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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Carcholce: 3:41pm On Jan 01, 2023
obinna58:
Men if you make a move on a woman and she reject you it means she owes you the next move, if she doesn’t make the next move on you within a short period of time please destroy the relationship or marriage, it’s unbalanced

Divorce is an option here

The truth is, a woman is supposed to be the one to always make the move. But men do not understand how to do this. There’s a big difference between wanting sex from your wife and your wife wanting sex with you. A woman is supposed to be the one calling family meeting that her husband does not touch her anymore. Men lack knowledge in this regard.

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Pastoshizzy(m): 3:42pm On Jan 01, 2023
pocohantas:


So? Why exactly do you think my suggestion is for his betterment or you think I have strength to argue with you?
sis...do you always carry a 12 guage? (Nice 1). Happy new year.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by edunaragold(f): 3:42pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I han



I no dey reason woman again, as long as i have weed and x1 and my two step,if pakus no come to me,it will stay there and get old,nacking is not the end of the word,i too have been deprive going to two yrs yet i no die.still i have found a way to keep doing my responsibility as a father

Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by jimmynauty: 3:42pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
I'm good in bed o and I sabi many styles. It's just another problem.

Does she shske. I mean her legs and hand when she richam?
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Gohs: 3:43pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. . .

Please vote Peter Obi. . . The economy will improve.

You will have money to lavish on your wife.

If you really want to catch your wife's eye, ASSIST HER WITH HOUSE WORK!

This is a loud way of saying I care about how you feel.

SO she'll listen to you when you tell her how you feel.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by shineeye1: 3:44pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?


Guy slow down. You too fhock! Fhock na food?! You raised alarm that you have been starved for one year,meanwhile you even collected a week ago!!!
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by kunle75(m): 3:44pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?


Your wife is getting it steady somewhere else
Wise up bro
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by cliqtips: 3:44pm On Jan 01, 2023
is that the way she was before ?

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by DEROXMAN: 3:46pm On Jan 01, 2023
HeartlessMan:
Married men are simps
heartless man I thought you want to be simple man this year
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jan 01, 2023
embarassed

gaby:


Happy birthday, fellow Capricorn. We rock.
Celebrating mine on the 4th.

We are life's special...

I fuckin (hate) the Capricorn
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Lumidee007(m): 3:48pm On Jan 01, 2023
My story. OP, I may sue you for plagiarism.

Seriously,I have similar thing with my wife. I can recount in a year, I made love to my wife twice.
We had sex last now ,it's almost 3months. Now she has travelled angry.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jan 01, 2023
I’m glad I’m not a Christian guy grin
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Socratiz: 3:50pm On Jan 01, 2023
My honest advice to you is that you see a professional marriage counsellor.

The Counsellor would help you unravel the reasons behind your wife's reluctance to sex.

It could be from her upbringing, family background, old wives fables about sex or even hormonal imbalance.

Infidelity is not the solution and I'm happy your Christian church conviction is against it.

You may wish to contact me for guidance
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by yinkeys(m): 3:50pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Men globally complain of this
Google search about it
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by blesdman(m): 3:51pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Fake story spotted
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jan 01, 2023
grin

pocohantas:
Marry a second wife.

We entering 2023 With violence
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Lumidee007(m): 3:52pm On Jan 01, 2023
cliqtips:
is that the way she was before ?

Mine, no. We both like sex before marriage. Her mood change after giving birth to our boy. She accused me of not initiating sex first and I know is just a made up story as she always be the one to initiate sex right from the start. My Ego.

Now if I initiate it,she bars at me and it later feels as if I want to rape her. I just move out to bleep those hookups. She doesn't care
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by AkpaMgbor(m): 3:53pm On Jan 01, 2023
From my experience ( some of which are identic and recent) your wife is done with the marriage mentally. Na just the physical separation remain. No sexually active woman can go a year without sex when she is even married. It's easier for a single woman to go a year and be celibate than did a woman in a sexual relationship / marriage. Make of this information what you will.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by AngelicBeing: 3:54pm On Jan 01, 2023
pocohantas:
Marry a second wife.
Una go kill person with laugh for nairaland.com, l know that you are joking but continue, second wife ke tongue
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by franchasng: 3:55pm On Jan 01, 2023
pocohantas:
Marry a second wife.
Are you talking to me shocked grin
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Obason22(m): 3:57pm On Jan 01, 2023
benson4u:
I have the following questions for you, answer honestly please.
1) Was she sexualy molested earlier in her life?
2) Is she the shy type or an introvert?
3) Did you met her a virgin?
4) Has she given birth before?
5) Do you know if she's pregnant?
6) Is she working for someone or she has her own business?
7) Is the work or business stressful or giving her time for you?
cool Was she like this while you guys were dating?
my wife is shy type, I told her this morning that enough is enough.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Solsix(m): 3:57pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Devil is a liar, this too will pass
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by franchasng: 3:59pm On Jan 01, 2023
Basicend:
Most ladies of this generation a sex crazy and thirsty. . I know what am saying. .

So for a woman to deny her husband sex, I think one of the factors might be d guy may be not looking sexy anymore. . May be u need to work on ur shape etc. . Or your performance on it. .

Just my view.
1.) He maybe struggling financially

2.) She maybe seeing all those Facebook, Instagram or TikTok hotboys abi jigolos deceiving ladies of nowadays with 30 packs and bouncing chest grin


3.) His finances is struggling


4.) He maybe experiencing money palava


5.) She met her ex and her ex is more financially buoyant than her hubby hence she is regretting that she married her current husband cheesy
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Richpet85: 3:59pm On Jan 01, 2023
Bro it is very sad to hear but the truth is welcom to our club, yours is just a year and you are complaining mine is going to almost 2years. Most often we the men are architect of our problem, we marry for beauty or to please some external pressure or to satisfy our quest to some certain need without considering several factors that are necessary before going into marriage. In my own case I can swear that my wife is not cheating because i trust her completely on that regard but her love for me has grow cold infact she is looking for a way to end the marriage by been hostal, show no interest in sex and always trying hard to make angry and frausted.
Am sharing my experience so you would not say i do not understand. Marriage is more than just love, sex, material things. Marriage required absolute maturity, patient, endurance, perseverance and complete trust in God. If your wife is the type that permit heart to heart talk, discuss with her express your feelings and concern to her, dont ever tell her you are tired or going out to cheat or getting another wife. Once you do will excalate the situation beyond you and your marriage will hit a brickwall. Secondly go to God in prayers because most factor of such behaviour might be spiritual and also beyond your wife.
Thirdly Don't stop loving her rather increase your love for her no matter her attitude. Behave as if all things are normal with time she will come to her sense and she will change completely and your love life will be amazing again.
Fourthly, if she love advanture take her out for holiday especially outside the city where you guys resident because most time wife can feel very boiling in their marriage because of environment.
Finally engage yourself in things that makes you happy like drinking, hanging out with friends, join club of likemind, u can as well get a female friend ensure you tell her you are married so she will know her boundaries over time your problem will be things of the past. I assure you if you keep faith in your wife you will enjoy your marriage and your wife will come to love you more at the later part of your marriage which is most important period of your marital life. my candid advice

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Epicji: 4:01pm On Jan 01, 2023
Sex is from d mind.my wife is not sexually appealing to me bcus she no longer get wet.

I always get injured when we engage in sex. But get d whole pressure from my babe.small play she don wet

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by TypicallyBrunt(m): 4:01pm On Jan 01, 2023
Kajaard:


Lazy nairalanders that never take the time to read a post completely.

The op said it's been a year now of no sex and not a week like you said.

Nairaland academic I sight you cheesy
You will learn to read in-between the lines with time.

Stillwhites:
She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's more than a week that we engaged in adult activity.

The hope/or expectation to have sex everyday in marriage is an illusion. A big mirage wink
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by franchasng: 4:02pm On Jan 01, 2023
Richpet85:
Bro it is very sad to hear but the truth is welcom to our club, yours is just a year and you are complaining mine is going to almost 2years. Most often we the men are architect of our problem, we marry for beauty or to please some external pressure or to satisfy our quest to some certain need without considering several factors that are necessary before going into marriage. In my own case I can swear that my wife is not cheating because i trust her completely on that regard but her love for me has grow cold infact she is looking for a way to end the marriage by been hostal, show no interest in sex and always trying hard to make angry and frausted.
Am sharing my experience so you would not say i do not understand. Marriage is more than just love, sex, material things. Marriage required absolute maturity, patient, endurance, perseverance and complete trust in God. If your wife is the type that permit heart to heart talk, discuss with her express your feelings and concern to her, dont ever tell her you are tired or going out too cheap or getting another wife. Once you do will excalate the situation beyond you and your marriage will hit a brickwall. Secondly go to God in prayers because most factor of such behaviour might be spiritual and also beyond your wife.
Thirdly Don't stop loving her rather increase your love for her no matter her attitude. Behave as if all things are normal with time she will come to her sense and she will change completely and your love life will be amazing again.
Fourthly, if she love advanture take her out for holiday especially outside the city where you guys resident because most time wife can feel very boiling in their marriage because environment.
Finally engage yourself in things that makes you happy like drinking, hanging out with friends, join club of likemind, u can as well get a female friend ensure you tell her you are married so she will know her boundaries over time your problem will be things of the past. I assure if you keep faith in your wife you will enjoy your marriage and your wife will come to love more my candid advice
Wahala be like Keke marwa cheesy
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by jaxxy(m): 4:04pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?



I noticed people who complain about being sex starved are people who don't take time to understand their wives and her love language.

also they assume sexual activity in marriage is automatic rather making sure they are still desirable to the partners. I'm talk about both men and women.

Let to work on urself snd ur partner. Love is a doing word with interactions not an order giving like a law to be obeyed.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by V9er: 4:04pm On Jan 01, 2023
Role number 1
Mykelslim:
Sons, always marry a woman who you loves you more than you love her.
That way she will always fly around you like bee to honey.

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Berankis: 4:05pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

My brother, make I no lie you. It's like that in most homes. The fire of marriage dey dull with time... we go weeks too without having entanglement but in this case, it's not an issue. We are both like that, when there is time, we do and move on.
Other things dey occupy our minds and coupled with the wahala of Nigeria...

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Blissful042(m): 4:05pm On Jan 01, 2023
Guyman01:
Na new year be this, put that energy of thinking about sex into a money making venture and self improvement. Go to the gym, learn a new skill, get a new professional certificate and vote Peter Obi and na she go dey beg you like Fancy is doing to Alexx Ekubo
my nigga
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Fragility6: 4:06pm On Jan 01, 2023
Guyman01:
Na new year be this, put that energy of thinking about sex into a money making venture and self improvement. Go to the gym, learn a new skill, get a new professional certificate and vote Peter Obi and na she go dey beg you like Fancy is doing to Alexx Ekubo
Una go dey do as if who dey f*ck no dey focus on hustle. Na married man fgs.'...energy of thinking about sex into a money making venture.. '

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