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Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Vyvyanvyvy: 5:26pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Mindlog: Thanks for the suggestion this is what I really want everything to be documented and signed by both of us |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by GboyegaD(m): 7:10pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Since he's abducted your daughter in the past, you were wise to ask him to involve the courts. I don't support you returning the money since he sent it for the children. |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by JapaToDNext: 7:21pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy:then follow your mind, it can never be wrong |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by yomi007k(m): 7:26pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Shokoloko: A scammer will not want to go through the legal process. Ideally he should be the one recommending the court if he was honest. 4 Likes |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Stevenbright(m): 7:28pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy: You did the right thing as per him having access to the children! But for rejecting the money, you cheated yourself. You and your children have right to what ever resources he made available for them wether he has access to them right now or not. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Vyvyanvyvy: 7:59pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Stevenbright: I have rejected the money because he called me greedy he said that I am only interested in his money but I don't want him to have access to his children. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Stevenbright(m): 8:13pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Alright, I see |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Shokoloko(f): 8:14pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Dear lady, next time take the money if it is offered. Remember the money is not yours and not for you. Their father gave them the money. You split it and use it solely for them. Stop worrying about names a bitter person will call you. Your ego got the better of you here. Please next time he sends good gifts to his kids, let them have their gifts. If you want take photos of what they used the money to buy for themselves and send the photos to his brother through your phone. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by faithfull18(f): 8:19pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy:. If possible, visitation should be done at your place. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by eyinjuege: 8:37pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Don't lose guard o. When people show you who they are, believe them. He's shown you he's capable of seizing the children, as per he's done it before. He will definitely do it again, as this time around he will possibly japa with them. Get the law involved, as earlier mentioned. Let the law set the tems and conditions as per visitation. Forget the money he's sending 30 in 3 years for 2 children is an insult. Don't be deceived about him sending money every 2 weeks. He just wants you to lose guard and shock you later. Even his brother coming to your shop is a spy to see if the kids hang around the shop. If possible, don't allow the kids stay in the shop with you, before he kidnaps them 4 Likes |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:51pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy: 1 you say he has been providing for the kifs for the past 3 years and he comes with something snd you reject it, does it make sense you should taken the money spoil the kids 2 as for kids because of the previous, he should start by seeing the kids under your supervision eg meet at the park, spend time with them while you are there, his behaviour and attitude will determine the rest |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Emmanuel909090: 9:00pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Lovers turned enemies |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Vyvyanvyvy: 9:03pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
eyinjuege: Thanks I take them to my shop after school because my son doesn't finish school till 5pm and I don't like leaving them at home alone but what you just said is true though. I have to stop taking them to my shop , I will look for a house help to be staying with them in the house. |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by ProphetM0hammad: 9:10pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Where did you people see 30k cash that you collected and returned |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by eyinjuege: 9:11pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy: It is well with you and your kids Be careful with househelp too o. Life no easy. Just keep pushing and pray for guidance 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by danny34(m): 10:20pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Let human right decide his visitation right and maintenance fee 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Zonefree(m): 11:43pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
You have so many baggages for your age. Are you not the same woman that claimed your first husband is in Italy? He abandoned the two children and you don't know any of his family members. Your second husband, whom you shared a daughter with also abandoned you cos he refused to allow your son stay with you. After the second abandonment, you later claimed a 57-year-old widower is asking for your hand in marriage. At 36, you're already with three men and still counting, yet, you don't want the father of your first two children to have access to their children You really needs to slow down and apply caution. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Tallesty1(m): 5:29am On Mar 17, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy:There is no way he would call you greed if you rejected the money. He called you greedy because you took his money and still denied him access to his kids. We know that you are lying but continue, it is an interesting lie |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by cococandy(f): 5:40am On Mar 17, 2023 |
Shouldn’t have returned the money, it’s a tip of the iceberg in what he actually owes but everything else you did perfectly. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by frozen70(f): 10:24am On Mar 17, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy: You were right asking him to go to human rights to get a well approved access to his children That's when he will be made to commit himself to the children But I think it's best he sees them at your own choice of area not his own choice because of lack of trust Next time he sends money pls collect it, no matter what Unless you are not and will not be interested in receiving anything from him 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Jesslove(f): 3:02pm On Mar 17, 2023 |
Please Don't release the children to him, he should go to human right or court to sign an undertaking that he won't take the kids away. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by ariesbull: 9:46pm On Mar 17, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy: U no get sense shaaaa .you stop kids from seeing their father ! You Mumu shaaaaa Dem go still see am one day |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Janosky: 9:58pm On Mar 17, 2023 |
Vyvyanvyvy: If his intentions were pure & noble,he would go through the bolded, lawful process. He should go through the lawful process as law abiding citizens do. That your ex-man no trust himself. You have done nothing wrong. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Asked To See Our Children And I Refused Please Help by Dbrawllm0098(f): 10:39pm On Mar 17, 2023 |
You did nothing wrong , the mistake you made was the 30k you returned to him, if i am in your shoes I will collect the 30k because it is his children money they need it. If you give him access to those children sorry will be your name he will dissappear with them and you won't see them again, if you don't want to cry again is better he go to court or human right. 1 Like |
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