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"My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by PrettyCrystal: 8:14pm On Jan 13
A woman identified as Rosalyn from Benue state has narrated her ordeal at the hands of her husband whom she claims abuses her both physically and emotionally. The unhappy wife also revealed how she found out that her husband had been sleeping with her sister for 2 years to the extent of getting her pregnant and aborting it.

Read her story below;

Good day, my name is Rosalyn.from Benue state I need help so I don't take my life. Because that seem to be the only option now. I got married in court at the age of 19 because I was pregnant and because I didn't want to bring shame to my parents, I got married and it has been the worst decision I ever made..I have never had peace.i have been abused emotional, physically and psychologically..I have no say,at that time I couldn't visit my parents, even when I was pregnant for my two kids, he treated me like I was nothing..

I did Cs and he threatened me to tell the doctor to discharge me because he didn't want to waste money,I ended up having infection on my incision area( a flesh eating disease) it nearly killed me.He refused to put me in school as promised nor pay for me to learn a skill..

I was being punished for everything, it was like I was walking in eggshells. he locked me outside till 3am with my newborn baby inside the room crying for hours because I asked him why he came home by 12am. He goes out to drink, club,cheats with many women.

One day, I asked him a question and he beat me up in front of his mother,then it happened again and again .I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..But he never changed, at times he won't talk to me for weeks nor buy food or eat the food I cook, he'll insult me and call me and my family names.

I keep baring everything until last year august when I found out he was sleeping with my kid sis who's 16. She told me that they've been having sex three times a week for 2 years,she got pregnant and they aborted it..I was devastated..I was shocked ,I was in pain..I wanted to run away with my kids but I had nowhere to go to,I had no money, no skill, no degree..

So i stayed bearing it all..He still hasn't changed.he use it to rub on my face instead..I have developed a terrible high blood pressure at the age of 26. He keeps tormenting me and beating me up.. Threatening me with a knife, I ran away to Lagos for some weeks.. Came back and this morning, he starts beating me for no reason... I need to leave this marriage.. I need to get my life back. I need help.


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/victim-of-domestic-violence-narrates-her-ordeal-at-the-hands-of-husband.html

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by HungerBAD: 8:16pm On Jan 13
Damn

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by OceanmorganTrix: 8:16pm On Jan 13
Bad

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by angels09: 8:16pm On Jan 13
Prettycrystal how did you allow such sacrilege happen?







Oh reported.
Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by RentedReality(m): 8:17pm On Jan 13
That's cold

Domestic violence is a self replicating cycle

The kids often turn to abusers later on

The role of the extended family is key here

Only they can mediate, others can only comment

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by dingbang(m): 8:19pm On Jan 13
Take heart dear.. The lord will fight for you

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by Yeligray(m): 8:19pm On Jan 13
This is why i suggest prayers before marriage

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by naijaboy756: 8:20pm On Jan 13
The real guy came to marry you, you said NO.

You want 6packs or cute man,,,

OYA NA!!!!

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by jesuslovesyou55: 8:21pm On Jan 13
Why
Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by Evablizin(f): 8:21pm On Jan 13
Too bad.

She is enduring her marriage instead of enjoying her marriage. Please run.

God forbid.

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by dingbang(m): 8:23pm On Jan 13
naijaboy756:
The real guy came to marry you, you said NO.

You want 6packs or cute man,,,

OYA NA!!!!
she got pregnant at age 19 na.. As a result she got married. Didnt u read that part?

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by Ahmed0336(m): 8:24pm On Jan 13
Dem tie you for dat marriage? E be like say u no dey pity ur kids by trying to die young

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by NgeneUkwenu(f): 8:25pm On Jan 13
Marriage Is Overrated!

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by CplusJason: 8:25pm On Jan 13
I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..
















A quick advice to the young lady who's facing this type of domestic violence... RUN!!!

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by KAYCEEJUNIOR(m): 8:29pm On Jan 13
Yeligray:
This is why i suggest prayers before marriage
haaaaa the mango weh full your brain na serious Opiolo mango, so those that sleep and wake up every day in church yet marriage no last Upto big brother Africa, wetin you go come suggest for them?

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by Abujaexpress: 8:31pm On Jan 13
Are the 3 pictures the same person?
... sorry madam.

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by vivypretty(f): 8:31pm On Jan 13
Na wa for your parents, so after seeing these injuries on your body they still left you with that monster of a man.
since you can travel to Lagos,i hope will not just say I want to divorce him but act on it whether your parents like it or not.

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by joinnow: 8:37pm On Jan 13
Reason like this should prompt the Government and NGO to set up home to take care of vulnerable people in this kind of situation.

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by Gungnir: 8:42pm On Jan 13
Awon badt guys....
Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by babyfaceafrica: 8:45pm On Jan 13
Lies
Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by BlackDBagba: 8:59pm On Jan 13
Did you say you went back? OK....waiting for front page soonest. Woman killed by husband undecided

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by Blackhawk03(f): 9:06pm On Jan 13
When I complain bitterly about women getting married with no source of income of their own, no skill, no savings to fall on and no certificate to bail you out in this kinda maddening case, they mostly think I'm just being paranoid. The greatest undoing of any woman is to be at total mercy of a man. Most women that stay back in abusive relationships are those who can't run their lives without the help of their husbands, the dependent ones. Ladies should stop this madness, marriage is enough risk already, don't complicate it further by going in unprepared.

This is another reason why I'm pro choice, please be very sure of the kinda man you want to move in with because of pregnancy or else, he ends up getting rid of you and that baby you're trying so hard to protect.

Lastly, I could possibly ignore or endure anything done to me by anyone but if you so as lay a finger on any of my siblings, I'll fight you with all I have. I mean, everything.

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by Jesse01(m): 9:07pm On Jan 13
the story sound some how, was d man force to marry her,because he seems piss off to be wit her y is he treating her like dat wat did she do,dere is more to d story dan dis.

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by terrezo2002(m): 9:08pm On Jan 13
The signs will be there during dating/courtship yet they will still stick their heads into marriage. Well, I feel sorry for her. The man is a disgrace to manhood.

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by tballeyy(m): 9:10pm On Jan 13
That is called ONE LOVE
Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by cyberaddict: 9:21pm On Jan 13
Someone please direct this to the appropriate quarters.
Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by EmmySparky(m): 9:23pm On Jan 13
the way women dey take rush enter marriage now eh...see this one now...though her case is different...most dont think before jumping into marriage....bad

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by zinachidi(m): 9:44pm On Jan 13
dingbang:
Take heart dear.. The lord will fight for you
Really? He'll come down from heaven and fight for her? or he'll send angel Michael to do the fighting? so she should just relax there and wait for the Lord to come?

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by Uyi168(m): 9:49pm On Jan 13
3times a week,the smally self na bad shooter o..

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by pocohantas(f): 9:49pm On Jan 13
Your husband is a paedophile. He should be jailed for that.
You were emotionally, physically and verbally abused in your marriage, you remained in it. Like that wasn't enough, you brought in your kid sister to partake in the toxic environment.
Ain't you a fool?


Ladies, marriage isn't a do or die affair. It's better to be single and constantly reminded of menopause, than to be in a toxic marriage.

When you do take that step, make sure it is worth it.
Lots of women that are totally dependent on their men are going through a lot and only enduring for the sake of their kids.

Ladies, be empowered. You owe yourself and your kids that.
Nigerian parents change!!

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Re: "My Husband Sleeps With My 16-Year-Old Sister, Impregnated Her & Aborted": Woman by veraiyke(m): 9:54pm On Jan 13
Sorry I had to call you a fool.

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