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Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by donsheddy1(m): 11:44am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Still two simps having a conversation. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Pheelzy(m): 11:45am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Baffupdrizz: COMRADE CALM DOWN 1 Like
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Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Jephyard(m): 11:46am On Nov 08, 2022 |
At the OP, I must commend you for standing up for your family even when your dad and mom are not doing enough. And by the way you are not weak, this is a family matter and must be handle carefully irrespective of how some of us might see it here. In all these never disrespect your dad. Carry your dad along since he wants to recoperate him. All of you should sit round even with your cousin and cousin mom, everyone should agreed, he will be sent to rehab soon. Every culture has rehab homes for people like him. It there in your community or another or government rehab centers. That you all love him and cant continue to lives with you guys cos of his behavioral problems if he refused force him to do so or report to the community head and the clerics. Am not going to fault any member of your family for not being firm as some of us wanted here. They all grew up in different times where family is everything. You mom is right and same as your dad for his actions. And you are also right but you have to take everyone view, culture, belief and power into account before you are seen as being disrespectful. Pray to Allah to give you wisdom to swim through this storm. Let me guess this is first your confrontation with family problem, if you are successful in this ordeal you will be respected by all and be look up to. Goodluck 2 Likes |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by sonofElElyon: 11:47am On Nov 08, 2022 |
You have failed parents... you need to report him |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by ChampionTvEnt(m): 11:48am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Send him this��� Dear bro, we might not need to go brute for family connections but I'll want you to simply go clear off my sisters , please, man to man, let's talk it out at a place tonight. No quarrels but blunt thoughts allowed ... If you show up, you're just coming up with excuses If you don't show up, it means you've respected yourself and has given up the fight. Big boy thumbs up, I also forgive and let go of the past. But need to see my sisters as your taboos and downfalls hence. 7pm tonight at a (near by bar) Simple, and incase he comes around, never give in to whatever his excuses are, you're the winner here, keep ringing in his corrupt brain how irritating his continuous act is. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Nobody: 11:48am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Nawao. Must everything be posted on social media? Y'all post every detail of your life on the net and it's truly baffling. Why do strangers need to know what's happening in your private life? To what end? If some go to the market to get something they will post it, if they eat they'll post it, if they enter toilet they'll post it, they quarrel with someone offline they'll post it, they Bleep they'll post it. I'm just curious, what will happen to y'all if due to some circumstances all social media platforms suddenly shut down? Una go die be that oh. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by DeLaRue: 11:49am On Nov 08, 2022 |
This is a harrowing and disturbing case. I'm thinking, is your mother even safe in the hands of this boy. No woman is safe in that house. The boy is giving me a sick feeling. The boy must leave today. Not a day longer. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by BigCowHornn: 11:49am On Nov 08, 2022 |
[quote author=Klass99 post=118210598][/quote] Come now the dude is admonishing his father. HIS FATHER! It takes a lot of balls to dare do that. Doing it face to face is an insult It's bad enough as it is. He went too far if ask me. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Domingujo: 11:49am On Nov 08, 2022 |
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Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by saintneo(m): 11:50am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Oga Kobo, that cousin is not normal I must tell you. For me, my suggestions are defensive strategies, the offensive strategies you suggest might end up back-firing. I am not saying my defensive strategy is perfect either. If they were Christians, I would have suggested taking to boy for strong deliverance. By the time, he fasts for 7 days dry, those demons and evil energies in him will flee by force. About the dad being right - have you ever tried killing mosquito perched on your scrotum - I am assuming that you are a man (male, he, him)? The dad is caught between two devils, he is confused on how to handle it. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by grandstar(m): 11:51am On Nov 08, 2022 |
ChampagneF: Comradepreneur The prime problem here was the boy was left unpunished after masturbating in front of your sister's face. He should have been skinned alive. I don't like beating so I would have thrown him out ASAP. He should have been given a koboko whipping. This will reset his brain. He should also be warned that if he commits any form of sexual abuse outside the home, he would be handed over to the police. The prime problem here was he was left unpunished and that has emboldened him. (Read Ecclesiastes 8:11) 2 Likes |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Streetmovement(m): 11:52am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Wotoporiously speaking Op listen to me, me I get only one sister and I get brothers, all through my early years of living with my parents before moving out to be my own man, them no born any cousin, uncle,relative of any kind to come our house come follow my kid sister dey do anyhow even if I been dey somewhere then I hear am, he go better mk you commot for the house before I come back cuz if not you might just have murder around. If na me I no go even text my papa sef na after I don Bleep the idiot up him sef go jazz up know wetin time dey talk, everybody for my family fears me for one thing, I'm very ruthless when it comes to protecting my kid sister, I might be quiet n gentle but that doesn't mean I'm not going to Bleep you up real bad if shit goes sideways... That thing wey that your cousin do na very nonsense shit, it's better you treat it with iron fist before it's too late, forget all that family feels you got going on and deal with that shit accordingly. Protect your people at all cost 1 Like |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Candidlady: 11:52am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Farid24224: low self esteem increased fear, guilt and self-blame distrust of adults or difficulty forming relationships with others disrupted attachments with those who are meant to keep them safe mental health disorders such as anxiety, attachment, post-traumatic stress and depression disorders self-harming or suicidal thoughts learning disorders, including poor language and cognitive development developmental delay, eating disorders and physical ailments permanent physical injuries or death violent, aggressive or criminal behaviour or other behavioural problems drug and alcohol abuse and high-risk sexual behaviour. (Iam sure you know where iam driving at) Google RAINN 1 Like |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Kobojunkie: 11:52am On Nov 08, 2022 |
saintneo:That boy belongs in jail where he can be rehabilitated at this point. The adults in his life have failed to help him. So the only place left for him to learn is in jail. Else, if he ends up molesting other gals in the neighborhood, he might end up with a tire around his neck and no way back. The dad took this teenage boy in promising to rehabilitate him. There is no sign this man ever did any of what he claimed he would do. Instead he gave the boy an environment in which to flourish in. That is worse. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 08, 2022 |
So it's true that these hijab people are usually disvirgined by family |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by semanose: 11:54am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Zonefree: You are not far from the truth... My thoughts exactly. Out of her 3 children, why is he the only one sent to this man? We might be wrong though but the OP needs to dig further. I wish you are done with school and buoyant enough to take your sister out of that house. God will give you the wisdom to cope in handling this case. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by jamesbridget13(f): 11:55am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Are u sure that boy is not your father's son? I don't understand. Cousin harassing cousin. I no understand 1 Like |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by jamesbridget13(f): 11:56am On Nov 08, 2022 |
If only you could afford n fend for your sisters I would have said you all move out of d house. Let him stay n rehabilitate the Abdul very well 1 Like |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by semanose: 12:03pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Candidlady: Go back to page 1 and read the original thread |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Konjiboii: 12:05pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
OP where are you located, so some nairaland lads can come around and form Voltron so this boy will know you are not someone to mess with. If there are any army nairaland member within your vicinity that too will help instill fear in that monkey |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Cornerstone2018: 12:07pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
When parents neglect their duties like this, the government should collect the girls from them and put them up for adoption since they have decided to keep a spoilt orphan at the detriment of their kids. 1 Like |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Iyke48: 12:11pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
No advice because i didn't read all.
What a long note |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Person keep yam for goat dey complain why goat dey eat de yam. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Treadway: 12:14pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Comradepreneur:Any mis-step from him again, treat his fck up loudly! |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Elsueno: 12:20pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Too lackluster response, e be like say, U might be d only decent male 4 dat house woh. Comradepreneur ayi bincike sosai, ur dad, akwai abunda yake hana shi yayi abinda ya kamata |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Let me tell you and God knows this is what I will do if i was in your shoes. one day when your dad and mum leaves the house. call that stupid boy, hail him" my nigga,( shake his hands and sit him down) you know you are a brother to me and it is my duty to teach you certain things in life, I think it is time for you to learn krav maga, so that you can defend yourself when attacked, now get up and fight me" if he refuses pounce on him, beat the shit out of him. if anyone asks tell them you were teaching him martial art, so that he can defend himself. they can only warn you later, but that boy will fear you, all the days of his life and that is enough to protect your siblings. if you don't know how to fight learn, there comes a time in a man's life when he has to use violence. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by charlesdinho7(m): 12:23pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
the life of this abdul is already ruined. he is a rapist. this guy will turn out to be a notorious criminal. i dont see him changing any time soon. he must be kicked out of your fathers house |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Farid24224(m): 12:23pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Candidlady: Damn!!! That's so bad! |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Elsueno: 12:24pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I am even afraid the parents may even cover up 4 d rapist if they found out about such actions...U know dis 'arufa asiri' stuff. 1 Like |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by jeff1607(m): 12:26pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
redseason: The boy might actually be his brother o, hence his stance on not handling the situation 1 Like |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by wolebest: 12:30pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
This calls for drastic actions or else the guy will impregnate one of the girls. Then all hell and shame will be let loose. |
Re: Update: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by dettolgel: 12:32pm On Nov 08, 2022 |
Mindlog: My thought exactly the cousin may have implicating info on the father and the other uncle that said nothing when he caught him. There is something the op is not aware of. |
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