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Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by LordsBattleAxe(m): 8:39am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco:I had to log in because it's as if you're talking about my ex. In fact, she has every quality you mentioned. I call her my ex because that sexually attraction was not there. Heck! Heck! The first time I saw her body, I felt like a pedophile. See ehn.. If you marry her, you'll always be gazing at other woman longingly. With time, love go clear and you'll start to resent her.. After two or three kids? Your marriage will be hanging by a thread since the sexual attraction is zero. Love is only part of the equation Marriage is for the rest of your life, and you don't want to spend it in regret. Besides, no waste her time, biko. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by babadee1(m): 8:39am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco: Why do you want to marry someone you're not sexually attracted to? Does that make sense to you? 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by shantti(m): 8:40am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Lamanii22: So sex and sexual attraction is not important on Marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by koning: 8:40am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco: I don't normally comment in this section, but i feel the need to tell you this. MY GUY, DO NOT DECIEVE YOURSELF. When sex goes out of a marriage, the marriage is as good as dead. On top of that, you claim to be a 'sexually active person'. You will end up screwing cheap women outside or wanking yourself to stupor. You will know all the porn stars with big yansh by their names. When sex is abscent in a marriage, you will begin to see your wife like your mother and consequently will be totally turned off sexually with her. Sex is not secondary in marriage. Make the right decision before it's too late. We wey know, know. Sex and children are the only 2 things women can give us men that we cannot give ourselves. Do not joke with it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by optimusprime2(m): 8:42am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco: Sir, we are stepping into 2022... Since you have determined early that there is; 1- No sexual Chemistry 2- No physical Attraction 3- No Spark Please call it off and set the poor lady free... it might hurt, but you are saving colossal problems later. Marry who asides everything, you are sexually attracted to, you have the sexual compatibility and Attraction for and most importantly, marry who gives you sparks .... especially if you are that kind of person who thrives on those qualities. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Angelfrost(m): 8:42am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Mr. Op, this was normal in arranged marriages of decades and centuries past... Even princes in royal countries still have a say in the physical attributes of their would be spouses. What am I insinuating?!! No one is compelling you to marry this lady! You don't ingest poison out of sentiments. Love is not enough for marriage sir. Physical attraction, though also overrated, is highly important! Why on Earth would any sane man choose to spend the rest of his life with a woman he isn't physically attracted to?!! Same with women... That is inflicting punishment upon yourself. Please, don't waste a good woman's time and life! Summon the balls to call time on this farce you call a relationship. It's in the best interest of both of you. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by DiscoverID: 8:43am On Dec 28, 2021 |
@OP, speaking from a point of 11 years marriage experience, end the relationship and let her go. Even if you have all those qualities you aforementioned, there is tendency you could still cheat on your wife. But when you married someone you are not attracted to sexually, you are going to make that person miserable. So let her go. Else your marriage won't last 3 years max. ziondaughter247: Well said. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Bubblewitch: 8:44am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco:please leave her so that she can find a man that truly loves her. You are going to make her sad because you are settling… Just let her go abeg and find your type 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Kinzo0917(m): 8:44am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco:. Bless you sir. I am so happy for this ur decision. How I wish you can see me as I am smiling and happy for you. May you have the best marriage ever. God bless you and your wife to be |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Basiljoe: 8:44am On Dec 28, 2021 |
ziondaughter247:What is your point. It's not a new thing that women are hypergamous in nature. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by olawale1516(m): 8:45am On Dec 28, 2021 |
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Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Alexaonfleek: 8:45am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Sexual/physical attraction is very important in marriage just as character is. Because if you decide to marry her for just her character and go outside to look for sexual satisfaction,you will be the toxic one in your marriage. If you don't find her attractive,leave her for a man who will find her attractive. Date your spec. Laslas small nyash go shake one day. 7 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by King125007(m): 8:46am On Dec 28, 2021 |
WARNING End that relationship now! How can u marry someone you are not sexually compatible with, that is the beginning of the end of the marriage Both of you will definitely cheat which will in turn lead to a toxic, loveless marriage then divorce Sexual compatibility is very important Survey report Have u notice people that are sexual partners, frds with benefit, etc tend to develop feelings for each other over time?, now reverse the case.. Yeah u got ur answer Imagine not sleeping with your wife for a month, on the same bed, resentment will build on both side 3 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Nelgenius4me(m): 8:46am On Dec 28, 2021 |
There is a fundamental problem in your relationship and it has to do with sexual attraction. Sexual attraction is key in marriage because it is a bonding factor. If it is absent in marriage I bet you it will give room for cheating and other vices. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Slurity(m): 8:46am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco:Marry her and be happy, sex is important but overrated. You will be be suprised the kind of heart attach a big yang girl will give you when you travel for 1 months. If you know what i mean 1 Like |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Ybaby: 8:47am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco: Grandville Lekki hill Those 2 are your best bet but do not trade character for yansh - A loose woman or someone without character - won ma ba e do and it will cause heart ache so feed this your kekere - introduce sx toys - spice it up. |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by anyicash(m): 8:48am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:see forget that thing...sex is also very important in marriages.. Very very important.. Tell me how that marriage will last if both parties start to seek sexual satisfaction outside marriage.. Maybe at early stage of the marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Pusyiter(m): 8:49am On Dec 28, 2021 |
When you have finally decided to wife her, send us IV we want attend the wedding phranco: |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Lastmankc(m): 8:49am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco:Bomb dey your head,if you like make your mindset no change.Dis life no balance at all.This virtuous woman want end for wrong hand now |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by EM123: 8:50am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Bros OP , whether u marry woman with big yansh or small yansh , big breast or small breast , after 1year of marriage , sex go tire you . 3 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Oceanblaze(m): 8:50am On Dec 28, 2021 |
dingbang:So na person go help you find wife,hope say the person go help u to dey Chew her... |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by anyicash(m): 8:50am On Dec 28, 2021 |
dingbang:have many queens have you made in your area... You are the type that get aroused easily seeing another person's chick or even wife sef.. It's a problem. |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Oceanblaze(m): 8:51am On Dec 28, 2021 |
anyicash:No mind the guy...make him dey there dey mumu |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Starz825(m): 8:51am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco:Dat your babe go soon put on weight...just continue to love her heart and manage her body for now...she go soon fat and chubby... After this youur experience when you don old, na you go come dey advice young men on same issue later in life .... Slim girl, no yanch go soon fat come get big yanch join...you better marry that girl... She will later be your perfect match in the long run 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by famzynet: 8:51am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Don't lose a good woman because she does not have yansh. When she gives birth,her yansh will increase. A woman that gives you peace of mind is priority. A woman that you can leave the house for and have rest of mind that all is well. A woman who loves you ,who is kind and accepts you and your family for who you. A respectful and generous woman. A generous woman will always want to contribute her earnings for the mutual good of two of you. If she is naturally good looking,that is a pass mark. You can teach her how to dress sexy for you when she is indoor with you. When you have the resources ,encourage her to make long hairs . That makes most females sexy. No woman is perfect. Most men who settled down always have one thing that they wish their wives also have but they chose her because she has 70% of what they desire. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by paskilo247(m): 8:51am On Dec 28, 2021 |
U love her but u re not attracted to her and u still want to marry her, are u ok? |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Ybaby: 8:51am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco: Your mum is prayerful o becos you for see ween for street. Save up and get her plastic surgery (no body should tag me) Bumbum can be bought. Buy it |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by KingAzari: 8:52am On Dec 28, 2021 |
phranco: Don't do it. You would be miserable for the rest of your married life. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Nobody: 8:52am On Dec 28, 2021 |
@Op is daft. That's all I can say. |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Oceanblaze(m): 8:52am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Alexaonfleek:Date your spec....nice one |
Re: Help! I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her. Advice Needed. by Pataricatering(f): 8:53am On Dec 28, 2021 |
How can anyone be foolish enough to marry someone they are not attracted to and your no sense in their head fellow dudes are.telling.you to go ahead . Your marriage is over before it even started ! . 7 Likes |
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