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M by Heroicvic(m): 1:38pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
M 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: M by Hollybratt(m): 1:39pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Why not tell at first that you are not ready to be a father you this boy enh . . . IRMC 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: M by biggy00000(m): 1:40pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Did you at any point promise her marriage? On a second thought; she embezzled the money for pills so that might be ground for you not to marry her and can sue her for obtaining under false pretence The part of threat; na spiritual abi na law? 5 Likes |
Re: M by okerekingsley90: 1:41pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Oga go and do the needful 1 Like |
Re: M by Heroicvic(m): 1:43pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
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Re: M by Heroicvic(m): 1:44pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
biggy00000: The kind threat of "you will leave Nigeria" bet me |
Re: M by Righteousness2(m): 1:44pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
The only law that can help you is to do unto others what you want dem to do to you. If your sister or daughter was in her shoes, what will you do? If you were bold to fornicate and impregnate someone's daughter, you should be courageous enough to take what Follows 5 Likes |
Re: M by Heroicvic(m): 1:45pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Hollybratt: I don't even know what to say But does it means anyone in a relationship is ready for fatherhood? |
Re: M by biggy00000(m): 1:46pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Heroicvic: As in they will tension you to the extent of self exile? |
Re: M by Heroicvic(m): 1:46pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Righteousness2: Daddy G.O abeg put mouth |
Re: M by Nobody: 1:46pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
As far as I know, if a person really wants and is ready for marriage OR marriage to a particular person, the person will feel it in his heart. If they are not feeling it and they go ahead with it, they'll probably struggle to get along and keep it going unless God wills otherwise. Pregnancy is not enough reason to jump into marriage. It can even be a reason not to because it is indicative of the fact that both parties are irresponsible and need good training for allowing pregnancy to happen outside wedlock. So deal with that pregnancy as you should and don't let marriage come into the picture unless all the proper and relevant criteria for marriage has been checked or fulfilled and both parties feel it in their heart that they're ready to get into the union with each other. Besides, all these out-of-wedlock pregnancies here and there are some of the manifestations of all we've been saying that this civilization presently prevailing is faulty, unworthy and rotten. The weak, deviant and heedless have taken the earth. When the great emperor "The Unity" arrives and establishes his New Era, God willing, the world will witness what true civilization looks like and incidents like this will hardly happen. We await his coming, The Unity. |
Re: M by Heroicvic(m): 1:47pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
biggy00000: Her dad is a chairman in our local garage |
Re: M by Shedrack777: 1:48pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
bring her to me, i'll marry her while you take responsibility. is it ok by you? |
Re: M by kushma(m): 1:49pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Getting someone pregnant should not determine if you will marry her or not, marriage is for life unless you are ready to take what that comes with it. Tell them you are not ready and make sure you take good care of the child once you have confirmed that the baby is really yours, because who knows what the agenda is. Be safe. |
Re: M by biggy00000(m): 1:54pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Heroicvic: Ha! Guy; Omo chairman NURTW I can't advise you to marry her cus a child is on the way as there is more to marriage than child bearing. Think you shld take elders to Chairman and explain that you will be responsible for the child and his grandchild to the extent of your ability but you will not be able to marry her now as you are neither financially matured nor emotionally matured to deal this. |
Re: M by Heroicvic(m): 1:54pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
kushma: Thanks |
Re: M by Heroicvic(m): 1:55pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
biggy00000: Lol I guess you now understand what I'm up to My door dey locked as I dey type so |
Re: M by Heroicvic(m): 1:55pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Shedrack777: That's your business |
Re: M by Shedrack777: 1:58pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Heroicvic:ok. bye! |
Re: M by DaddyRochie1642: 2:50pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Re: M by Nobody: 3:02pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Heroicvic:You are not the first to get a girl pregnant. Don't be pressured to marry her. Please, watch very well before considering marriage. Better still, let her have the baby, then take of his/her responsibility. |
Re: M by spencekat(m): 3:15pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Righteousness2:And marriage is what follows? |
Re: M by 7buckz(m): 4:17pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
When the kid is born do DNA test and if the child is yours take responsibility and discharge the thot |
Re: M by Dfynboi: 4:28pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Wen u were knacking her raw all alone did you seek our advice
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Re: M by jeromestarks: 6:13pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Heroicvic:You don't have to marry her. You didn't rape her. She willingly opened her legs and enjoyed it while you fvcked. Keeping the baby is her choice, you don't have any obligation to take care of the child if you don't want it. Make your stand known to her stupid family and let the girl go and meet another man who wants a single mother. 1 Like |
Re: M by Nobody: 7:18pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
No it's not by force, except you're a mumu |
Re: M by ModCaller: 8:20pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
Don't marry her. Marrying her would be your worst decision ever |
Re: M by goshikid: 8:26pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
When your little stupid prick been enter her to. To you tell us is like you're mad or something |
Re: M by kelspinall(m): 8:47pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
una like raw but no sabi pull out congrats daddy junior.. go do the needful |
Re: M by spencekat(m): 12:10pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
kelspinall:Pull out also fails. |
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