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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 1:10pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
donborg:Why would I need to acknowledge that delusion of yours? |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Ucmeniah: 1:19pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
The 4 different places you went to confirm from still none of them could give you remedy. But you still remit to them with the little you have... See going to fetish places to look for help, they will inflict you with their fetish things that will always make you believe whatever they told you at any given time. NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOUR WIFE. I GUESSED YOU ARE THE PROBLEM TO YOURSELF BRO. JUST FREE YOUR MIND AND ADD YO UR HUSTLING AND PRAY TO GOD...YOU WILL SEE THINGS MOVING... |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by harqinhola(m): 1:20pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
I have an easy way out. PROVOKE THE WITCHES AMD THEIR gods . Since they hate you having sex with your wife , Make it a habit , Bleep HER MORE . TRY 3 TIMES DAILY DEM SEF GO TIRE. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Freddo99(m): 1:34pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
nwajesus12:thanks for telling him the truth. some people and their way of thinking nawa wo. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by ajl: 2:50pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Young man! Here is your problem just like most Yorubas. Lack of understanding of yoruba spirituality. The same woman you are thinking is "doing" you, can also be the one to uplift you. Problem.is that you are going to the wrong people. Go to a genuine Babalawo or Ifa priest. There are times those Egbe attached to your wife may have issue with you as the husband. The best place to get advice is not on Nairaland. Go to a Babalawo. If you don't know the meaning of the word Babalawo due to foreign religion influence, it mean "Father of mystery". Most Yoruba don't know what Olodumare has given us. We are custodian of the most sacred and deepest spiritual knowledge on the face of this earth. And we are either neglecting it or misusing it. May Olodumare give you wisdom to navigate this issue. And just to enlighten you. All humans come into this world with an Egbe. They are mostly spiritual guides. But it depend on the pact your woman made with her Egbe in the spirit world prior to her birth into this world. Because you don't see or experience them doesn't mean they do not exist. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 2:57pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Needadvice200: The only thing I'm going to ask you is.. did you perform the marital rites on her or are you two just cohabitating without being properly married? Where did they see the vision and where did you go for prayers? Hope it's not in a white garment Church though. Well If your answer to my first question is yes, then that ( living together without Marriage ) could be the cause of the setbacks. But if youre properly married, then relax and believe that God will make things beautiful very soon; especially since you've prayed about it. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by ajl: 3:02pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Needadvice200: I see, you are a Christian. Obviously because of this, you will not do what you are supposed to do. Foreign religion has been used to turn the lives of most Yorubas upside down. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by ajl: 3:06pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Mercychen: Blind faith. God will not come down to earth to make things beautiful for any humans. He has already provided us with all the tools, guide and knowledge we need. We human beings think too much of ourselves. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by ajl: 3:22pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Ofiadiegwu: Your advice is logical but it still might not be enough. The guy could adopt this approach but he will still need to take other steps. Because if he doesn't, the problem may still persist. It's sad that most of us are walking this world blind. It's even sadder if the individual is Yoruba. All the tools are there for him. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Greenerie(f): 3:40pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
[Please sir,did you work in oil company before or after marrying ur wife,after being fired from Zenith? I don't understand.you know many of us here, especially me like to learn from our elders, experienced people. quote author=Vadese1 post=110553896]Pray you don't encounter problem of life. The young man story is even better compare to my own situation. There is nothing lazy over there . I saw life at a very young age. I worked with some of the biggest oil and gas services company both in Nigeria and different parts of the world. I received thousands of dollars in a month. I have one of the best profession in the oil and gas sector, but for the past 7 years now, my life have never remain the same. The young man story was like he is telling my own story. The only different is that I have seen life at a very bigger stage. Ask anyone who is a completions Engineer, who works international with companies like Weatherford or BakerHughes , how much is there monthly package, you will understand the world am coming from. So don't assume the young man is lazy. The world is full of misery. Before I joined the oil and gas sector, I spent some little time with Zenith Bank far back 2007, but I got fired immediately I came back from my wife introductory marriage. It took me two years to get another job. Is a long story, but don't assume he is lazy [/quote] |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Ofiadiegwu: 3:50pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
ajl: Multi-approach is better |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by JayPeeOham: 3:56pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Needadvice200: You said you want to leave her... Now let me ask you a question.. How will you feel if after you leave her she finds a man who is ready to see her being freed and together they find a permanent solution and she's eventually healed? As a result, things began to go from good to better then best for them! If you truly love her as you claim...My advise is that you be that man for her, together you both should find a solution and I can assure you that the reverse would be the case. Because that's usually the outcome after a successful deliverance You're welcome!! |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Prophet777: 5:30pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Attend the weekly deliverance programmes of MFM at the Prayer City with her. Then, considered your problems are over. The prayer points are not for lazy men, pls be prepared before you attend. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by nnamdiosu(m): 5:34pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Needadvice200: Go with her to mfm for deliverance |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 5:42pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
nnamdiosu:Is your MFM any different from the white garment churches others are suggesting?, |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by bablon20(m): 6:12pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Take her to prayer city at mfm and for spiritual deliverance and cleansing, it's free just that u have to get a chalet and go with bucket and towel, tooth paste and stuff for ur personal use. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Lightorder: 6:33pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Chai ! I pity you. Even the fellows you WANNABE know that you need mercy. May God keep you free from what many people go through. Reason; you are too weak to understand |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Aaay: 6:48pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
You are sick and need a checkup if you believe all those evil forces bla bla nonsense 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by gift2xl: 7:19pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Shiloh |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by akevic: 7:35pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
She has to be genuinely born again |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 7:51pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Lightorder:You need your prayers more than I do. You seem God already exposed me to enough to make me realize at this point in time that the human mind is powerful enough to not only play games with one but also severely screw with one's reality it one is not careful and able to withstand it. I didn't fall for what the conmen tried to feed me so, on the contrary, I am not weak at all and I have understanding beyond my years, thanks to all I have experienced as a result of not being able to rightly question everything that was laid before me. God will not keep you or anyone from these tests. He instead expects you to rise above the usual to show yourself worthy of the understanding He can give. If you doubt it. Read what He said in Matthew 13 vs 10 - 17 and Mark 4 vs 22 - 28. Only those who use the understanding they are given will rise to receive more understanding from God. Those who refuse but instead let the lies swallow them up will have even the little understanding they had taken away from them. Look around you to see the droves blinded by lies and deceit fed them by conmen and mogs pretending to be of God. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by maak400: 10:58pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Then stop having sex with her completely, never ever again. Needadvice200: |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by after4: 12:13am On Feb 27, 2022 |
i want to be very honest with you. 1. Numbers 30: 1-9 vs 6 - 8" if indeed she takes a husband while bound by her vows or by a rash utterance from her lips by which she bound herself and her husband hears it and makes no response to her on the day he hears it, then her vows shall standard her agreement by which she bound herself shall stand. But if her husband overrules her on the day that he hears it, he shall make void her vows which she took and what she uttered with her lips by which she bound herself and the Lord will release her" first I will like to say that you are lucky she is with you on this. that is she does not like what she is going through. You as a husband have an authority that you do not know. You heard about her case and did not renounce it and that's why you have become a victim. if you read that passage very well you will see that it is the Lord that will release her after you have rejected her vows on her behalf. Talking about deliverance, there cannot be any permanent deliverance if a man has no personal relationship with Christ, and am speaking from personal experience. did you not know that Jesus himself said that if you cast out a demon, it goes around and later comes back to its original abode to see if it is clean so that it can repossess the person and it comes back with seven stronger demons and the persons new state becomes worse than the first? that is why people keep going for deliverance and have nothing to show for it. Your deliverance will come when you begin to have a personal walk with God and no other way out. if you like looking for the best man of God, you won't be helped. what you need is a personal walk with God, being committed to His word and doing it, not primarily because of the problem but because of Christ and who He is. What if I tell you that everything you have gone through is God trying to draw you to himself. Now my big question is, ARE YOU BORN AGAIN? if you are not, that's where to start from as you can be going to church but not know the God of the church, you can't be trying to run away from satan if you and your wife are still his children, it will not work. It is after this that you can then claim God promises for your life and you won't even need any deliverance session for it. Needadvice200: |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 1:17am On Feb 27, 2022 |
after4:All you have done here is tell him lies in the name of God, no different from the lies told him by his pastors and mediums. Starting with your quote from the book of Numbers which absolutely nothing to do with anyone who is a gentile and/or has anything to do with Jesus Christ , this primarily since God Himself excluded gentiles who reside in gentile nations from participating and benefiting from that Covenant- Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20 Jesus Christ came to redeem those who are tired of living under the burden of the world and God's curse - Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 - they are those who benefit from the redemption that is he, and not people were OP currently is in his life. Don't shove Jesus Christ at people thinking you score with God for doing so. No such thing happens. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by HelpYourself(m): 7:48am On Feb 27, 2022 |
JUBILEE2000: I responded to your email do revert |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by ArcFresky(m): 9:09am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Col 4:2 "Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving." Being watchful means being alert. Peter instructs Christians to be alert for their enemy, the devil prowls around seeking whom he might devour. Being watchful and alert over your soul and spiritual things is not a cause for doubt over your standing with Christ; it is wisdom for a world of tribulations and dangers to your soul. It means acknowledging evil abounds, awareness of principalities and powers but trusting that God the omnipotent, has power over them. So for you to say with certainty, that there are no spiritual issues with OP's wife is wrong. Mayb not, maybe there is. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 10:32am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Needadvice200: You are a failure! |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 12:44pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
ArcFresky:I showed you Jesus Christ's, God's New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God, own commandments to us regarding what we are to watch and pray for. But instead you chose to pull a vague verse from one of Paul's letters only to then proceed to insert your own opinion - lie - as explaination, ignoring God's commandment which depicts as sin any attempts at adding the doctrines and traditions of men(lies) to His Word in any way - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13 ? Repent from this wickedness! |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Johnaro(m): 8:17pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Same thing is happening to me as well cause I noticed the moment I had sex with her I have been broke for like 6 month and now I'm begging to survive and when she told me she belong to such a group u said ur wife is too I was scared but also scared to break up to avoid worse happening to me |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 10:01pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Johnaro:How much do you make salary wise? 1 Like 1 Share |
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