Hi Nairalander,
A friend of mine lost his wife about a year ago.... October 2021 to be precise.
He has a son who has been with him since the incident...
His Mon is now telling him to get married again because of his son.
He is now asking me if it too early to start a serious relationship that can lead to marriage.
I say let me bring it here for advice.
Thanks

If talk say na em go before em wife, the wife for don remarry since March this year.

Zonefree:
If talk say na em go before em wife, the wife for don remarry since March this year.

Really?

Warris he waiting for?

Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move on

DouyeEbi:
Hi Nairalander,
A friend of mine lost his wife about a year ago.... October 2021 to be precise.
He has a son who has been with him since the incident...
His Mon is now telling him to get married again because of his son.
He is now asking me if it too early to start a serious relationship that can lead to marriage.
I say let me bring it here for advice.
Thanks

He is not marrying for his son but for himself

So let him decide

Hanhan, just one year Women, bring your ears, you know the rest especially those who want to die on top man issues.

Zonefree:
If talk say na em go before em wife, the wife for don remarry since March this year.

Your hatred for female genders will consume you. I wonder how you relate with your female relatives, including your mother and sisters, (if you have any)



Every sane person knows it takes women more time to move on after the demise of their husbands than it is for men.

@op, marital contract expires at the demise/death of a party, so, he can move on.

If he feels he has fully recovered from the death of his departed spouse, he can marry. I imagine that he would be under 40 because they had just a son together before the death of his wife. It is not easy for a man to be alone at this period of life. Not necessarily because of intimacy but because he also needs someone to support the upbringing of the son.

However, he must be careful not to go into another marriage in a haste. He should take his time and watch the type of woman to marry. He needs a woman who would accept his son as her own.

Jennyclay:
Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move one

Senseless as usual, not surprised.

He shouldn’t marry a woman just for his son; he can get a nanny for that.
If he seeks companionship and love again, he can give dating and marriage another chance.

Why does he need anyone's advice? If he doesn't know what he wants in this regard, for the sake of the small boy, he should stay single. He is the type that the new wife can make a house help of the son and he wouldn't care.

GboyegaD:
Why does he need anyone's advice? If he doesn't know what he wants in this regard, for the sake of the small boy, he should stay single. He is the type that the new wife can make a house help of the son and he wouldn't care.

You understand Nigeria levels!

No, it's not too early. Leave death for the dead.

It'll help to know the kid's age.
Your friend's primary concern is his kid, still. Huge consideration in his quest for a partner.

Jennyclay:
Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move on

So he should be alone because one frustrated feminist says so?

@OP, no time is too late. He has a right to remarry and move on. 6 months is the best waiting time. Let him be in a commited relationship then marry after a year

Oluneutral:



Your hatred for female genders will consume you. I wonder how you relate with your female relatives, including your mother and sisters, (if you have any)



Every sane person knows it takes women more time to move on after the demise of their husbands than it is for men.

@op, marital contract expires at the demise/death of a party, so, he can move on.

He hates women bcs he doesn't sound sweet to women and he doesn't comment on what women wanted to hear. Abeg shift jare Mak we see road.
Senior comr @zonefree, ride on men dey ur back

How old is the boy?
No be to go marry new wife wey go kill you then send you son to sell pure water.
Tell him to stay single.
The best thing that can happen to someone is to be raised by a man.

Damnnn niggar
Make him go ahead

One year is enough na

How long should e murn

If that's what he needs so be it.
Please busy body by guilded

He should at least mourn for 2 years nah, Haba!!

So what's the problem? Then what's his age sef?

Let him start asap. The boy needs a mother figure, not grandma figure alone. But he must scout well. Chosing right is chosing peace.

He has tried nah, body no be fire wood abeg

There is no time frame to move on. There are times people start relationship after 5 months. Some start after 5 years. He should do what he likes.

I don't think the guy has his own mind.

He should just be careful and should not rush into another relationship at least for the sake of his son. He should let God lead him and marry someone that love him and his son. Not a lady that's looking for ATM machine.

Majority of Nigeria girls are just looking for someone that will shoulder their loads with almost nothing to contribute.

Never be a SIMP.

Jennyclay:
Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move on

Dumb and daft as usual.

One wonders if this lady has properly functioning brain cells

Jennyclay:
Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move on

You and anything called sense are far from one another

Jennyclay:
Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move on

This is either comedy or sarcasm