Food again? Who is eating the rest of the meat and where is she diverting the money to

Ok

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

Mature men acting like kids......sorry mature kids

Omo the way married Men dey para these days ehnnnn

I believe it is disrespectful for her to CONTINUE dishing small portions to you despite the fact that you have complained consistently.

She has an idea on how your food portion should be and expects you to just follow like that.

You too, you have to consistently tell her what you want as long as she insists on dishing your food.

Some women are annoying and stubborn like that. There was one who was trying to force me into spending my own money the way she wanted. She would bring her unsolicited idea and expect me to follow it because that’s how it should be done.. But no, I resisted her every time. Person wey I never toast o. Very annoying.

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

Op, why exactly are you complaining to us

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

if you serve yourself will you die?

since she like economising, tell her you will be dishing food for yourself henceforth.

Barrister026:


Have ordered her to go put some more protein on several occasions.

But must i always do that?

Brother, accept my sympathies, but I must tell you one truth: in a monogamous relationship between a man and a woman, especially one that has resulted in marriage and children, it is the woman who generally holds power. Except in over-oppressive cultures e.g. some Islamic states like Yemen, Somalia, Iraq etc, generally women always determine what goes and what doesn't in the relationship and the home. So unless you are prepared to send her out of your life/end the relationship, you just have to abide by her conditions. Sorry, but that's just the way it is. When a man married to a woman, he gives up a large part of his power and freedom.

Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

That's African mentality. You can dish your food as long it's your home. Let people say whatever they want. They didn't give you money for the food.

Y

Hilarious...

The rate at which couples are complaining about each other on this forum will even discourage intending ones.....just too much.Haba!

Typical example of my eldest sister, she dey even do am to the husband. Check this kind people when they were single, they're always stingy even to themselves. Some shaa don't eat much when they were single, so they think same with others. But the main the main, na stinginess.

Jusy endure or you start dishing food for yourself.

Mariangeles:


Have a serious discussion with her na.
No fall hand because of food.

I want to respectfully assume that you're not married. If you were, you wouldn't dismiss the OP's concerns as falling hand because of "ordinary food"

NarcissistKing:


That's African mentality. You can dish your food as long it's your home. Let people say whatever they want. They didn't give you money for the food.

gbam!

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

yea not to make too many fuse about it u can just go to the pot and dish what u want. After all its ur hux and pot also. No cause for alarm. Unless she puts a restraining order on u not to near her pot

Change Ur Style

Barrister026:
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Bruz i feel you, personally I hate repeating a feedback/instructions or whatever more than once.

But do you know your wife is unknowingly doing you a big favour. Too much consumption of red meat leads to health issues and I am sure you don’t know this but you’d live longer by eating less #fact.

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Mariangeles:
Your wife is acting based on the way she was raised.
When it comes to food, men adjust in the ways of their wives.
Besides, too much meat is not good for you and your wife is protecting from being overfed.

The woman should do what her husband want. Moreover, the guy's not requesting for overfeeding. He just wants to eat to his satisfaction. That ain't too much to ask for in his home.

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

Oga, this issue is very simple, whenever she dishes your food and you are not satisfied with it, kindly go to the kitchen and serve yourself.
She can't stop you.
It's your money.
She is only trying to economize because of the situation of the country so don't blame her.
Start dishing your food and she will get the message.

Vipro:
Hilarious...

The rate at which couples are complaining aboout each other in this forum will even discourage intending ones....just too much.Haba!

I tell you

If you have the means, get a second wife ASAP! She will change like a magic. Make her understand how you feel and hint her about ur intention of taking a second wife if she doesn't adjust.

Barrister026:


Have ordered her to go put some more protein on several occasions.

But must i always do that?

why are you calling it protein it is meat nah

OP, you can do two things:
Either you refuse her food whenever she dishes out food without enough protein.
Or you go to the kitchen and put your desired portion.

Barrister026:


Have ordered her to go put some more protein on several occasions.

But must i always do that?

Can't you be super cold on this..

Yes, its your money..

But reject the food with the anguish mood. You have right now..

Go buy food.. Make sure she knows of it..

You'll see changes after three attempts

But please don't quarrel with her, she grew that way.. I see

SIMPLE..

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

what's immature is bringing this small issue up and making it a big deal.

If she gives you the quantity of meat you don't like,go into the kitchen and collect what you want without making noise. After few attempts, she would change and if she doesn't, continue.

Don't let food and meat cause wahala for your family