coming “ ughhhh! Which nonsense friends? Better shut your home against friends if you want peace of mind. Not literally in a rude way, but there should be no form of closeness again, you are now married! Men! I understand you like to hang out with your friends but limit this as you are no longer a boy! You are now a man with responsibilities, so spend your time on productive things.

9. Be a good example. Treat each other in a way that you’d be grateful to God for bringing you two together. Communicate often, be each other’s best friend, look at situations from two angles and not just yours, correct each other with love, Study the word of God together and discuss your flaws and how to work on your flaws together. Laugh more and frown little or at all. Be an example of how a Christian home should be.

10. Don’t cheat on your spouse as all I have stated would totally be a waste of time if you do this. You won’t even escape God’s punishment and your life would remain sour unless you repent.
Don’t cheat on your spouse o!

10b. Ahhhh Finance! How could I have skipped this Ladies and Gentlemen, this is one of the major Koko in marriage o! Wives be like “ I can’t spend my money o” mostly after getting sick advice and Lori iro advice from fake friends! Hubby be like, “pay me back that money you borrowed from me” shior! Mtchew!!!!
If you can’t handle having a joint account, not with a cheat o! Those cheats will spend your money on side chicks and side boos, that’s why it’s essential you pray like Elijah before accepting to marry anyone biko! Nothing is more sweet like having a joint account with your spouse with super understanding and same spending lifestyles! You will so enjoy this marriage ehn! Especially if you both are not materialistic and would rather invest than buy overrated Aso ebis!
Ladies, this is majorly for you! Who told you that man is your ATM? You work, he works but your money is for yourself in particular ? What happened to being joined as ONE? Why would you watch your hubby suffer while you have more than enough to support him with even if you don’t want a joint account. I’m begging you please, do not leave financial responsibilities to men only! They are not robots na! Work hard, improve on yourselves, pray to God for creation of wealth opportunities, Be each other’s support pillar, don’t frustrate and fight over money issues. You must understand that you are no longer different individuals but now ONE.
Men if your spouse agreed to submit her salary or profits to you, and you spend such money on useless things like giving one side chick girl that is playing mind tricks on you or you trying to get in her pants....I hope you know God will forget you and no one will help you.
Don’t fight over finance please, and if you need to do things 50-50, do it peacefully and if you as a husband you are capable of shouldering all the responsibilities please do it without feeling like a god.


I have so much to say but I pray the Holy Spirit leads you right and help you to speak when you should, act right and stay mute when you should, also do not forget your in-laws are important! Treat them like your blood even if this is a bit stressful, God will definitely find a way to reward you and there is nothing we ask our Dear Father in Heaven that He won’t do. For instance you could say, “Daddy, I’m stressed could you please make my brother in-law to stop acting irresponsible “ and He will answer you.

God bless you as you invite Jesus into your home.