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Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Nobody: 4:16pm On Sep 23, 2022
Darren95:
I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.

There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused.
Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.

Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.

Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).

The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.

But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself!
Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.

It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!

I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking.
Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this.
I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!!
To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!
ungrateful idi*t.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by issylarry(m): 4:16pm On Sep 23, 2022
Darren95:
I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.

There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused.
Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.

Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.

Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).

The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.

But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself!
Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.

It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!

I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking.
Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this.
I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!!
To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!
for real u are not thinking well about this ,u have a decisive problem and it would affect you now and future!

Someone abandoned Wetin she dey do come care for you ..u still dey talk rubbish!even all these things you wrote are irritating ..You need God’s healing in and out!
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by BArris007(m): 4:17pm On Sep 23, 2022
Shut up your ashawo mouth

virginprincess:
Aren't you happy you saw someone helping you,assuming she refuse to help when you called her you will still be the one to complain that girls are wicked and heartless, she is helping you now but you are still complaining because you are not able to fulfill your evil agenda,most nigeria men are truly not worth helping.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Acesexcell(m): 4:19pm On Sep 23, 2022
Come oh!! op you mean you kpansh the girl even in your condition?? Haba it's wrong now. It wouldn't allow you to heal fast oh. Please never do that again.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Oceanz: 4:22pm On Sep 23, 2022
There was no issue when u inserted ur broken penis inside her honey pot.So what do you want nairalanders to do for you now.She is your God's sent (Eve) wife okay,so stop complaining and again be guided.A lady friend in need is a wife indeed.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by omoadeleye(m): 4:23pm On Sep 23, 2022
akwesenana:
Omo, you've seen someone to help you and you're still complaining.

Tell her straight up that you are tired of her mother hen like behaviour and if she doesn't behave you'll kick her out.


MODIFIED
Come to think of it, you still complained about your male friend that was sucking you dry after helping you from the accident m

You still see another helper, you still dey complain.

Walahi, only God fit help you. undecided



I think the guy never deserve good things of life
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by lereinter(m): 4:27pm On Sep 23, 2022
ufotty2001:
I have a similar problem but my own is that I don't have any physical challenges.. there is a girl that is currently staying with me I just met her recently from there she fall in luv with me and she decide to come to my house to help me with house work.. but currently she has refused to go back to her place.. we do have sex Everytime and I provide for her. Infact I give her everything she need.. my problem is that I don't know how to tell her to leave because am not longer comfortable


Why did you let it get to dis stage

Just play her

Eg

tell her your relatives are coming

Avoid your house

Do something
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Yankee101: 4:32pm On Sep 23, 2022
Highestpromoton:
Pretend your money have finished and ask her to borrow you like 200k na she go run.

Nope. She’ll give him
. E go worsen the entitlement to him
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by 07kjb: 4:37pm On Sep 23, 2022
She is irritating you?

Seems you are ungrateful
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Nobody: 4:37pm On Sep 23, 2022
You will marry that girl o, What if she’s your daughter. Guy I’m angry sef
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Fadoria: 4:40pm On Sep 23, 2022
Remember this quote"never leave a good woman with a good heart becuse you might never come accross such"
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Subonbon(m): 4:56pm On Sep 23, 2022
virginprincess:
Aren't you happy you saw someone helping you,assuming she refuse to help when you called her you will still be the one to complain that girls are wicked and heartless, she is helping you now but you are still complaining because you are not able to fulfill your evil agenda,most nigeria men are truly not worth helping.
fear human being!!
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by BRATISLAVA: 4:57pm On Sep 23, 2022
luizpippo:
Someone is helping you will you are an helpless cripple and you are feeling ungrateful, she even topped it up with kpekus.

Regarding her jealous look, if you were the one tending to a babe like she has devoted her life to doing for you, you'd feel same way too.

How much do you feel a live in caregiver would charge you monthly to take care of you?
Then try and pay such amount into her account monthly, so when you are back on your feet and she wants to claim i did it for love, you can in turn claim you felt that money paid for her services.

Lol.

Wicked truth.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Sacrosanct12(m): 4:58pm On Sep 23, 2022
advanceDNA:


He asked for help..she agreed....he ddnt force er.....She should do the favor and be going to her house.....
.if its the man now..u will say is becos of the gift he gave her that wants a relationship by force.......

Darren95 u don enter one chance..women are worse than men when it comes to favors... a man might just want sex and let the lady know....
..but u see women...without asking u anything u are automatically owing the sex, a faithful relationship, a ring, bride price, monthly allowance for them and their family...

..if you are not careful na petrol and fire go end am...u wey never sabi walk...na untop bed she go burn you....
No move am out oooo...first control your sex urge..thats the first way to let her know her handshake is getting to the elbow... if you get small cash give her like 25k ...

say u know u ddnt agree on payment but that nothing is free to you....she will get the memo
change ur username to AVERYWICKEDMAN grin
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by tabaralph: 4:59pm On Sep 23, 2022
Darren95:
I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.

There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused.
Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.

Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.

Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).

The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.

But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself!
Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.

It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!

I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking.
Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this.
I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!!
To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!
You have not started walking but you have started fucking her right?..that your leg will be amputated laslas if care is not taking
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Pacesetterz: 5:01pm On Sep 23, 2022
Darren95:
I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.

There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused.
Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.

Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.

Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).

The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.

But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself!
Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.

It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!

I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking.
Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this.
I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!!
To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!

Op you’re very stupid
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by darexolu16(m): 5:03pm On Sep 23, 2022
Darren95:
I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.

There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused.
Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.

Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.

to nak u 2by2 just dey hungry me and na that ur leg i go target,better finish wat u started..na ur wife be that u must marry her..ingrate!!!

Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).

The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.

But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself!
Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.

It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!

I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking.
Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this.
I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!!
To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Joe4real1988(m): 5:05pm On Sep 23, 2022
Sucre6:


It was clearly stated, she already gave birth before op met and slept with her, if she wasnt good enough, why den struggling to eat her honey pot.

Op want eat clean mouth , unfortunately, e no fit clean mouth after eating this one,

Op when is the wedding? grin
And the marriage/wedding must happen. I hate nonsense undecided undecided undecided
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by advanceDNA: 5:07pm On Sep 23, 2022
Sacrosanct12:
change ur username to AVERYWICKEDMAN grin

Why??
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Sucre6: 5:07pm On Sep 23, 2022
Joe4real1988:
And the marriage/wedding must happen. I hate nonsense undecided undecided undecided

Yes oh by fire by thunder

I didn't buy data for peace, vawulence all the way grin
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by sonnie10: 5:07pm On Sep 23, 2022
This is system failure issue in the health sector in Nigeria. If health insurance was a common thing and healthcare rehabilitation centers are built, there won't be any need to look for people to help after surgery.
The hospital where you had the surgery would have just transferred you to the rehab to longer stay until you are better,
There, you would get physical therapy, planned meals from nutritionists, nursing care, and the aides would be there for other personal hygiene care.

What you see as a problem is actually a business opportunity for individual who can invest in this very lucrative aspect of healthcare, health insurance and healthcare nursing and rehab centers in Nigeria .
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by bukatyne(f): 5:08pm On Sep 23, 2022
naijapikin2:
If she's irritating you all you have to do is...






Irritate her back. undecided
That's all cool

grin cheesy
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by mechanics(m): 5:08pm On Sep 23, 2022
You are funny, just because you had your way now you are tired of her caring attitude, something must be wrong with you.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Joe4real1988(m): 5:08pm On Sep 23, 2022
Carndidlaydee:
sad


Ingrate angry

Ipray the pains you feel never leave that leg of yours.

You cannot help yourself to the kitchen but you can get your withered diccck up.

Dead gender






did you read the write up at all undecided
Please who is using who undecided


Fruitless beings with stick between their legs
Who hurt you this much. Pls don't believe every man is like that guy that broke you ok.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Sacrosanct12(m): 5:08pm On Sep 23, 2022
advanceDNA:


Why??
how you take carry all the wickedness wey the lady supposed do the guy for your head.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by mechanics(m): 5:09pm On Sep 23, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
na lie o ,you must finish what you started cheesy, you better making arrangements for marriage , you want to eat your cake and have it
hahhahah, good for him.
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by OdefaGirl(f): 5:09pm On Sep 23, 2022
obinna58:

Why would she be so blind to get pregnant from an idiot in the first, I bet she was doing shakara, let her go to the section of single moms so that the few good men left will get the chance to meet the women of their choice.

And you think that the writer is one of the "good men"?

That guy doesn't deserve a good woman
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by chrysora: 5:12pm On Sep 23, 2022
candidly my brother learn to love her...plan on marrying her even in d sick bed...aint u tired of life already? she is here with u even without d sex nd d sex consumed the whole thing...bro...learn to love her plan to marry her nd talk things out with her
Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by leochi(m): 5:15pm On Sep 23, 2022
I guess she was in a relationship with someone that later failed that should be why she refused to submit to op. And since after the failed relationship she has been looking for an opportunity to get in touch with op of which this inccident has made it possible.
Op you made mistake by allowing her live and sleep with you when you know that you don't love her. Anyway think about it very well if she's of good character and you have a little feelings for her, you can give her a chance. But if not don't give her the impression that you want to have a relationship with her. Quite having sex with her, appreciate her for all she has done for you in every manner you can, tell her about your fiance (even when there's none) with these she will get herself together. Don't be ungrateful and don't marry out of sympathy or gratitude.

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Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by advanceDNA: 5:17pm On Sep 23, 2022
Sacrosanct12:
how you take carry all the wickedness wey the lady supposed do the guy for your head.

But u suppose sabi women behavior naaa... they will not discuss what they want from you yet if you dont do what they want....you will pay for it

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Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by SPAMBOX7: 5:19pm On Sep 23, 2022
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Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by Tbaba001: 5:22pm On Sep 23, 2022
MR MAN, YOU BANGED HER AND NOW YOU ARE FORMING IRRITATED, HOW STUPID... SEE OGA, IF YOU WANT HER TO LEAVE, PAY HER FOR NURSING YOU TO HEALTH, AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOU CAN CARE FOR YOURSELF HENCEFORTH AND YOU APPRECIATE HER ASSISTANCE... (NOTE: THE PAYMENT PART IS IMPORTANT)

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