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Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by jclassiq(m): 5:57pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Fuckyoumod: Lol. I share your frustrations bro, but don't forget that life in general has changed, not just the women but men also. While we like to point fingers and accuse the other gender, we mustn't shy away from mending our own ways too so that when we express our righteous indignation, we can do so with no guilty conscience. I wrote this thing somewhere before: As the men folk began to solicit more and more sex from the women folk; enticing them with all sort of "bribes" and gifts, The women folk also fell for it, saw that it was good, and started to monetize their love and their bodies. That's how we found ourselves here today. There are still decent and undefiled women out there. They exist but they are extremely few. If you find one, you are a very lucky man indeed. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by almarthins(m): 6:03pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
zedegit: Like one is shocking me right now! Those complicated creature believes that they have the control button of man. Every man should be on guard |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Zonefree: I nearly fell into that trap. |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by FireUpNow(m): 6:42pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Date first so you get some life experiencs before going into marriage proper or else you wants to dig your early grave or e go choke or shock you before your eyes go clear |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Bahamas95(m): 6:45pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Nothing on earth will make me marry without dating. No matter how she tries to pretend or hide her bad character you must see the handwriting on the wall if you ain't stupid. Nobody is perfect, but if she didn't meet my passmark I will dump her ASAP. Dating gives you the opportunity to know who you'll be living with. I have dated several girls before and know how women reason.......For you to finally pick one of them means she's the one that will cause less trouble. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Nickymezor(f): 6:47pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Bahamas95:Lolz at ur last line |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by criuze(m): 7:02pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
3 weeks is enough to get the idea In marriage there's no graduation |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by 7arrows: 7:22pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
zedegit: To avoid problems u need to know ur wife to be. Dating doesn't mean sex. It's getting to know eachother. So in my opinion u must know the person u desire to get married to. |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Miltonz123: 7:35pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
BabaCommander: All these church goers are worst and promiscuous. I don't trust any lady again. |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by InvertedHammer: 7:36pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
zedegit: / The economy no support dating. Buy wholesale and deal with the repercussions if any. You waste money and time dating...then one smooth-talker will arm twist you . / |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Jossyfine(f): 7:46pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Zonefree: I can state here categorically that women with the fear of God still exist but the problem is that men do take such good women for granted. Am a quality wife material 1000 yards but unfortunately Am married and hubby can attest to it. Because he doesn’t just provide money for i and the kids, he also made me a signatory to his account.� 1 Like |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by josephevergreen(m): 7:57pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Date, get to know each other very well marriage is a life time commitment abeg . Especially now that majority of our girls are into hookup and all manner of rubbish. Guys shine your eye abeg. Some girls are destiny destroyers! 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Babydaddymateri(m): 8:18pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
YourHerbalOrgan:Yes |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by frozen70(f): 8:26pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
zedegit: I still prefer dating it gives you guys a chance to understand each other, things you can't cope with, you talk about it and if it won't work out you pull out Straight marriage doesn't give you time to study each other and once you are stucked into the marriage you may not be happy with the whole thing yet you won't leave because you don't want people to talk about it |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by RepoMan007: 8:27pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
judedwriter:Can you define love? |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Starz825(m): 8:28pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
HomeTutorsPro:why..if I may ask |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by plantainbender(m): 9:27pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Baba say na "do your Know Your Customer properly" iLegendd: |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by AlphaTaikun: 9:46pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Ireportlive:Nicely put. |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Makowonda: 9:52pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
I don't have a problem with outright marriage but one,and that one problem could cause a serious disaster in your matrimonial home;sexual incompartibity is the problem,a big risk that one could be exposed to should you decide to opt for outright marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by AlphaTaikun: 9:56pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
iLegendd:Well said. However, 4 months to 1 year of dating in order to strictly get to know one another through open, strategic convos and healthy arguements is okay by me before any wedding ceremony. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Paulnoma(m): 11:29pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Zonefree: Them still dey ...only God gives a virtuous wife...but before you seek for a God fearing wife u should first be God fearing yourself.... Like attracts like.God loves you and if u open your heart to his saving grace he will be your saviour and order your life....as for marriage,u don't know tomorrow,but God knows,so u should rest in him and trust him....I believe praying, a change of mindset and a renewal of thought pattern will help us in marriage....ROM 12:1&2.. remain blessed 1 Like |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by AllDModsAreMaad: 11:33pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Anything that works for you. I have seen people to dated for 9 years and their marriage na higihaga. I have also seen people that got married less than a week of meeting and their marriage is very OK. I know no marriage is perfect but some na war and some are peaceful. BTW, I wouldn't mind outright marriage. So, choose what works for you. |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by AllDModsAreMaad: 11:37pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
InvertedHammer: Correct nigga. Start enjoying her right away before them use you carry over 2.2 |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Autobot05: 11:44pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
This a a very dumb question What if you marry thief or winch |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 12:16am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Fuckyoumod: During marriage counseling, they told us how elder men in the church used to do crash sex courses for the groom and importance of lubricants before reception or few days to the wedding. Do with the above info whatever you will. |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 12:18am On Nov 06, 2022 |
@OP: Date| court | marry. I love to eliminate stress as much as possible. I don't have the time or patience to start learning if you sleep with AC or press toothpaste in the middle after marriage. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 12:19am On Nov 06, 2022 |
InvertedHammer: Warris this |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by angelfallz(m): 12:46am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Aren't dating and courting the same thing? bukatyne: |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by boxer022(m): 1:57am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Every one is entitled to his or her own opinions, to me I think the thing to do is get a girl you like first then work on the friendship till it blossoms to relationship (dating or courtship) where you know little about her while begging God to lead you. If you feel that she is worth making your better half or the mother of your children, then go ahead. You cannot just see a girl on the street which maybe you like her physical appearance and attributes then immediately tell her you want to marry her. She may not take you serious or see you as the one's who use marriage to deceive girls just to get into their panties. As I said earlier, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by AreaFada2: 2:23am On Nov 06, 2022 |
iLegendd:Chai! Old or new generation banker? |
Re: Dating Or Outright Marriage? by Teymanhenry(f): 6:10am On Nov 06, 2022 |
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