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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Salihusaliheen(m): 9:28pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
May God bless our mothers,they are the real definition of housewives.not those children of nowadays wey cosmetic don full their eyes 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Testimony1988(m): 9:31pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
She's not grateful at all, you didn't do anything wrong, keep encouraging her to reason with you, in fact that money is even much. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by akaahs(m): 9:32pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
chatinent:Honestly, this d format I used on my wife. She worked and since we got married last year even during courtship, I don't know how much she collect up till date and I don't want to know. She dear not complain again. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by utenwuson: 9:33pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Go to market oga, buy food stuffs, you have frigde, cook stew with cow head and store, do white okro n keep, buy provisions and all, don't give her a Dime, tell her you want to see how the 50k isn't enough, that's why you want to manage the house for some month and and see if there's a need to add. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by sureinfo: 9:35pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Omo las las this marriage thing is for the strong hearted o. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by gbengene1234(m): 9:37pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
I don't seem to understand why most women always feel they deserve all the income of a man? More reason why I can't make my woman a full house wife. We should support each other financially and if at all I am still giving her monthly allowance after taking care of all the house allowances. She must appreciate it or else she wants it void. If you frustrate my peace too much...I will file a divorce. Every one has their life to live. Biko 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by almarthins(m): 9:37pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
chatinent: Generally, women na problem if u just too quiet, u r a gonner. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by newdawn2017(f): 9:37pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
chatinent:that he is talking to his maid servant or what?? I don't understand?? Pls op take not dis satanic advice. That's not how u talk to ur wife |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by osch10: 9:41pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
I have some questions. First, how did u meals use to look like? (soup full of chicken, beef, fish etc) if yes, 50k can never b enough. Secondly, how long did d soup use to last? ( a day, couple of days, or week) Check what u are eating if it worth it... 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by yungest(m): 9:41pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:must you convert to dollars? do yu buy food with dollars? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by mokoh(m): 9:42pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Abeg nor vex wetin she they take her salary do |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by newdawn2017(f): 9:43pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:but she works, isn't she supposed to be a help & support to her husband, I don't understand. If she takes 30k from her salary - add nko, is it bad?? What kind of parasitic, one-sided & suffer head Union is that one. Let not d man think he is married o, he is alone. D wife will never be there no come through for him should life strike e him at any point in time.. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by emmabango2021: 9:45pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
My guy, I was also in your situation some years back even though now the price of foodstuff has skyrocketed. Don't give woman who is not prudent monthly allowance convert it to weekly and see the magic. You will thank me later. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by bilangha(m): 9:47pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
she must come from oweri í ½í¸ |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by izubext007: 9:48pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
If the money her father gives her is bigger than the 50k let her go back |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by rajiedreez: 9:48pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
So many people saying 50k isn't enough here are funny o. Do u know that that 50k is some husbands salary monthly and he'll have kids to cater for too out of that money. If you're not wealthy don't act wealthy, he should let his wife know that 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Jamesbiodun(m): 9:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Actually to me there is no advice for you, you have treat her rotten now it is hitting up on you .. the ball is in your court |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Foodforthought: 9:53pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Malory:Seek advice from elders. Pray. Call his wife to order. There is a firmness with which a woman is called to order. Sit her down and clarify things. Ask her if she is no longer ready to make the marriage work. I mean if the man is sure he can't increase the amount, lay the cards on the table and ask her what she wants to happen moving forwards. Sometimes it takes being in such position for women to have their heads reset. I'm sure she wouldn't want to lose her marriage because of 50k. Men should stop hiding pain and speak up. Tell her "madam I'm hypertensive, if you want to kill me just open up. Say your mind!" |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Eastcaostboy: 9:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:She might be right take out time go to the market do price research and see if there's need to add more but don't let here know. If there's no need to add more then take her to the chair. Secondly, maybe she is over stocking on one item |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by bilangha(m): 9:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
is she from oweri? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by samwash(m): 9:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Some pple monthly salary, which the wife is a full house wife. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by ogawisdom(m): 9:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian: U are a stupid man. How can you be giving transport to a working lady daily from ur insufficient income for the home. Why is she working? Ur HBP is still on entry levels |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Ekugbeh(m): 10:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Shey if you die now she go see person to give her 50k every month abi? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by newdawn2017(f): 10:04pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:after all it's her home too. Why will a man be leaving & sleep with his enemy I'm marriage bewilders me to say d least. what then is d essence of d union & one flesh arrangements?? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Mamabugi(f): 10:06pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Communicate with her about it. And let her know that she is not helping out in building the family. As it seems she wants to scatter her family. This was the same thing I warned a friend of mine against. A new home should not start with high budget, instead #30,000 for a start is ok. When the number doubles, u can double the amount. Presently I and my siblings live on #5000 budget per week. To help me save a bit ad they are living with me |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by 15ssDRIVE(m): 10:07pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Malory: Boss, 50,000 Naira for 1 month in Naija, abeg praise Madam. My own prayer be say,make God enlarge your pocket,you dey really try. Try buy the stuffs for 2 weeks and come back and tell us what’s your observations. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by seunlizy(f): 10:08pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Goldbw122: Pls read the post very well as the woman is working and earning good money |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by newdawn2017(f): 10:10pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Sureplug123:she loves him not in d very first place. U can't bare to see d love of ur life struggle that way & suffer while u can do something to alliviate it. she is a witch, screams red flag 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by rickleye: 10:13pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
chatinent: I agree with the bros here Did you say she is working ? So what does she use her money for ? So bring out an excel sheet and outline what she buys with the money ... Do not spend what you don't have. Cut your clothes according to your cloth. She must be talking with some women you aren't married or comparing herself to others . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by yunqdady: 10:16pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Leomalli47:You are foolish one with local mentality. This is why this place is called a forum. What he has done is the right thing to do. Not everyone is stupid and local like you. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by newdawn2017(f): 10:19pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
penuelway:stop dis! His wife works & earns too. Why enabling d selfish, u greateful, parasitic & poisonous woman of a wife?? I am shocked. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by EzePaschal(m): 10:19pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
50k is actually not enough for a family of four these time and period and baby foods too are too expensive. However, she works and earn too. A good wife should contribute also to lessen the burden on her husband. Nigerian women are not kind. May God help me |
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