Lollittaa:
it's unfortunate your sister got pregnant under these circumstances. Nevertheless, murder is a sin. That precious life didn't ask to be conceived. Please do not terminate that pregnancy. I am not imposing my opinion on you, just begging you for the love of God.

Kobojunkie:
Have you reported the case to the police yet? If she is barely 16 then it could be considered rape of a minor.

BRATISLAVA:


That father is wicked. There's no rationalizing what he has done. If he were a more prominent person in their lives, they would have nothing to do with the old man who was preying on them.

Just hope the OP can fight for justice for the girl. One can only imagine the desperation that would make them run errands, and the trick the man used on her knowing she's young and impressionable.

Kobojunkie:
About the Baby, please do not make her abort it at her age. She is too young to have blood on her hands or mind please. She still has a bright future to plan.

She can instead give it up for adoption if she is unwilling to keep it though. Hopefully there are orphanages that are willing to take the baby off her hands you can can and talk to.

Should she decide to keep it, try to explain to her how difficult the road ahead is bound to become and let her make her choice. It is important to let her make her choice please.

luminouz:

That 50 year old man was the father in their lives as far as the story goes but he preying on that to harm a 16 year old girl is wicked. I still don't understand the thrill in fūcking an underaged girl. They are basically babies,no matter how big or endowed they are.

Romanoff:


If you go through a proper hospital, they will give her drugs including antibiotics to prevent infection.

First thing they'll do is a scan to confirm and date the pregnancy, then administer the drug to her and ask her to come after 7 days for another scan to confirm theembryo has been emptied from the uterus.

She will need lots of sanitary pads cause there will be bleeding and then there will be a little pain. Just a little more than period cramps.

Abortions are safer in hospitals, as long as there are genuine reasons like rape, missed miscarriage, etc.

MuchAdo:


Are you sure he raped her

Age of consent is 13, you know...

yetunsbay:
why run then

emmyN:


Eskiz me ma. Are you a serial abortionist or you be nurse? Asking for a friend

LastProphet:

Same stewpid religious rubbish sentiments, so why didn't God stop the pregnancy? Armed robbers, Fulani herdsmen rape women and they get pregnant, so why didn't God stop the pregnancy was he asleep? If he so much feel wrong about it then why allow it forced on an innocent woman. Always use your head

Romanoff:


I am neither an abortionist nor a nurse.

If I was an abortionist, I will not come out on a public forum and expose myself.

OP needs help, I am offering him help based on my knowledge.

What other questions might you have?

MuchAdo:


It's a shameful thing no doubt.

BigDolph:

Well I think reporting to the police is not a good idea. What if the man is richer and pays the police to do whatever he wants?

emmyN:


The accuracy of your knowledge could only stem from experience which is why I asked. Carry on.

VTJN:
who tells you abortion kills in this 21st century?

Those who died of abortion went to the wrong places due to lack of funds. They were unable to afford the right places. They had no money, yet they are having erection

Standard clinics does abortion hitch free.

InTheCloudySky:
Call it what it is: rape.

A 15-year old minor and virgin, and a 50-year old man = RAPE.

Report the man to the Police, have him arrested and charged.

As for the pregnancy, how far gone is she? If it's still in its early stages, she doesn't have to keep it. She's only 15 and has her life ahead of her. Definitely ask her what she wants to do, though, because her decision is what matters.

EndRape2:
visit human right .
Report his ass to the station, and I think he should take full responsibility of the baby.











author=munstaqq post=105711286]Dear Nairalanders,

With a sad and heavy heart, I'm writing to seek your advice and/or recommendations.

My mum is late. She died 2 years ago and since her demise, everything has turned left for us - her children. We were deserted and left to fend for ourselves by our uncles, aunties, and other relatives that we thought were with us when my mum was alive. My dad is still alive but he only pretends to care about us. I can't even remember the last time he has done something good for any of us. Our school fees, food, everything, were taken care of by my mum.

There is a 50-year-old man who we were later told is our distant relative. His house is a stone's throw away from our house. When I was at home, I used to run errands for him, like going to the market to buy things for him. So it was normal. He used this same method on my sister. He took advantage of my sister's naivety and impregnated her. She's barely 16 and I swear to God, she has not known any man until this bastard did this to her. He even ran away from home and plan to come back when tensions are low.

Note: we left her in the village with my dad and my brother. We, the elderly ones left the village to hustle in the city. We have not settled and we couldn't afford to take them with us.

Please I need your advice. What should be our next line of action? He's 50 and won't marry my sister. There is also a high tendency that he won't even take care of her and the baby.

Please what should we do? We are all we've got and nobody to turn to to help us fight this battle. What should we do?

Thank you.

munstaqq:
Dear Nairalanders,

With a sad and heavy heart, I'm writing to seek your advice and/or recommendations.

My mum is late. She died 2 years ago and since her demise, everything has turned left for us - her children. We were deserted and left to fend for ourselves by our uncles, aunties, and other relatives that we thought were with us when my mum was alive. My dad is still alive but he only pretends to care about us. I can't even remember the last time he has done something good for any of us. Our school fees, food, everything, were taken care of by my mum.

There is a 50-year-old man who we were later told is our distant relative. His house is a stone's throw away from our house. When I was at home, I used to run errands for him, like going to the market to buy things for him. So it was normal. He used this same method on my sister. He took advantage of my sister's naivety and impregnated her. She's barely 16 and I swear to God, she has not known any man until this bastard did this to her. He even ran away from home and plan to come back when tensions are low.

Note: we left her in the village with my dad and my brother. We, the elderly ones left the village to hustle in the city. We have not settled and we couldn't afford to take them with us.

Please I need your advice. What should be our next line of action? He's 50 and won't marry my sister. There is also a high tendency that he won't even take care of her and the baby.

Please what should we do? We are all we've got and nobody to turn to to help us fight this battle. What should we do?

Thank you.

Kobojunkie:
Have you reported the case to the police yet? If she is barely 16 then it could be considered rape of a minor.

Romanoff:


Experience, yeah. From friends and relatives who have either had a missed miscarriage or an ectopic pregnancy.

Not all experience means the person giving the knowledge is an abortionist.

Aside rape and medical reasons, I am strongly against abortion and premarital sex.

You should check out my profile in your free time.

descarado:
Wasn't rape. Court will strike it out.

emmyN:


Oh, I must have mistaken you for the Chidinmas of this world.

Well, I checked out your profile and your signature told me to fvck off. I don japaaa

smokeyupu:


What if the minor willingly participate?

SeedofAbraham:

According to the law, having a carnal knowledge of a girl less than 18 (who isn't an adult yet) whether by her consent or not is regarded as rape. It's believed that a girl child is still not able to distinguish her left from right until she's age 18 constitutionally.

Limassol:
She is 16 not 15!

Limassol:
She is 16 not 15!