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Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by StrongAlphMale: 10:02am On Jan 16, 2023 |
ibechris: I couldn't agree less. So much wisdom in one comment!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 10:10am On Jan 16, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale: Where have you ever heard that a broke girl hoes more than a rich girl? Does a broke guy womanize more than a rich guy? You still don't get the money factor. A rich girl has more guys around her per minute than a broker girl. She could fvck her Uber driver, her gateman, her cook, her mechanic etc and that's just in case of an emergency. But a broke girl has somewhat limited options. You want to know the funniest part? You could confront your broke girl who cheated on you and she will apologize and be remorseful but you see that rich girl? You can't try that. Highest you leave because you try shit and she gets you arrested. Get this, you can never control a rich person. It's impossible. So what am I doing with such a girl again? When I'm not a gigolo. 4 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by StrongAlphMale: 10:11am On Jan 16, 2023 |
kenedyx: From your comments, it's so obvious you're suffering from inferiority complex! Dude you seriously need to grow up and expand your sense of reasoning. Rich men marry their fellow rich people. Have you ever seen dangote type getting married to a poor broke girl? Bros real life isn't Nollywood. At the bolded, this is why I know you are a simp. Bros you don't do things to impress a woman, only SIMP does that!!!! Honestly engaging you is like I'm wasting my time. You really need exposure bro. If you think a poor broke girl will be submissive to you because of your supposed money and gifts you will shower on her, bro get ready for the rudest shock of your life. Dear simp "The Good deed you've done for a girl expires the moment a more richer man shows up in her life. Do you need explanation to the above? Only an insane man will leave a rich girl to a poor broke girl. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by StrongAlphMale: 10:18am On Jan 16, 2023 |
kenedyx: At the bolded, it's obvious you're not a Nigerian. In our universities, streets and areas, a broke girl has become sexual tools for every Guy to use and pass around. Like I said I agree with that guy, you need exposure! You re suffering from inferiority complex my boy! If you claim you cannot control a rich girl, then what happen to the likes of dangote sons getting married to rich girls? You're really suffering from inferiority complex. Young Man likes attracts likes. I have said this over and over again that if you think a broke girl will be submissive to you because of your supposed money and gifts she'll get from you. Then be ready for a rude shock son. |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 10:35am On Jan 16, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale: You're beginning to sound stupid. There's a difference between being impressive and doing things just to impress someone. If you have value you must impress people even without trying to.. its not simping that you pull up in your Bugatti, it's impressive.. but its simping when you hire one to show up to your girl's birthday party in order to impress her. So be guided. Now a rich girl will not be impressed by your expensive car because she's got an expensive car too.. get it now? Celebrity marriages are for status. Dangote doesn't need a wife to cook and clean for him when he has a plethora of maids and cooks at home. It will be foolhardy to expect a Buhari's daughter or DJ Cuppy or Linda Ikeji to be a submissive housewife. So you better pick your values properly.. you can't eat your cake and have it to eat. It will never happen and I don't care what you believe. Your chances of having a happy home conducive enough for your kids to grow and learn important core values are more with a broke and inexperienced girl. You will teach her all she needs to know and lead her as the man of the house. You provide for your family and protect them. Woman wey don Sabi money finish is a no go area. If you like listen. 7 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Sweetvie: 10:38am On Jan 16, 2023 |
PellsKodak:Funny enough, you guys are the one at fault. You guys are stubborn and never set a standard for yourself... There are capable girls out there, working class but some prefer to marry or date the beauty forgetting she doesn't have a job n got to rely on the guy to take care of herself, resulting to liability. My first concern for men was the fact that they'll leave all working class girl and go for the broke girls because they believe the working class girl won't be submissive. Inferiority complex. Most guys drawn themselves back because they've to take care of a liability. I'm like wtf! When you set a standard for yourself then you can come online to rant rubbish. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Autobot05: 10:41am On Jan 16, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale: Once you empower a broke girl .. they'll start feeling ontop of the world 2 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 10:46am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Autobot05: Empowering any girl is tantamount to giving away your power and you don't ever want to do that. Whether broke or rich. Provide for her and your children in a very traditional sense. Be a man. Let her be a woman. Any other thing will end in penury. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 10:53am On Jan 16, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale: See this deranged goat. Bîtch! that's in your environment and you noticed quite rightly. Now how many rich girls have you lived with and observed how they run their shitz? So you expect a rich girl to be doin hookup on the streets? You're deluded. You're a lazy, broke and potential gigolo but I doubt you even have the looks for it. You better go and hustle and make your own money instead lookin for a rich girl. Pvssy ass niggaa.! 1 Like |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Fahvvy: 11:37am On Jan 16, 2023 |
kenedyx... No offense, but you talk like a child ... Not only do you need more exposure, you also need to work on your low self-esteem and deal with this silly inferiority complex that is plaguing you ... With your comments so far on this thread, I already have an idea of the kind of person that you are in real life ... And honestly, SMH tsk tsk tsk nahhhh ... Either ways sha... Your reaction to this will confirm my idea ... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Zonefree(m): 11:40am On Jan 16, 2023 |
Rayban25:Co-signed. 1 Like |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
kenedyx: @ bolded you've really now validated your high level of ignorance...I suggest you just shut up and get more exposure like everyone here else has said because wtf are you even saying? |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 12:01pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Fahvvy: I really don't give a crap about what you think of me. And you're just following the bandwagon. I've dated every type of girl, especially rich girls, regrettably, because those were wasted years I will never get back. Now what exactly do you want a rich girl for unless you want to dig gold? My University sweetheart was (still most likely is) a rich daddy's girl. Let me use her as an example because it was a long term relationship so I understood her psyche perfectly. She never asked for anything. She spent tirelessly on me. She'd come for weekends and stay extra days at my place or we'd lodge hotels... All expense paid by her and she'll give me cash when leaving. I never asked for any of it, she just did it on her own free will. It was dope and at the time it felt really good. But the rude awakening came when I was badly cash-strapped. I really needed a bail out and she was the first person that came to my mind. That was when I stopped myself right in my tracks. I suddenly realized I had become dependent on this girl and the relationship. Which should never have been so.. As a man, I should never have encouraged such dynamics. Where a girl would be the one providing for me financially. I could always tell deep down she did not respect me. She loved me, yes! But she didn't respect me as a man. As a man you have no business whatsoever looking for a rich woman. It reeks of laziness and entitlement, the same ones we accuse the ladies of. A man must be financially stable and independent, there's no shortcut or playing about it. He must marry an inexperienced woman for the sake of patriarchy and for the umpteenth time, a rich woman is a bag of experiences and not suitable for that role. Are there exceptions? Yes, but they do not make the rule. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 12:10pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Rayban25: You've not really said anything.. what exactly is your argument? That comment was a response to the OP saying broke girls hoe around more than rich girls based on his campus experience. I told him and I'm now you telling you for free that rich bîtches are not saints just because you don't see them on the streets. They're doing it on coded levels away from public eyes. Na sex tape dey reveal their oloshoism. So what again is your point you dimwit? 3 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by NEUDUDE: 12:18pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Been chopping them and cleaning mouth since 1802 |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Autobot05: 12:25pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
kenedyx: Agreed .. that's why I cant be with a woman that cant contribute financially to the family . |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 12:32pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Autobot05: A woman's ability to provide financially to the family should never be a criteria in choosing her as a wife. That's a man's job. Trust me you don't want a woman competing the breadwinner role with you.. it's like a man competing with a woman in the kitchen over lists and food items.. it's a recipe for a chaotic marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Autobot05: 12:39pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
kenedyx: Oga I'm not saying a 50/50 role. She must contribute no matter how lil. That's how I grew up. And my parents are still together. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 12:42pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Autobot05: Agreed. 1 Like |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by JustPowerApps(m): 12:47pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Nigerian girls are broke, like 99.9 of them depend on guys. Even the wealthy ones among them are still depending on guys. If you see a Nigerian girl living large, just have it at the back of your mind that the lifestyle is sponsored by one dude who literally is getting ripped in exchange for love, fake love. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by davillian(m): 1:28pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
From my experience Girls that earns are sweet to date I mean girls that can afford thier rents and pay thier bills o...... 7 Likes |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Divoc19(f): 1:41pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
I can see, you gerrit right from the bottom JustPowerApps: @StrongAlphMale: You sound very young. What if she never met her father. StrongAlphMale: |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Divoc19(f): 1:48pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Any man waiting in his woman to contribute financially in a relationship is a weak man to me. A woman should contribute financially but that just to get her busy. She shouldn't help her man shoulder bills because he is incapable or too greedy to run his home like a King. kenedyx: 1 Like |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by blazepascal(m): 2:07pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Its not about rich or broke just marry girl wey get sense. If shes rich and she Love you she will spend if she broke and she like you she can spend her last dime for you even if she dosent have she can hustle around and get somthing 1 Like |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by marlow1962(m): 2:09pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
StrongAlphMale:Be like u get enough time to dy reply dat guy |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 2:40pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Divoc19: I swear no pride in men again. I know things are hard now, but believe me, there's nothing more masculine and sweeter than taking care of your family and living like a king in your own home as a man. Where's the joy in a woman taking care of you and your kids while you wash and clean and ask her favours? Because realistically, both of you can't be working. Else the kids will be neglected. There has to be division of labor. Fine, roles can be reversed under certain circumstances and the woman should be ready.. but not to treat that as the standard. Men should understand that the person with the least resources in a relationship will always be the submissive one. There's no sugarcoating it, it is what it is. And believe me I've seen the strongest of men (both physically and mentally) submit to their richer wives because of this shît. That's bullshit.. what kind of man prays for something like that? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Divoc19(f): 2:52pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Boys of today will not understand this fact. Some older men still do. Believe me at the bolded, I have seen many men fall for this...it disgust me. May God help me to raise my sons to fulfill the commandment of taking charge not wailing for feminine support kenedyx: |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 3:56pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Divoc19: Spot on, and as someone who has tasted both sides.. I don't need to tell you which one I prefer. It's not easy being a man, but once you get it right, it's the sweetest thing in the world.. and you can only get it right when you accept that there's no other way. Your sons will turn out fine.. teach them about finances and how the can get their shît together or find them someone who can. They'll be alright. |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by Divoc19(f): 4:22pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Aww, thanks a lot Such a manly quote I love men that know their onions In my next life I truly want to be a man. kenedyx: |
Re: Men Avoid Broke And Poor Girls by kenedyx: 4:43pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Divoc19: Hahaha.. then you should also pray for a good mentor. Because as a man you come with nothing, are required to acquire everything and then destined to leave it all behind for your kids. It's really dicey I tell you. You're welcome. |
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