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| Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 2:42pm On May 03, 2008 |
Please read and HELP!! I was in a short term relationship with a girl. Nothing serious just friend with benefit type of relationship. She honestly told me that she's seeing someone but we could be friend then I said fine, then after some weeks we start getting down . We've had sex without using CD'S Onces. But instantly took some things to get rid of it that night, then I stop seeing her. We talk on phone rarely and see each other maybe onces in a week. I stopped calling her when I hear people saying they saw her with a guy or something like that. Then she called me after 6-7 month told me that she's pregnant and that I am resposible for it LOL. I don't know what to think ,? Help, can this be possible . Is 7 month the best tyme for her to tell me that she is pregnant or she has tried many guys and finally want to put that on me,  Please help I am a student and working on my BSC degree and really can't stand this now. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by bigfather(m): 3:07pm On May 03, 2008 |
I will blame you for not having self control ! And as for the pregnancy; i think she is trying to play a fast one on you ! |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Nobody: 3:18pm On May 03, 2008 |
Ever heard of DNA test? and if ur lucky to b d father, don't shy away 4rm ur responsibility  |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by chisimdi(f): 3:26pm On May 03, 2008 |
Which oda ADVICE u want when u don already advice your self say u no go use protection.post your addy mk i send u 5 cartons of pampers.1 mur TIN,CONGRATULATIONS BABA EJIMA.  |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by jamah(m): 1:14am On May 04, 2008 |
maaaaaan be wise oooo. shes trying to play a fast one. ahn aaahn!!! after 7 months of seeing. was that when she realized she had a bun in the oven ? |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Nobody: 1:18am On May 04, 2008 |
@poster na waooo,where has dat word self control run tooo,how will congee hold a guy and he'll forget to use a condom wen d babe aint d wife,same to women too anyway oga poster i will advise u continue making love to her,so dat she wont have complications during labour,doctors advise every man to continue doing the jigijigi until a little before d due date,so dats my advise for u |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Dreloaded(f): 1:19am On May 04, 2008 |
how far along is she now? |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 1:30am On May 04, 2008 |
D-reloaded , This's very funny but it real. I think the preg is 8 month now. She didnt even tell me that she was pregnant , someone called me that they saw her and they think she's pregnant. few weeks later she called and asked me if I am at home I said no, and she said I should call her when I return back, then I redial her number and ask her myself that someone told me that she's pregnant and she said yes. and she said I am responsible, She didnt tell me anything till I asked her . |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by spoilt(f): 1:32am On May 04, 2008 |
only DNA will say for sure.  It may be yours but of course she cant tell her man that.  |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Dreloaded(f): 1:38am On May 04, 2008 |
You should have never asked her anything You said you quickly did stuff after the absence of condom situation what did you do? drink herbs? |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 1:40am On May 04, 2008 |
Spoilt, Really, I am not ready to father a child now. As a guy I dont expect her to tell me after 7 month. I stopped calling her when I hear what people say about her. We meet at church but I was told she rule the str8. I tout she was special, I stop seeing her for a while then at of the shadow she called . If you've a broda and this kinda of thing happen what will you do |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 1:46am On May 04, 2008 |
I bought her Mestrogen and Postenor Instantly. and also I told her to drink water with salt, all the pro I learnt from peeps. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by LadyT(f): 1:46am On May 04, 2008 |
You cant do anything apart from DNA I suggest you start saving |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by spoilt(f): 1:48am On May 04, 2008 |
@OP Hopefully my brother knows better than mess with another man's girl. hopefully if he does, he uses some kind of protection everytime. I am uable to give advice in situations like this. I find it easier to say "serves you right fool". Anyway i know this is a bad situation to be in. Do we even have DNA testing in Nigeria yet? You just cant tell without DNA afterall she might have been having sex with both of you at the same time. She has probably told the other guy the same thing too. Spoilt has no answers here. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by spoilt(f): 1:48am On May 04, 2008 |
water and salt? how old are your peeps? seven? |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Dreloaded(f): 1:53am On May 04, 2008 |
TolaniLuv: Dont know who told you shit about slat water. Pregnancy is different from toothache. as for the other two, they should have worked. Did you WATCH her take them? |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by spoilt(f): 1:55am On May 04, 2008 |
even if he did, there's something called failure rate. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 1:58am On May 04, 2008 |
Posted by: spoilt Insert Quote water and salt? how old are your peeps? seven? LOL, Well, that's Optional. She took Mestrogen and Postenor Instantly. Do I need to do d DNA test or just igorne her, She don't even call me that much, but keep saying I am responsible. Posted on: Today at 01:48:05 AMPosted by: spoilt Insert Quote @OP Hopefully my brother knows better than mess with another man's girl. hopefully if he does, he uses some kind of protection everytime. I am uable to give advice in situations like this. I find it easier to say "serves you right fool". Anyway i know this is a bad situation to be in. Do we even have DNA testing in Nigeria yet? You just can't tell without DNA afterall she might have been having sex with both of you at the same time. She has probably told the other guy the same thing too. Spoilt has Well, When was the last tyme you been to 9ja. Because we have DNA system in nigerian ever since I can remember. You think it serves me right Spoilt, and I am not messing with another man's girl she told me that it cool. You think I should ve turn down the offer when she said Cool with her apart from her real boyfriend that she told me about I did some research and find out she's seeing another guy in her estate. , I don't trust her |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by spoilt(f): 2:01am On May 04, 2008 |
why oh why did you 'do' her? If theres DNA in Nigeria now, then your problem is going to be solved in about 2 months. Just take the baby when it's born to be tested. Then this thread will end. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 2:02am On May 04, 2008 |
Well, She took the menstrogen in my present. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 2:07am On May 04, 2008 |
It's not that easy to take the baby, I wish you were in my shoes. Why I do her is because I do her before researching and I could just turn back the time. and Undo her, well I stop everything when I find out about her. I don't even have much time to know much about her before we start doing that shit, I can't stand being a father now, sucks. My future plan will be ruin wit dis shit I can't get it off my head |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by chisimdi(f): 2:18am On May 04, 2008 |
chisimdi: |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Gamine(f): 2:22am On May 04, 2008 |
Man! Stop whining jo! i tried to refrain from posting here, What are you trying to get from Nairaland? Go back to the Real world and sort yourself out! Why didnt you think about the conseQ before getting into this rubbish and you come here whining! Puhleaaaase!!!!! Han han, Myopic Puga! |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 2:24am On May 04, 2008 |
chisimdi: Well, That will be great of you. You can baby sit for me as well right If you're a guy and a young gurl you barely know did this to you . What would you do |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by chisimdi(f): 2:31am On May 04, 2008 |
TolaniLuv:I wuld hv luv 2 baby sit 4 u but my hands r full,cos i'm a 4 star general{3boys& my hubby},so u c no room 4 mur.All u hv 2 do is wait 4 d birth of d child den u go 4 paternity test. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 2:33am On May 04, 2008 |
Gamine: You think I am whining or seeking for peeps advice Do you know why people come here to seek for advice Because they are not perfect. You just did your own part now. I've seens some topics here that are not what saying in public. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Ugwumba(m): 2:34am On May 04, 2008 |
TolaniLuv: At least next time you will do your research first, Prof. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 2:39am On May 04, 2008 |
chisimdi: aight I can see why you can't baby sit for me then. But, If I have to do the DNA . She will have to call her boyfriend that she told me about with me that day and the other guy in her estate . We will go together and do it for 3 of us. then I will then think of facing my responsibilities. This's optional, I am not sure. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Gamine(f): 2:43am On May 04, 2008 |
i really wonder what you are seeking on this Land Thats all. You must face the conseQ of your actions And im too glad, the baby is alive and not MURDERED!!!!! |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by chisimdi(f): 2:52am On May 04, 2008 |
TolaniLuv:D oda guys r nt suppose 2 b ur problem,wat u shuld b after is 4 u 2 find out if d unborn baby is urs wen she puts 2 bed. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by Dreloaded(f): 2:52am On May 04, 2008 |
dude, stop calling her. if after the child is born and she still bothers you, tell her you'd like a paternity test and follow her Simple. |
| Re: Can You accept this ? by TolaniLuv: 3:01am On May 04, 2008 |
D-reloaded: We don't communicate much. I still wonder why she don't call me that much , she don't even disturb me with her parent but she keep telling people that I am responsible. I don't know if she's scared to call or talk to me, for 7 month now I have not talk with her in person. She told few of my pals that my nbr is not going through. While I recieve calls everyday, Kinda weird |
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