BRATISLAVA:


Glad to see some adults on the forum. I was waiting for your response to that hate filled character. Seems you have observed him already. If he couldn't deduce that you were describing an elderly man, it's obvious he's a lost cause.

These abusive small boys have made the place a battleground where anyone who doesn't feel the same way they do is insulted. Most of them are damaged, broken products of society. That is why civility is far from them.

This is exactly what i have been hammering since. Rubbing their weird upbringing on others.

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Hmmm

WoundedLamb:
It's funny the OP somehow believes men make more compromise or tolerate more in marriage. We all know that if married women decide to create threads to share the things they've had to put up with cause "that's how men are", Nairaland would crash. Anyway, I suggest he speaks for his uncle and not "married men".

U dey mind am. And to think that men suffer more is just abnormal but people can never admit it. Thats how crooked humans are. If u start asking everyone here who tolerates more in their family, they will tell u its their mums. But now, every body is pretending that the men take shit more. All na wash

kingthreat:


Go and taste clito and become a lesbian. You deserve to be in Afghanistan.

obviously you are a terrorist . Taliban lover .

Justbehave:
That's the most important thing to me. My kids. And If idie,then I ve lost everything.

Ni bi lie

Mavor:
Gbam!!!! Kids or not, I will never take such nonsense in my matrimonal home. I will treat her well and expect nothing else in return. She try rubbish and I send her packing. My kids remain with me. in general, 9ja girls of today's generation are not worth the hassle. Dont understand why women of our mother's generation didnt pass the virtue they have to the younger generation of today. That is why I am not keen on getting married, at least not to a 9ja girl, and I'm almost 40.

There is no perfect person. Even the one u are planning, what makes u think she will be perfect? My hubby and i always come to the conclusion that marriage is luck. Its like a bag full of surprises. Anything u see inside u take. Even if u reach 60, its not a guarantee. Its good to look before u leap but its never a guarantee . Its boldness

TWLifestyle:
obviously you are a terrorist . Taliban lover .

I rather be a Talib than someone a woman will spit on my face. You're probably a product of single motherhood.

You negroes will continue to make bad choices.

Even the red pill has failed to make you smarter. Africa is still backward but no, it's how to confuse yourselves because of women that's the issue.

Ode.

falcon01:
Because women whether you like it or not are thesame

This is just the simple truth. The problem you're running from in one woman, you might jam x100 of it in another woman.

pocohantas:


You no lie. This is a major reason many people stick to bad marriages/relationships. They rather remain in the marriage and seek a way to make themselves happy outside. If you even want to leave and you see what men and women have become, you go come wonder if anything dey outside for you sef.

Couldn't agree more.

I have tried to date many girls. It was always pain after pain. I finally dumped all of them.

kingthreat:


Go and taste clito and become a lesbian. You deserve to be in Afghanistan.

And you are seen as anything to Arabs? Go there na and see.

Mumu.

pocohantas:


You no lie. This is a major reason many people stick to bad marriages/relationships. They rather remain in the marriage and seek a way to make themselves happy outside. If you even want to leave and you see what men and women have become, you go come wonder if anything dey outside for you sef.

Very true. Many women think the grass is greener outside, until they realise it’s from frying pan to fire. Better make do with what you get and manage the situation. Contentment is a missing vocabulary in many women’s dictionary.

BRATISLAVA:


Let's hope God forgives him the way he forgave her.

And that he didn't poison the children's mind the way men normally do.

Don't mistake an unreasonable man for a man of principle.

I found his actions very extreme too, but you do not forgive women every time they come calling else you just become a foot math with zero relevance.

let her pay for her iniquities once in a while, that is a natural factory reset button.

saaron:
Some of you will think I'm talking rubbish but it's OK. Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction.
If you're a lady and you wear loads of jewelry, makeup and hairwicks, you're wearing on yourself the Jezebel spirit. The Jezebel spirit is a controlling narcissistic spirit from the PIT of HELL. This evil spirit domicile in women's beauty products is responsible for broken marriages and families across the world.
Pls if you want to be free from being possessed by an evil narcissistic spirit, stay natural. Put no makeup, fake eyelashes and rings. Stay away from all jewelries, earrings, makeup and wicks. They're all demonic materials made in the kingdom of darkness, specially made for ONE PURPOSE - TO kill and destroy.

Those who have ears to hear, let them hear.

P0rn Addict.

Repent and change your ways.

We know your type.

dettolgel:


Na you get nairaland ni?

Yes!

koyyess:

And you are seen as anything to Arabs? Go there na and see.

Mumu.

Arabs are humans, they created Dubai. 100times better than your country. So what is your freakin point

not every man though I can only vouch for myself, when I was courting my now wife, people were saying haa na omo Igbo you want to marry, them go show you this and that but I used to laughed it off because myself I know my second name na troublesome, so how someone go bring her own craze come meet me for house, she go hear am


fast forward to our marriage, someone that do apologise even when I'm at fault in the relationship, one dey show strong hand in marriage, I quickly tame her, as it is now, if she missed my call once, na so begging she go dey beg when I called back, na so she fear me reach



my parents just appealed to me lately that I should take it easy on Her, for whose house will one lady want to act craze? I dey give wahala problem myself

kingthreat:


Arabs are humans, they created Dubai. 100times better than your country. So what is your freakin point

Then go there and live like a 2nd class creature that you are.

That's how you got colonized in your own country in the first place.

Slave.

BRATISLAVA:


Most men on the forum like to play victim. It's part of the red pill, one of the most emotional and illogical male doctrines in action. They endlessly make themselves out as victims so that they can hate and blame women, while they go about with their bad characters as they've always been allowed to be.

Isn't it interesting that this thread is only for and about men? You'll think men are hard done by saints from their comments. Wait until women open the male can of worms.

Hehehe
At the emboldened, AKA men are venturing into women's turf and playing them at their game and Bratislava doesn't like it. . Understandably really 'cause men are your superiors in almost every facets of life; being your equal in the only aspect of life women have reigned supreme since time immemorial (the game of manipulation) isn't just fair, eh?

Eyah.

CHoccolaTE:
I want to hear the wife side of the story first

Even Tega has her own side of the story abi? Rubbish!!

Iyaebe:
Beauty is just an attraction, character takes you far in life so if any beautiful lady thinks she'll have her ways in all things then her beauty is empty devoid of wisdom

Who will teach this present generation...marrying a pretty lady na large work

Crossroad1:
Let me use my uncle as an example here..

I always say this. When you see a toxic partner in a relationship, look closer. You'll see that the other partner is toxic too. Toxic people attract each other.

Your uncle made the mistake of enabling her behaviour. It's very important to have healthy boundaries as to what you will and will not tolerate and assert those boundaries with consequences.

I don't know your uncle well so I can't pinpoint other shortcomings on his side.

At the end of the day, from what I've seen, the happiest marriages are the only ones that involve two whole individuals with a secure sense of self. Unfortunately, so many people get into marriages looking to fill a void within themselves. They get married for the wrong reasons

Him taking responsibility for his contribution to the problem and learning and growing from it is better than putting all the blame on his ex wife

The problem with red pill men is that they don't take responsibility. They blame everyone but themselves

The reason is because men by their make up can easily seek solace outside while remaining in the marriage for their kids.
But for Egbon that doesn't cheat or have a side chick. It would have been traumatic for him.

Most ill brought up girls are either raised by their mother alone or a domineering woman who has emasculated the father

MummyD2020:

U dey mind am. And to think that men suffer more is just abnormal but people can never admit it. Thats how crooked humans are. If u start asking everyone here who tolerates more in their family, they will tell u its their mums. But now, every body is pretending that the men take shit more. All na wash

See forget all these ur feminist views, men go through alot in marriage, but they don't cry n shout as often as d women do to let d whole world know what is happening. Y do u think d men often r d first to go to d Almighty God.

When someone up there says growing guys of this days should GROW UP and MAN up and be prepared/brace up for whatever the vriginal folks brings your way he wasnt lying.

i have a story to back the very unpredictable and irrational attitude of the gender we are talking about. i was transferred to a town in Ogun state sometime in 2012.
i got an apartment close to this couple. the Oga works with a cement company (quality control) so hes most time on night duty, he had his brother (lastborn) living with them then and the guys mum have a small provision shop close to their gate just to ensure some one is always at home while everyone is out.
the guy get money small, it happens the wiffy ask Oga for some money to buy market for her shop. oga decline base on she don mismanage bailouts several time. Na so madam madam go area command around that iperu go report say na so so night him husband dey go out to come back next morning. she lied. so police lay ambush for the guy, as he was returning home next morning, na so police gbab the guy. at area command, he was accused of being an armed robber,he presented his ID and his coy legal department stepped in, na so area comander invite wiffy to substantiate her claims. na there she break down like TEGA dey shed crocodile tears say she only want to deal with the hussy for not giving her money
Na small thing she think say she done do,she begged hussy say na devil. the guy was released. he entered car brought by the wife to station and refused her entry. las las she enter pub transport to meet hussy for house, ALAS, all her loads dey wait her for gate ooh... guy mama come scatter everything bring out breast for compound lay curse say if her son take the woman back or even climb her, na so and so and so go happen. her fate was sealed just for not thinking through her action before she go report....worst case her family reject her.

Gaddafih001:

Look at what she reduced herself to.
Truth be told,most women just wanted to answer Mrs,kill you and continue their whoring.
Even as young as I am,my own wife was hoping I will die when I fell ill.
I was down for 8 months and she never for one day said sorry,give me food nor water.
Even on the sick bed, I am still feeding my family.
It was my mum,sister and cousin that were feeding me.
I started running the day she said she’s expecting me to die but seems like it’s taking time.
I am just 36, I keep wondering what those in their 60’s pass through.

Oga Mi, the idea is just to have kids, live and let's live o... I know someone who was in a depressed marriage for 35yrs.
And the funny thing is, if the man dies, even the kids he wants to kill himself for will survive one way or the other

Only foolish men are like that. Real men control things.

kriss27:
Yeah! It somehow does

Care to explain?

Abi o...
E try..

Arsenate:

Hehehe
At the emboldened, AKA men are venturing into women's turf and playing them at their game and Bratislava doesn't like it. . Understandably really 'cause men are your superiors in almost every facets of life; being your equal in the only aspect of life women have reigned supreme since time immemorial (the game of manipulation) isn't just fair, eh?

Eyah.

You say men are becoming women? I have to agree. The number of gays hiding behind the red pill is something else.

How are men the superiors when they are whiny victims nowadays? Women are your superiors and that's why you're copying them. The future is female, truly

For people who enjoy the patriarchy in Nigeria, the whining looks ridiculous. This isn't the West. What's the application of the red pill whining when Nigerian men are above The laws they made? It is pathetic when it isn't amusing.

You don't like it when women are given breaks from men. Let the male whining continue. I like that. Nothing better than opening a thread to see inferior men literally crying.

realestate99:


I found his actions very extreme too, but you do not forgive women every time they come calling else you just become a foot math with zero relevance.

let her pay for her iniquities once in a while, that is a natural factory reset button.

Yet men want to be forgiven every time, by both God and women.