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Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by PasNina(m): 11:25am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Reason why courting can't be overemphasized. A lady who doesn't tidy up the home effortlessly while dating, would see that as a herculean task in marriage. That's one of the important traits I look for in a woman. #espo1: Tidiness is key. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Truthisunique3: 11:28am On Feb 03, 2022 |
zomoears:na the women mom's dey even help the women do this shit Dem go just dey fan the matter for their daughter to kill the man while telling the man to bear with the woman say na him suppose mature for the marriage 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by ObamaMessi: 11:30am On Feb 03, 2022 |
tyup:Guy you get sense.I think that's the best idea.He should manage her fuckup softly,still her heart, get her back to Nigeria, steal her passport and fly back.If na me i no go come back.I'll relocate and work my transfer just in case she work her way back. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Truthisunique3: 11:32am On Feb 03, 2022 |
teemy:postnup The simp can not pull that on such a woman o, he has lost his authority in the home already Na blackmail the girl go blackmail am to surrender 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by shiggy: 11:32am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Ogalanyaidi: Oh boy, since you're abroad you should be very careful o, don't talk anyhow, and make sure you tell her to stop recording, if this behavior continues you should prolly speak to a lawyer and for possible outcomes. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by underpinna: 11:34am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Truthisunique3: Women and freedom. But did she get married? |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by oilmane(m): 11:34am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Ogalanyaidi: Watch your back bro, recording your conversation during quarrels shows your wife have an ulterior motive, be sending any money you make back to your account in 9ja, don't save any large amount in your account over there and avoid anything joint account with her. Best wishes. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by heniford2: 11:35am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Ogalanyaidi:dude once she's a black Nigeria girl, bros start preparing because you just got married na long story to been depressed maybe u guys have not have issue yet but i once it happens it will get more worst how do you stop this shit when next she tries this tell her your not going to answer her mother's call also tell her to start preparing for divorce but becareful people like her can kill with reason be smarter while dealing with a smart woman. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Nwagod26: 11:35am On Feb 03, 2022 |
You both live overseas? She records your conversations? Oga, you are in grave danger. The question I asked this days, do people no longer date before settling down cause all these modern da marriage tales are becoming disturbing to my ears. The truth is that you two are not ripe and mature enough to get married. Possibly na fine girl,sexy and shapy. You na good boy,bookworm and he doesn't hurt a fly kind of guy. But truth is, na divorce and forfeiture of your small hustle you dey face oo. Na wetin woman talk for courthouse na e be true oooo. Better cancel that marriage make una dey go una separate ways before una two go regret am oo 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by shiggy: 11:35am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Just start putting money in usdc small small in case this becomes messy 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Nwagod26: 11:35am On Feb 03, 2022 |
You both live overseas? She records your conversations? Oga, you are in grave danger. The question I asked this days, do people no longer date before settling down cause all these modern da marriage tales are becoming disturbing to my ears. The truth is that you two are not ripe and mature enough to get married. Possibly na fine girl,sexy and shapy. You na good boy,bookworm and he doesn't hurt a fly kind of guy. But truth is, na divorce and forfeiture of your small hustle you dey face oo. Na wetin woman talk for courthouse na e be true oooo. Better cancel that marriage make una dey go una separate ways before una two go regret am oo,worse off, you 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Lamasta(m): 11:36am On Feb 03, 2022 |
faithfull18:When he was talking it through with her why was she denying until he showed her the evidence of her recording I know you won't type this if it was the man that made the recording.... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Nonexisting: 11:37am On Feb 03, 2022 |
As soon as I read you both live overseas, I stopped reading and jumped to the conclusion that she's working towards something with those recordings and the plan had been on for some time now. You are already in a long thing brother. Start making exit plan just like she is making. A word is enough for the wise. Do not trust her mother, chances are that she has been part of the grand plan too. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by AdemolaA2: 11:38am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Megabig: Exactly my thoughts… same happened to me as well !!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by gabicon: 11:39am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Ogalanyaidi: I'm afraid you are married to a mummy's girl who isn't ready to let go of her mother's apron. I guess you both didn't discuss about conflict resolution before you got married. Here is the thing mate, you guys need to creat a family system for your family. The family system will encompass how you are going to run your family, it may consist of conflict resolution, sex life finance, child training, career etc. The sooner you do this the better you will enjoy your marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by TemmyT002(m): 11:43am On Feb 03, 2022 |
If you guys are abroad, she can have grounds to kick you out anytime. Don't raise your voice to her. Don't hit her. If she deliberately says anything painful, just kiss her or ignore. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by kponkedenge(m): 11:44am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Ogalanyaidi: You're still acting blind to what she's slowly cooking for you. You better wise up before it's too late. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by GistFullGround: 11:47am On Feb 03, 2022 |
She is gathering evidence against you cos she is getting ready to dump you. You had better prepare yourself urgently. You ought to have signed prenuptial agreement before marriage. Be very careful, you may not like this; SHE IS DEVILISH! If you don't kids, quickly don't plan to have any. Remember, child support is waiting. It's a matter of time...WIse up man & leave her! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by samwillyco1(m): 11:48am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Hmmm does it mean you people never had any form of relationship before marriage |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by President2001(m): 11:55am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Your so called wife is still a child not matured at all, you will keep on getting issue with her since her mother is her advicer |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Truthisunique3: 11:56am On Feb 03, 2022 |
gabicon:this one no be mummy girl She get wisdom of a grand mother sef All na her grand scheme 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Truthisunique3: 11:58am On Feb 03, 2022 |
TemmyT002: She no need love, she wants the man sweat, she has seen how the system encourage her to cash out Showing a sinsister woman love is weakness, she go take advantage of him and kill him faster 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Henz81: 12:08pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Ogalanyaidi:Must you tell the pubic? Be a Man. |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by PerfectlyPerfect(m): 12:18pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Ogalanyaidi:Start saving funds to BTC or other crypto without your consent. That woman will tender those recordings as evidence someday when she seeks a divorce. You might delete the recordings from her phone, but be rest assured she has them in another cloud account that you don't know of. Save your funds in BTC without her knowledge 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by reservd(m): 12:19pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Ogalanyaidi:Where overseas? Bro, I think your marriage days are numbered. She's gathering evidence against you in the nearest future 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by olasquare: 12:26pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Any woman that uses her mum in particular, as her first or only arbiter of peace, has made up her mind to do injustice to the husband. Don't ever expect to get fair or favourable dissect of issues or settlement. Her mum will always take sides with her either directly or stylishly 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Indaboskikoboko: 12:32pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Codedly transfer your properties to your mother's name and save your money in crypto. I agree with her you should not be pissed about her recording if you have nothing to fear, but she should also not be concerned about you giving your wealth to your mother to safeguard if she doesn't have any malicious plan. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by FLYFIRE(m): 12:36pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
@op, this stage of marriage is very delicate. FIRST: PRAY - There is something VERY POWERFUL in agreement/harmony that forces DO NOT LIKE (Mt18:19 - ..if TWO of you AGREE on earth ABOUT ANYTHING & THEY ASK, it shall be DONE FOR THEM) This applies to questing/craving to OBEY & LEAVE FOR GOD. You can not do this in a heat up environment. And it is when we crave to OBEY & LEAVE for God that other needs are met - Mt 6:33 SECOND: Search for 'Different Stages of Marriage'; read it well, encourage your beautiful wife to read it too. It seems the first five years is the proverbial needle's eye every marriage must pass through. This first five years will TEST all the I-love-yous both of you sang into each other's ears during courtship & how both of you will handle this 'needle eye years' that WILL either break (GOD FORBID) or CEMENT the foundation of your blessed home FOR GOOD. This is where you 'see-finish' all you had under the radar of yourselves to one another. This place WILL BRING OUT THE BILE IN YOU & 'rightly so too' because you now become VERY DISAPPOINTED in the one YOU LOVE SO MUCH. THIRD: PRAY, PRAY & LOVE. Remember that both of you chose each other despite others available at the time. Remember what gave her upper hand over others FORTH: LOVE & FORGIVE FIFTH: BE WISE. Remember, MANY ADVISERS HERE ARE NOT MARRIED |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by DeRay98(m): 12:36pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Your so-Call desire for peace is your self restraints that she knows well and using to manipulate you. "You no like trouble"? Well, there's trouble in your house already because you fell for the daughter of trouble and what you're experiencing is the beginning of things to come. I had a similar experience from my now ex after marriage within 2 weeks before and after I took her abroad. The weakly drama continued and I later discovered that she was doing it on purpose to pressure and dominate me into subdued mode for to take charge. She even became more aggressive as she realise that I was constantly taking things easy with her and seeking her understanding. But the trouble became too much I let her continue on her wayward direction until ran herself aground and I told her to leave me in peace. Before she knew it she was out not by me but her aggression drove her to the point of no return and I wouldn't listen to any plees. She got to the point of adding physical assault to psychological and emotional violence and I have had enough of her. She's back in Nigeria and not coming back. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Records Our Argument by Myexdisturbs: 12:40pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Mercychen:Because we don't hear the good ones ,bad news sells and that's why the media can tell you how many people killed in Zamfara today and not tell you how many people were born. The media controls the mind of most people which they're doing to your mind now 1 Like |
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