Rebuilding marriage after infidelity is no doubt a tough thing. If you want to give your partner another chance, here are some common Reconciliation mistakes you should avoid so it doesn't happen again. Some say they are no longer attracted to their partners after they were cheated on. To be honest, forgiving a cheating partner is usually a tough decision to make. It's very difficult to regain a broken trust. Although some find it hard to heal after being cheated on, bible verses about heartbreak should help.

1. Seeking Revenge

Your partner's actions might truly hurt you, but this doesn't justify you wanting revenge. Remember that you decided to accept your partner back when you could have easily ended the Relationship or Marriage. If you end a relationship because your partner was infidel, I don't think anyone would blame you. Remember that "two wrongs don't make a right". You taking revenge doesn't make it a tie.

2. Remembering Your Partners of Their Past Deeds

If you want to reconcile with your partner after infidelity, be ready to do it wholeheartedly. It makes no sense when you constantly remind them of their past deeds. Do not accept them back if you know you are not ready emotionally to forget what they did. When a little argument occurs, you seize that opportunity to remind them how they cheated on you. It's very wrong and might lead to a divorce. I understand how painful it is to accept a partner after infidelity, but reminding them of their past deeds is unnecessary.



3. Not Forgiving and Forgetting

Do not accept them back if you know you are not ready to forgive your partner after infidelity. You should let go of them than accept them back without forgiving them. Some say they forgive, but they don't forget. If you have truly forgiven someone, you should be able to forget what they did. If you want to reconcile with your partner after infidelity, be ready to not only forgive but forget. Let those memories stay in the past. If you don't forget them, they will affect the relationship or marriage.

4. Lying

Lying is one thing you should flee from if you are regaining trust after infidelity. The trust is broken already; you are making it worse by telling lies. To build trust after infidelity, you need to be very honest in your dealings with your partner. Your transparency and honesty should speak for you. Since your partner doesn't trust you initially, being dishonest will worsen the situation. You can't expect someone to trust you after being an infidel. If you are reconciling with your partner, you need to be on their good books. Lying to someone who accepted you back is a sign that you are still the same.

https://www.relguide.com/2021/11/common-reconciliation-mistakes-to-avoid.html

Rubbish!
I'm 100% sure that this write-up is by a FEMALE... You people love eating your cake and having it. You're very smart at playing the victim card and guilt-tripping until you get caught, then you'll start all these rubbish preaching and emotional manipulations...

Btw,

Cheating is never a mistake, especially with females. Cheating is ALWAYS a choice and most females know the implications and the impacts it usually have on men. A lot is usually put into consideration before females cheat apart from the reason of prostitution...

For me, you can cheat if you want, especially if you think that I'm also cheating on you, but you're DOOMED if you ever get caught.
No cheating partner should be forgiven because the relationship can never be the same again, no matter how hard you try.

Women owe men more obligations to be loyal in relationship. This is because, the most important thing women can offer in relationship is SEX. It is like 95% of the only thing they have to give while men give other things like favour, money and other values. THIS IS NOT BALANCED, which is the reason why I said women owe men more obligation to stay loyal.
So when a woman start offering the only thing she's offering in a relationship to other men, such girl or woman should never be forgiven. That's the highest form of disrespect and betrayal.
Men should only take these women back if they seek revenge.
Revenge is divine and very sweet.
Even God loves revenge and he doesn't forgive all sins.
...God is still punishing humans for the sins of Adam and Eve, so who am I not to punish a disloyal useless and loose bìtch?

For men,
If all you've ever gotten from your relationship is sex, and yet the bìtch still has the guts to cheat on you,

1, NEVER forgive her.
Make sure you take back and make her feel very comfortable until you get a very sweet chance to take your revenge. You can later dumped her after you've reached dueces with her.
Remember, God is not even against tit for tat.

2, Find a way to sleep with her best friends or cousins.
When do this, make sure you use it to slap them on their faces. E dey sweet die.

3, If she's a wife already, no need to divorce her.
Keep her. Hustle to make a lot of money and then marry someone much more better than her.
Younger
Smarter
Sexier
More beautiful

4. Anytime she misbehaves, remind her of how she's been a bìtch and you'll always win in your arguments.

UncleKoboko:
Rubbish!
I'm 100% sure that this write-up is by a FEMALE... You people love eating your cake and having it. You're very smart at playing the victim card until you get caught, then you start all these rubbish preaching and emotional manipulations...

Btw,

Cheating is never a mistake, especially with females. Cheating is ALWAYS a choice and most females knows the implications and the impacts it usually have on men. A lot is usually put into consideration before females cheat apart from the reason of prostitution...

For me, you can cheat if you want, especially if you think that I'm also cheating on you, but you're DOOMED if you ever get caught.
No cheating partner should be forgiven because the relationship can never be the same again, no matter how hard you try.

Women owe men more obligations to be loyal in relationship. This is because, the most important thing women can offer in relationship is SEX. It is like 95% of the only thing they have to give while men give other things like favour, money and other values. THIS IS NOT BALANCED, which is the reason why I said women owe men more obligation to stay loyal.
So when a woman start offering the only thing she's offering in a relationship to other men, such girl or woman should never be forgiven. That's the highest form of disrespect and betrayal.
Men should only take these women back if they seek revenge.
Revenge is divine and very sweet.
Even God loves revenge and he doesn't forgive all sins.
...God is still punishing humans for the sins of Adam and Eve, so who am I not to punish a disloyal useless bìtch?

I concur

UncleKoboko:
Rubbish!
I'm 100% sure that this write-up is by a FEMALE... You people love eating your cake and having it. You're very smart at playing the victim card until you get caught, then you start all these rubbish preaching and emotional manipulations...

Btw,

Cheating is never a mistake, especially with females. Cheating is ALWAYS a choice and most females knows the implications and the impacts it usually have on men. A lot is usually put into consideration before females cheat apart from the reason of prostitution...

For me, you can cheat if you want, especially if you think that I'm also cheating on you, but you're DOOMED if you ever get caught.
No cheating partner should be forgiven because the relationship can never be the same again, no matter how hard you try.

Women owe men more obligations to be loyal in relationship. This is because, the most important thing women can offer in relationship is SEX. It is like 95% of the only thing they have to give while men give other things like favour, money and other values. THIS IS NOT BALANCED, which is the reason why I said women owe men more obligation to stay loyal.
So when a woman start offering the only thing she's offering in a relationship to other men, such girl or woman should never be forgiven. That's the highest form of disrespect and betrayal.
Men should only take these women back if they seek revenge.
Revenge is divine and very sweet.
Even God loves revenge and he doesn't forgive all sins.
...God is still punishing humans for the sins of Adam and Eve, so who am I not to punish a disloyal useless bìtch?

You're quite correct.
It's usually hard for whoever that pays the bills to forgive.
Forgiveness is possible but not "forgetness".

UncleKoboko:
Rubbish!
I'm 100% sure that this write-up is by a FEMALE... You people love eating your cake and having it. You're very smart at playing the victim card until you get caught, then you start all these rubbish preaching and emotional manipulations...

Btw,

Cheating is never a mistake, especially with females. Cheating is ALWAYS a choice and most females knows the implications and the impacts it usually have on men. A lot is usually put into consideration before females cheat apart from the reason of prostitution...

For me, you can cheat if you want, especially if you think that I'm also cheating on you, but you're DOOMED if you ever get caught.
No cheating partner should be forgiven because the relationship can never be the same again, no matter how hard you try.

Women owe men more obligations to be loyal in relationship. This is because, the most important thing women can offer in relationship is SEX. It is like 95% of the only thing they have to give while men give other things like favour, money and other values. THIS IS NOT BALANCED, which is the reason why I said women owe men more obligation to stay loyal.
So when a woman start offering the only thing she's offering in a relationship to other men, such girl or woman should never be forgiven. That's the highest form of disrespect and betrayal.
Men should only take these women back if they seek revenge.
Revenge is divine and very sweet.
Even God loves revenge and he doesn't forgive all sins.
...God is still punishing humans for the sins of Adam and Eve, so who am I not to punish a disloyal useless bìtch?

I wish I won't have to quote all your rantings up there but....

Now, that's pretty one sided. Since you are the sage here and appears to know everything about who not to be forgiven and why, let me ask you a quick one.

If the woman contributes more than sex to the relationship, maybe they jointly share the bills or she pays more, should she still get the same treatment sir?

I'll never support that a woman cheat on her man, just wondering ni o.

Uhn... You are right where you said cheating is not a mistake. However, other instances you analyzed doesn't fit in

IMO, both parties owe each other loyalty to the core. It's not gender based.

Secondly, women offer more than sex. I don't know about you but my circle of women bring more to the table than sex.

Lastly, I do not think paying evil for evil is good in a long run. because karma will always do the needful in due time. Rather than take her back, let her go. Give yourself peace!

Leave her or him to God and karma.

UncleKoboko:
Rubbish!
I'm 100% sure that this write-up is by a FEMALE... You people love eating your cake and having it. You're very smart at playing the victim card and guilt-tripping until you get caught, then you'll start all these rubbish preaching and emotional manipulations...

Btw,

Cheating is never a mistake, especially with females. Cheating is ALWAYS a choice and most females knows the implications and the impacts it usually have on men. A lot is usually put into consideration before females cheat apart from the reason of prostitution...

For me, you can cheat if you want, especially if you think that I'm also cheating on you, but you're DOOMED if you ever get caught.
No cheating partner should be forgiven because the relationship can never be the same again, no matter how hard you try.

Women owe men more obligations to be loyal in relationship. This is because, the most important thing women can offer in relationship is SEX. It is like 95% of the only thing they have to give while men give other things like favour, money and other values. THIS IS NOT BALANCED, which is the reason why I said women owe men more obligation to stay loyal.
So when a woman start offering the only thing she's offering in a relationship to other men, such girl or woman should never be forgiven. That's the highest form of disrespect and betrayal.
Men should only take these women back if they seek revenge.
Revenge is divine and very sweet.
Even God loves revenge and he doesn't forgive all sins.
...God is still punishing humans for the sins of Adam and Eve, so who am I not to punish a disloyal useless and loose bìtch?