pleasureosondu:


First, I don't support physical abuse in any form. But answer this question; who's supposed to show that respect first, man or woman?

A man approaches you, after some time, he proposes marriage even if he may still be rejected. And if he doesn't, he shoulders the wedding responsibilities and other key decision to ensure his family survives. Sometimes, he wins, other times he loses. If you think that such a man doesn't deserve respect, I wonder who should. And if you expects a man to be loved by his wife coz he has a big dick, you must be joking.

BRATISLAVA:
Since malignant guest was busted, the place has received less anti-female posts.

Klass99:


You know what tripped me most about that thread was how Poco nicely called him out on his BS with statement of facts only, then M.motimo completely finished him with sound knowledge and more statements of fact, about the country he lives in which he was so clueless and oblivious of.

Magnoliaa:


E be like so o...

Klass99:


Oh yeah . What is the way? Please enlighten a sista, let me not assume things in my head.



Stop playing yourself in circles just busted my head I'm laughing out loud. Nice play of words

Klass99:


The question was simple. How do you detoxify a toxic marriage? You haven't answered the question posed to you, since you claimed a toxic marriage can be detoxified and what's worse you have turned the issue into a gender war.

BRATISLAVA:
Just observe how they now reason will two braincells occasionally.

That Mmotimo is a legend.

BRATISLAVA:
Lol.

They really worked on that guy and walked him out of here.
I was amused at the beating he took. He couldn't even respond properly.

I'm always amazed that after typing garbage, these same people will advertise a product or look for a job or show us their pimple coated schlong that they've refused to take to the hospital and expect anyone to respond. That thread only proved how ignorant and —pardon my Spanish— how daft the average male poster here is. It's like an oath they took when signing up. To be thoughtless, shameless and stupid.

Klass99:
At the text in bold, it was a case of darkness has to flee when LIGHT shines . Those ladies did nothing to him, he dug his grave and buried himself, all on his own.

Magnoliaa:


Except for a few of them like Gadafii that are perenially irredeemable, lmao.



A national treasure that should be preserved and protected at all costs.

BRATISLAVA:


But?



It's 2023. Stop hiding behind but. Just say you support it and stop playing yourself in circles.

BRATISLAVA:


The vulcanizer is also irredeemable.

Ah, but that was a thread to be on. Imagine a day where malignant guest would shut up and unearth his other moniker while the guys who couldn't believe he was a traitor were trying to keep up his heat when he had AWOL himself.

Klass99:


At the text in bold, it was a case of darkness has to flee when LIGHT shines . Those ladies did nothing to him, he dug his grave and buried himself, all on his own.

Magnoliaa:


Vulcanizer?



You know them.

Them will defend one of their own until the last blood.

It's a legendary thread on NL. Really.

BRATISLAVA:
Vul.can your vulcanizer. Still high on RP fumes. You two were entertaining on that thread.

Quite legendary.

Magnoliaa:


LMAO?

Entertaining?

Person wey I nor even spend two seconds with.

BRATISLAVA:
To be fair, the entertainment was your obliterating him.

I don't know why, but you're early responses on that thread were delicious. I'll bet you're another lawyer.

onumadu:
It depends ...

If her mother left her father and raised them till they became adults, BE CAREFUL. In fact be very very very careful.
Only by the grace of God can such a girl be a good wife; i.e someone that can do necessary things to stay married.

Thing is that, she would hold her mother as her role model, because her mother raised her "successfully".
To her, everything her mother did (including leaving her father) was right.

She would always be ready to leave you too, because her role model did it "successfully.

The only caveat (or exception) to this conclusion is situation where the girl blamed her mother for leaving her father, and quarreled with her mother about it. In that instance the mother is NOT her role model, and she would be fine.

Magnoliaa:


LMAOOOOO.

Ahtink say you don mention this before?

I nor be lawyer...

Be like say you dey confuse Gadaf for the other one...but anyway, it's fine, jare.

I don leave the thread *yawns*.

Romanoff:


No sane person will open eyes and marry someone who will hurt them.

Shit happens, life happens and that's why we have to be kind.

Not to go about stigmatizing single parents. Untill you've walked in their shoes, you can't tell.

pleasureosondu:
With td?

Klass99:


But seriously you do, if you're alleging that toxic marriages can be detoxified and your true intent is to educate as well as proffer solutions, you ought to give your audience practical steps and examples to take for both genders.

The purpose of all communication is to provide clarity as quickly as possible, not to ramble on and on, then ask your audience to read between the lines. I'm not looking for a fight with you but truthfully your response to my post didn't make any sense at all.

It came across as another male who is angry at the female population and wants to diss us for the toxicity in marriages and breakdown of it. Relationships are a two way street, both men and women are involved.

oloriooko:
So if you can't marry them who will, angels?