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Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by erico2k2(m): 10:10am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly:you are not wrong there |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Odunharry(m): 10:11am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Rare to see a man and woman stick as just friends without one of them having a different motive. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by reiddecuti: 10:11am On Jun 03, 2023 |
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Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Jakumo(m): 10:11am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: It is only men that are instantly attracted to beautiful women. Most women are initially attracted NOT to a man's physical appearance, but to the way in which he speaks to the women, and jokes with them in those first few critical moments when they first meet. I therefore sincerely doubt the OP's story that women approach him primarily due to his perceived good looks, REGARDLESS of how well-built or handsome he may in fact be. With all due respect, I must therefore reach for my bullshit whistle once again to alert the viewing public that someone is telling a tall story here that does not match up with the known psychology of female attractiveness to men. 8 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by addexx: 10:13am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Steverolly: 10:16am On Jun 03, 2023 |
buygala:I've been dealing with insecurities from girls in my past relationships. Not a new thing Sir, rest🙏🏽. |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Deicide: 10:16am On Jun 03, 2023 |
It's Insecurity + Narcissism 1 Like |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Nobody: 10:16am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: You are not insecure..you are right...girls that have a lot of male friends are the ones that will snap pictures of food they didnt pay for and posting thirst traps just to get attention...they never post the men they go out with because they know what they are doing 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Burgerlomo: 10:17am On Jun 03, 2023 |
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Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Teeroyzimma: 10:19am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Freelancerr:80% lol you're funny 2 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by jaxxy(m): 10:21am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: Generally a girl with too many male friends is a red flag bt there is a twist. there are girls with many male friends bt she openly friendly, free and Platonic with them. This is not a red flag for me. I like people who appreciate good company bt keep their manners and boundaries. However there are girls who have many male friends and are also lose and have no boundaries with them publicly or privately. These are obviously red flags Bt there is the homely coded chick who has no male friends or it seems she doesn't bt she has many male clients and acquaintances. shes very secretive. This type will sell u in the market and u won't know u have been sold like ordinary fish. and there is the true introvert who don't have many males friends and don't need many friends either. They are the joys of the traditional insecure man and the philanderous ones scared of nemesis. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by buygala(m): 10:21am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: Lies.. If you were, you won't be so attention-starved that dating a girl with male friends will bother you so much |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by JasperVII(m): 10:23am On Jun 03, 2023 |
It's not insecurity. It's a red flag. You're not the only one. 13 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Soulmender: 10:24am On Jun 03, 2023 |
iksman2002: It has nothing to do with being insecure or low self esteem. His reason is valid. Some of these girls with many male friends are loose, they do all sorts of rubbish with the guys in the name of just friends. They’re knacking the guys on a low. 12 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Steverolly: 10:25am On Jun 03, 2023 |
buygala:What do you mean by lies? 😂 Are you really arguing with me over my personal life? Abi you want to have a view of what my Dm's look like? It's not something to brag about though just so you know pls. 1 Like |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by eddynaira125: 10:26am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: I don't know you, but from your write up you are very mature, intelligent and responsible to the core, I expect great stories from you someday, and I pray you find your self in a position were lives will be affected positively 7 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Steverolly: 10:28am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Jakumo:You may be right about them not entirely attracted to the looks but that's where I get the most compliment from. |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by kokomilala(m): 10:28am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Male Friends Of Girls Are Quasi Shaggers Your fear isn't misplaced. You are right to question such a position. I've heard about best friends- male and female- having sex. I mean, having amorous relationships. On the face of it, it looks innocuous. And people don't suspect anything. But women are naturally weaker and can easily fall into temptations of sex. For me, I cannot wrap my head around what relationship exists between a man and a woman if it's not work or business. It has to be that they are getting down with each other. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Nobody: 10:30am On Jun 03, 2023 |
JasperVII: It's all those finished men that are telling him that his insecure that I just pity...na their type go marry code olosho and end up raising another mans child. In 2023 how can a man not know that a girl that has more male friends than female friends are into hookup? 16 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Steverolly: 10:31am On Jun 03, 2023 |
eddynaira125:Thanks so much Boss🙏🏽 |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Saladdin: 10:35am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: It's not insecurity, it's just common sense. Once I notice such, I move on because it's not worth wasting your time with unserious girls. It is not appropriate for either gender to keep many individuals of the opposite gender as friends, except if it directly ties into your work. Even at that, most should only be your colleague. This type of relationship will be fraught with accusations. Same way a farmer will not allow a herd of goat to guard his barn of yams, you should not allow such. Because what those goats will eventually do to the farmer's yam stock is what those 'friends' will eventually do to the girl. 9 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by UselessBuharist: 10:36am On Jun 03, 2023 |
It’s a red flag oo, these girls usually open up to their female friends about what they do with their male friends. 10 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Gerrard59(m): 10:36am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: Bro believes love exists. Hypergamy never do you something. Hypergamy will teach you a lesson you will never forget. You are 21 years, which implies the girls on your radar are 18-21/22. You are competing with men in their late 20s and early 30s, plus sugar bros in their mid-30s and sugar daddies in their 40s and 50s. Better take the advice you quoted o. But if you refuse, we are here to always remind you. Just know that hypergamy is not your mate and will teach you a lesson. 14 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Gerrard59(m): 10:37am On Jun 03, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Leave him, with time, he would understand. I was in that stage, but thanks to friends who warned me and research articles I read. He wants to find true love at the age of 21. Bwahahahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahahhaha 11 Likes
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Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by onadana: 10:41am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: Bro,you're spot on.Lose interest and maintain your sanity.Ladies with too many male friends is more than a red flag.Look the truth be told a man and a woman can't just be friends more like cat and fish.Create an environment,let the atmosphere be right they will sleep with each other.It's just a natural law,no one to blame,because we are human beings of feelings. 6 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by danvon(m): 10:45am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly: I think girls that approach you are usually girls that are more confident around guys hence they have more guy friends. 9 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Steverolly: 10:45am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Gerrard59:I'm always open to learning so as not make avoidable mistakes in my small life... Thing is I'm very cautious of girls I find myself with, and not the lover boy type that is always quick to impress. So it'll take a very unusual case for me not to "lose guard". Secondly I believe love exists but I've been made to know a man is loved "Conditionally" so there's still love there nah. Not that it doesn't exist pls. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by denzel231: 10:46am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Steverolly:it's you . Most of those girls are the best.. |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Saladdin: 10:49am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Gerrard59: Dr. Gerrard, na wetin dey save me too be that o (especially your write ups, Boss13, Pansophist, Franchasng Emmaodet ,Lordadam13, etc then combined with reddit, Quora and co.) though I don dey approach late 20s. Due to this factor, I have deliberately refused to approach ladies for any relationship for now. Once I'm well set, na to dey screen them in a strict and no nonsense fashion. At that time I won't tolerate excuses like; "the past doesn't matter, I'm now ready for a serious relationship" bla bla bla. Na to focus on 18-23 year old ladies. Everybody must enjoy their privileges. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by Nobody: 10:49am On Jun 03, 2023 |
denzel231: They're the best for knacking and dumping..not to keep as girlfriend..theres a clear distinction 4 Likes |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by kingthreat(m): 10:49am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Even if you can trust the girl, you can't trust the guys who are her friends. Half of them accepted to be friendzoned waiting for the right time to hit that hole. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lose Interest In Girls That Have Lots Of Male Friends. by flokii: 10:50am On Jun 03, 2023 |
It's until you realize besties now shift pants that you'll wise up.. a girl that likes hanging around guys is a red flag cos nohow one or two of the guys won't get intimate with her. It's a statement of fact that a guy and girl can't stay friends for long without one or both developing feelings for the other. Once they are behind closed doors, anything can happen, devil can use them 3 Likes |
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