munstaqq:


Hmmm... Won't it affect her? Our fear is death.

Nothing will happen...visit a good hospital for proper advise and main procedure...Afterwards take her away from that environment.


For the man, lodge a complaint with police, ministry of women affairs and Human rights...Then follow it up for him to pay for damages and expenses incurred.

Move like a man.

freshalien:
Are you serious about what you wrote?? A 16 year old should be made to decide whether she wants to keep a baby or not? You want to ask a baby whether to keep a baby? That girl doesn't even know where she is going yet.

Also, under normal circumstances she ought to be in university studying not getting pregnant and you are asking if she should keep it. If you say she should keep it so she can give it up for adoption, what are the chances that after carrying the child for nine months, she would be willing to give it up. The best thing to do is to remove/terminate that pregnancy. She should go to a proper hospital and remove it. Married women do it everyday, so no big deal here.

Are 16 year old more stupid than say 13 or 14 year olde elsewhere who are allowed to make the same choice when in similar predicament? I don't understand.

Kobojunkie:
Yet there are many in the same Nigeria who have taken advantage of it? Look, it is an act available to those even in Nigeria to use. Since it is been codified into law in some states means those in those states can take advantage of it.

You call this a country ? Na prison yard we dey here o! We no even get right self.

Nackdemall:
Let him Marry her ! Case Closed

A 50yr old man to marry a 16yr old girl? Ahn ahn!

almarthins:

You call this a country ? Na prison yard we dey here o! We no even get right self.

There are many who live in that very same country and don't believe that for one second.

VTJN:
Private hospitals does abortion for young girls pretty well. They ain't quack, they got their liscence to practice on their own. Don't know of government hospitals though

The reason they don't usually do it in govt hospitals except on peculiar occasions is because it is illegal. Abortion is illegal in Nigeria even in cases of rape.

Kobojunkie:
Have you reported the case to the police yet? If she is barely 16 then it could be considered rape of a minor.

But was she raped?

Whatever decision you take please leave abortion out of it. Why destroy what you cannot create. We're talking about a human being in this case.

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MikeMicheal:
That 50yr old man don enjoy tight virgin pussy

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Sick mind!

Kobojunkie:
Yet there are many in the same Nigeria who have taken advantage of it? Look, it is an act available to those even in Nigeria to use. Since it is been codified into law in some states means those in those states can take advantage of it.

Then why didn't the Delta judge take advantage of it

I will advice you let your sister know she has your support. You should show her love now more than ever before. Relocate her to a place where she is not known just as someone else suggested. After the baby is born, it can be put up for adoption if you can care for it.

munstaqq:
Dear Nairalanders,

With a sad and heavy heart, I'm writing to seek your advice and/or recommendations.

My mum is late. She died 2 years ago and since her demise, everything has turned left for us - her children. We were deserted and left to fend for ourselves by our uncles, aunties, and other relatives that we thought were with us when my mum was alive. My dad is still alive but he only pretends to care about us. I can't even remember the last time he has done something good for any of us. Our school fees, food, everything, were taken care of by my mum.

There is a 50-year-old man who we were later told is our distant relative. His house is a stone's throw away from our house. When I was at home, I used to run errands for him, like going to the market to buy things for him. So it was normal. He used this same method on my sister. He took advantage of my sister's naivety and impregnated her. She's barely 16 and I swear to God, she has not known any man until this bastard did this to her. He even ran away from home and plan to come back when tensions are low.

Note: we left her in the village with my dad and my brother. We, the elderly ones left the village to hustle in the city. We have not settled and we couldn't afford to take them with us.

Please I need your advice. What should be our next line of action? He's 50 and won't marry my sister. There is also a high tendency that he won't even take care of her and the baby.

Please what should we do? We are all we've got and nobody to turn to to help us fight this battle. What should we do?

Thank you.

Please don’t entertain the possibility of marrying your sister off to a pedophile rapist.

Romanoff:

Maybe in the North.

With a good lawyer, the old man will rot in jail.

It won't be on account of her age but on the account that he really raped her.

Get rid of the pregnancy. It's simple

munstaqq:
Dear Nairalanders,

With a sad and heavy heart, I'm writing to seek your advice and/or recommendations.

My mum is late. She died 2 years ago and since her demise, everything has turned left for us - her children. We were deserted and left to fend for ourselves by our uncles, aunties, and other relatives that we thought were with us when my mum was alive. My dad is still alive but he only pretends to care about us. I can't even remember the last time he has done something good for any of us. Our school fees, food, everything, were taken care of by my mum.

There is a 50-year-old man who we were later told is our distant relative. His house is a stone's throw away from our house. When I was at home, I used to run errands for him, like going to the market to buy things for him. So it was normal. He used this same method on my sister. He took advantage of my sister's naivety and impregnated her. She's barely 16 and I swear to God, she has not known any man until this bastard did this to her. He even ran away from home and plan to come back when tensions are low.

Note: we left her in the village with my dad and my brother. We, the elderly ones left the village to hustle in the city. We have not settled and we couldn't afford to take them with us.

Please I need your advice. What should be our next line of action? He's 50 and won't marry my sister. There is also a high tendency that he won't even take care of her and the baby.

Please what should we do? We are all we've got and nobody to turn to to help us fight this battle. What should we do?

Thank you.

Report to the police as first step. Keep me updated I would tell u what next to do

Get him arrested. Take your sister to the lab, know her blood group. Let her get an abortion.

munstaqq:
Dear Nairalanders,

With a sad and heavy heart, I'm writing to seek your advice and/or recommendations.

My mum is late. She died 2 years ago and since her demise, everything has turned left for us - her children. We were deserted and left to fend for ourselves by our uncles, aunties, and other relatives that we thought were with us when my mum was alive. My dad is still alive but he only pretends to care about us. I can't even remember the last time he has done something good for any of us. Our school fees, food, everything, were taken care of by my mum.

There is a 50-year-old man who we were later told is our distant relative. His house is a stone's throw away from our house. When I was at home, I used to run errands for him, like going to the market to buy things for him. So it was normal. He used this same method on my sister. He took advantage of my sister's naivety and impregnated her. She's barely 16 and I swear to God, she has not known any man until this bastard did this to her. He even ran away from home and plan to come back when tensions are low.

Note: we left her in the village with my dad and my brother. We, the elderly ones left the village to hustle in the city. We have not settled and we couldn't afford to take them with us.

Please I need your advice. What should be our next line of action? He's 50 and won't marry my sister. There is also a high tendency that he won't even take care of her and the baby.

Please what should we do? We are all we've got and nobody to turn to to help us fight this battle. What should we do?

Thank you.

send him to zambisa forest

mariahAngel:
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Sick mind!

Say the truth, you are jealous of the old man

MuchAdo:


It won't be on account of her age but on the account that he really raped her.

Sleeping with a minor is rape cause she hasn't attained the age of consent.

greatiyk4u:


How many years experience di you have?

Between friends who have had missed abortions/miscarriages, ectopic pregnancies and fetal anomalies, a lot.

Vireani79:

U are so foolish to even consider he will marry ur sister
This is rape
She is a minor
When will u lots have sense
Find him and report to gender crime department in your state

As in eh. The op just dey disgust me with him statement.

They believed once a girl got pregnant out of wedlock, she should be married to the man who impregnated her. Forgetting any person can got someone pregnant. Even a mad man on the street will. Africans are just too backwards in almost everything , including their sense of reasoning

VTJN:
Private hospitals does abortion for young girls pretty well. They ain't quack, they got their liscence to practice on their own. Don't know of government hospitals though

Even in private hospitals, abortions are unethical. Maybe na code them dey use do am.

Kobojunkie:
There are many who live in that very same country and don't believe that for one second.

I had seen injustice of all sort. Infact I have no hope in this country any more. They Rob us of our right every day in this country. You talk you are in trouble.

MuchAdo:
Then why didn't the Delta judge take advantage of it

Judges can make those choices that is what appeals are there for.

almarthins:

I had seen injustice of all sort. Infact I have no hope in this country any more. They Rob us of our right every day in this country. You talk you are in trouble.

Injustice does not only happen in Nigeria however when you know your rights(the law includedd), you can stand.

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MikeMicheal:
Say the truth, you are jealous of the old man

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What a sick dirty mind you have!

Romanoff:


Even in private hospitals, abortions are unethical. Maybe na code them dey use do am.

Sure na codedly

Romanoff:
She is 16, she was raped.

No one should be made to have a child from a rape.

I'll recommend an abortion at this point but first things first, file statement at the police station so when ever the man comes back, he'd be arrested.

I think the hospital can grant a doctor's report on the pregnancy, age of the embryo and the abortion so it can also be put in file for the police.

What sought of a useless advice is this? U r talking as if abortion is legalized in our jurisprudence. R u not aware same is a serious crime in our criminal jurisprudence? So, decadence has so regenerated in our society to d extend that abortion has become a way of life? This is so heart wretchening. U speak with all forms of confidence as if it's a norm. Honestly, so disappointed.

VTJN:
Sure na codedly

Exactly.

Kobojunkie:
Judges can make those choices that is what appeals are there for.

Do you want me to show you a supreme court judgment on a similar matter

The supreme court judges did not rely on the child rights act!

Romanoff:


Sleeping with a minor is rape cause she hasn't attained the age of consent.

The age of consent is 13 in Nigeria.