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Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by millionboi(m): 12:24pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Mindlog:hahahaha betting is not a mental disorder na haba,but in his own case of using his salary to bet,is too bad. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Pzpropertylimit(m): 12:25pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
I thought women are wise now na . Madam leave before u die before ur time . |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by bonnyhope: 12:25pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover: Sorry A gambler will never make a responsible husband Continue talking to him for positive change Pls don't disrespect him for not meeting up his obligations. Keep pushing |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Oracleee: 12:25pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover: Why not try therapy? Truth is gambling is a big issue most folks even abroad do battle with. It's pretty hard to come out of it because the more he tries, the deeper he might fall into it. I think therapy is the best way out, and it works. I do have a friend who was so deep into gambling that a once upon a time good looking dude is now reduced to a miscreant. For those saying this is Nigeria and therapy isn't feasible, get off it. Alot of folks have gone through it and it works. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by syntekelite(m): 12:26pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover: Keep up the good work cos you aint doing it for him but for your children's and grandchildren's future.. once you have that thought in mind it gets easier and life opens up more opportunities for you.. (which means more funds to comfortably carry your family ) leave complain and worry, it only blocks favour and doesn't allow you to receive grace.. a lot of people said you should talk to him,i feel thats a bad idea cos of some men who have misplaced ego which might make them feel belittled and turn violent.. After all you said divorce is not an option.. Las las such trials are just diff types of tests thrown at almost everyone in life, how you manage and handle it is what determines your future whether for good or for bad.. i hope you survive yours and come out a better and happy woman.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by BrainXweb: 12:27pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
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Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by millionboi(m): 12:27pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Elokristi:very intelligent advice,she should do as you said |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by ElijahIme1992(m): 12:27pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover:loooooooooooooooooool madam leave all dis yarning, just dey pray one day bet9ja go pay am.... Ur husband dey diversify him income, na investor him be one dey him investment go pay.... U women una too dey complain.... |
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Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Babaken: Then they will drive the thing underground or offshore. If you watch EPL, you will see that some of the clubs have chinese symbols on their shirts, and you will also see some Chinese adverts on the advertisement hoardings on the sidelines. Those ads are for Chinese Gambling companies, who because they cannot operate in China...gambling is illegal there...move their operations to other countries (the Philippines is a popular base...plus their government welcomes the revenue)..and advertise to Chinese people watching EPL back home...all behind the government's back. Illegal gambling probably moves more money than the legit gambling. And it is run by criminals...risk increased for punters. 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Zeezenho: 12:30pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
There are men that enjoy buttered pekus any time he need money bring pekus guys shine then give you enough cash that you can spear him some and keep some for yourself.problem solved. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by danfourtson(m): 12:31pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Madam get it off your mind and face front for the sake of your children. don't divorce him, anytime he hit rock him go come back to his normal sense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by sammirano: 12:31pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Shut up home breaker |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by millionboi(m): 12:31pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
sexiestharam:you lied, gambling addiction don't need any special intervention to stop,just say goodbye to your loses is as that simple once you accept to say goodbye u are done with it. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by pickatyouu: 12:32pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Marriage na stress. Every adult wanting another adult to take responsibility for another adult. Apart from the kids welfare nothing should be important. If Una fit sort that one out. If e likes make him gamble himself to death. If u can't, move out of the stress. But if u hear the man's side now, u will here a different narrative. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by FreeStuffsNG: 12:34pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Gambling is called ignorance tax for a reason. Do not blame gambling blame the addict. Casting lots is a legal way to share wealth among owners of the wealth. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by millionboi(m): 12:35pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
sexiestharam:you lied, gambling addiction don't need any special intervention to stop,just say goodbye to your loses is as that simple once you accept to say goodbye u are done with it |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by millionboi(m): 12:36pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
ayenale1:u wicked oh If only he can say goodbye to his loss,he will be free |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Fakbrown: 12:37pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
He is doing akawo |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by koolaid87: 12:37pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Would you be here if he had won millions? Just curious |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Allisgud: 12:38pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Hope he didn't win ur heart when he won betnaija and spend on u while u both where dating |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Mrkumareze(m): 12:39pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
My sister received several beatings for tearing her husband's pool slip that year. The your man will buy car today, tomorrow he ll tell you its in the mechanic, las las he has sold it to play another game. With steady fight n quarrel, he stopped it. Today he has his own house, building another and taking good care of his children. My dear sis, keep disturbing him, he ll repent |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by millionboi(m): 12:39pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Lance00009:you have a point datz another thing dat causes all this,if you spend time with all this so called online money makers you will be trapd and exposed to different online scam in d name of trying to hit it big online. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 12:42pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
sammirano:So it isn't the man who by his habit and own hand rendered his marriage in the broken state that it is. Instead, I am to blame for letting the wife know that marriage is not meant to be a prison sentence? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by millionboi(m): 12:43pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
zakkxx:Gambling is not a spirit,if you can say goodbye to loses you are free |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 12:44pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Mrkumareze:for how long did your sister receive beating for before the man stopped beating her? By the way, if it were your own wife beating you up for that long, will you have endured the same as your sister did?? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by sammirano: 12:44pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: What God has joined together.... Unless you are the devil you shouldn't give such advice |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by everythinggirly(f): 12:44pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Chai, gambling is not a good thing. Sorry ma'am, I guess you have to talk to a marriage counselor. |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by alyarmouk(m): 12:44pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Hmmm...I don't like commenting on issues like this cuz I feel it's just an internet story...but I decided to comment on this because I'm in the same situation and I am the man with the gambling habit and my wife runs the home from her small shop I opened for her. I had issue with my job n has been on suspension for over 1 year but I still rcv salary... Gambling addiction is bad xpcially sports betting...I cnt help it. But here is what I do, maybe your husband can borrow a leaf from it. Whenever a money comes into his hand he should divide into 2 and give you half ..for upkeep. And he shdnt play every game he sees...he shld be methodical with his bets. I bet huge (50k+) on 2-4 odds and bet 500 naira and less on huge odds.. that way, he is guaranteed more wins which shld also be divided same way as explained above. He is gambling to make money for the family, he shld just limit his gaming habits. It's hard to stop And divorcing him is not the solution for you n for him...keep doing ur best n put him in prayer one good dey (without CUT 1) will change ur stories forever. You can write me, as I can guide him for free. I also have a group where I pay bettors 50% of their stakes back on my game if lost, and they pay me 20% if game is won. That way, it's a win win situation. God has blessed your home |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by johnfem321: 12:45pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Take him for deliverance session and counselling.. you will be surprised if he makes it big on Gambling he will want to still spend the money on you and the kids.. the reason he felt he needs to gamble in the first place is to make more money to look after you and the kids.. but unfortunately that might not be the right strategy and gambling is very very addictive.. He might be seeing his fellow friend making it big from gambling and feel it will be his turn one day.. No be head wey A get B get.. some people their head even forbid gambling and will end up getting ruined by it... he needs help and prayers.. He will surely hit a turning point either by great win from gambling or hit a rock bottom from losing in gambling and end up facing reality.. He probably spend money on you during dating and when he had it.. You should have also looked at his spending habit, how he manage money and how he saves.. but you while you were dating but may be you wasn’t concerned about that and carried away by how waste money on you.. Divorce is not the solution at all.. he is your husband and people go through different face in life.. I’m sure he wouldn’t be happy about the gambling himself.. just do your best to support him and don’t keep quiet on the matter |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Kobojunkie: 12:46pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
bonnyhope:If you believe He will never make a responsible husband, why then do you ask her to keep working OK him and pushing him? Basically, you ask her to keep pouring water into what you already consider a basket, why? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by Ishilove: 12:47pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
all4zionlover:Na wa. Which kind of irresponsibility is this, bikonu?? |
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