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Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Mariangeles(f): 8:05pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
[s] Kuriosmynd:[/s] You're the fool! Abeg! I no get patience to tolerate senseless people! |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Kuriosmynd: 8:05pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
geonye:First sensible comment from a lady so far 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Holadpearl(m): 8:05pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Simply buy meat/protein of your choice, as much as you like. Ask her to help you fry, then Keep in refrigerator. Before/after your meal is served microwave the quantity of your choice. Add to your food. Enjoy.... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by kawkab: 8:06pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Bros, you wife is helping you live a healthier life. 1. Too much meat (red) is not good for you at a particular age age. 2. When you get used to portions of eba that is too much, you get accustomed to it and this will affect you in several ways viz obesity, running the risk of developing diabetes and several others 3. Nothing stops you from serving your self and dishing the portion you think you deserves. 4. In your post, you talk condescendingly about your wife as if she is one maid that meant to serve you at all times. If you thinks she is not serving you well enough, just get into the kitchen and if you so wish empty the pot on your plate. 5. Issues like this hsould not be brough to Nairaland. Sit down with your wife and thrash this out. if she does not change, get somebodyt that she respects to talk to her. Shikena 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by toujurs: 8:06pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Walaihi you wicked,What a selfish advice, Ontop his money, is he a kid 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by frozen70(f): 8:06pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Barrister026: You need to seat her down, talk with her and find out if the money is enough to cook with enough protein Or if she is saving the money, then good, how much has she saved and what she intend to do with it While excess meat is not good, I don't think she is watching that aspect You have to be specific on exactly what portions of meat that you are expecting per meal and your swallow portions You also need to inform her that, if she doesn't want you to eat to your satisfaction at home, you will end up sorting yourself out This shouldn't be an issue in the first place 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Abeos(m): 8:06pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
This place be like family and relationship meeting. Some things that are supposed to be solved in house just dropping here these days |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by orijo1980: 8:06pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Oga just go and buy what u want don't give her the money her duties is just to cook for u done give her the money to buy its herself |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Kuriosmynd: 8:06pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Mariangeles:U be mumu 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by AfonjaConehead: 8:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
flokii: |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by caesymore(m): 8:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
bummyla: Omo una no dey encourage us for this marriage something oh. no tell me I go leave my sweet bachelorship for wahala in the name of marriage God help us 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Icon79(m): 8:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Haha. Good solution, if he lives in Naija. But what if he lives abroad? O pari Mariangeles: |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Piptocoin: 8:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
PlayMaker14: I'm sorry but this reply of yours is dense in thought. Logic, if you can serve yourself and cook your meals then why marry? For sex? Children? As if you cannot get those with relative ease elsewhere. Please, look up wifely consortium and know why a breach of that is actionable for divorce. In this case, it is a petty reason for divorce but petty things can grow into irreconciliable differences. The man should just learn how to live with it if she doesn't change. Marriage is not for the weak. If he cannot live with it he should develop the habit of eating out where his desire is respected as long as he has the money. He should choose his poison. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Mariangeles(f): 8:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
SirMichael1: If a piece of meat can bring a fight, imagine op going to serve himself. People are just different. |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Nobody: 8:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
When I am not handicapped. I will walk straight to the kitchen and dish as much as I want. You are the one deceiving yourself by thinking of what people will say. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by stanliwise(m): 8:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Barrister026:If na me I go refuse the food all together. If I correct you on multiple occasions and we both discussed and reached an agreement. Then you still continue then I will leave you to your portion. The matter no reach yo quarrel |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 8:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Op....this sounds so funny but at the same time I feel your pain...... I think your wife is just using that to get to you on what you said or an action you did ,that you have forgotten, possibly against her or helping her own siblings....may be you told her that money is hard to find and she should be economical in handling things.... That's the character of some ladies, so all you have to do is to manage the meal, and be joking about the food she serves you often.....find a way to soften her heart, and please don't take it too personal, or else things will be going out of hand. |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by tradepunter: 8:08pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
You sounding authoritarian What you by you ordered her?? If meat nu do you walka go kitchen to collect more, simple. |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by alizma: 8:08pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Barrister026:Bro, just thank God for the wife he gives you. My wife is like yours but I am learning to adjust and see how I can make her better, is better than having all these extravagant women. Sometimes buy the meat yourself and jokingly tell her you want her to give you two or even three . My brother if you jam the other side, na you go run o. Lean how to manage what you have into what you want and you will be happy 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Icon79(m): 8:08pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Handsum64: 8:08pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
PlayMaker14:Really? |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by bummyla(m): 8:08pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Why are they like this? They will refuse to compromise, but they will want you to be romantic towards them 24/7 Barrister026: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Nyanabo(m): 8:09pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Barrister026: It's also not mature when you complain each time she dishes food for you. You think she does that purposely? She goes to the market everyday and she knows what she sees there. If you claim to be mature it what she give you without complaining. Or give her more money specifically for 'proteins' like meats fish and all other little sea foods. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Mariangeles(f): 8:09pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Nobody: 8:09pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Anyone telling OP to serve himself is M.A.D. I REPEAT YOU ARE MENTALLY IMBALANCED! I GO USE MY MONEY MARRY WOMAN FINISH, THEN GO HUSTLE FROM MORNING TILL NIGHT, THEN COME HOUSE THEM NO GO SERVE ME FOOD WEY MY MONEY PROVIDE THE WAY I LIKE AM, UNA TALK SAY MAKE I GO SERVE MYSELF IN THE NAME OF WIFE NOT SLAVE ABI? GOD DON PUNISH UNA FINISH. IDIOTSSSSS 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by obembet(f): 8:10pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Barrister026: She's a good woman. She's observe that u lack savings culture and she's helping u. And besides eat like normal people not hungry man |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Nobody: 8:10pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Barrister026:going to the kitchen doesn't sound right. Just eat her food, when not satisfied, go out, get enough food, bring it home and eat in her very presence. I assure you, in two days she go change. Just make sure u are dropping enough to cover for this large portion you are craving for. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Microwhy: 8:10pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Barrister026:Just before I login to nairaland, I had my dinner which I dished myself. Sometimes I tell her to boil water and I will go turn gari using spoon which I believe is more sweeter than using turning stick. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Nobody: 8:10pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Foodqueen:As he is dishing his food I hope she will be paying her rent. Animal 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by DabuIIIT: 8:10pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Barrister026:Do not do as people are advising you to dish food for yourself. What you gotta do is simple,after giving her food money and you notice she bought and us serving you tiny portions of,say, meat,then get extra meat from the market yourself and tell her to add it to you and others meals. |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by MARKone(m): 8:11pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that? Guy you sef get your own issues. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by SirMichael1: 8:12pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Mariangeles: No be only fight. Which kind fight? The op never said his wife trades word with him, so? Omo, forget that thing oh. I no marry to come suffer abeg. I didn't marry you to change my lifestyle for me. Imagine say before I marry, I dey chop big meat wella, then suddenly, because she assumed the cooking role, she come dey minimize my meat, unto wetin?? Omo, make no woman try that shit with me, I swear. I'll just go to the market, buy like 5 kilos of meat, come home, cook, marinate it and then fry and keep it in the fridge or even seal it in a plastic. Every night, I pick like three and chop. No time for nonsense abeg. 2 Likes |
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