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What The Bible Says About Marriage by Jokanem(m): 9:20am On Jun 25, 2023
What Does the Bible Say About Marriage?

After creating the first man and woman, God brought them together in marriage. He instituted marriage as a special bond between a man and a woman as a foundation for the family unit.—Genesis 1:27, 28; 2:18.

God wants married couples to be happy. (Proverbs 5:18) In the Bible, he provides standards for marriage as well as principles that can help a marriage succeed.

What are God’s standards for marriage?
From the beginning, God created marriage to be a union of one man and one woman. (Genesis 2:24) God does not approve of polygamy, homosexual acts, or couples living together without marriage. (1 Corinthians 6:9; 1 Thessalonians 4:3) Jesus taught his followers to adhere to God’s original standard for marriage.—Mark 10:6-8.

In God’s eyes, marriage creates a permanent bond. When a man and a woman get married, they promise to be loyal to each other and to stay together for as long as they are both alive. God expects them to keep that promise.—Mark 10:9.

What about separation and divorce?

There may be times when a husband and wife must be apart from each other, such as when one mate needs to travel to care for a family emergency. But the Bible discourages separation resulting from marital problems. Instead, it urges couples in such a situation to work toward reconciliation.—1 Corinthians 7:10.

Adultery is the only Scriptural grounds for divorce. (Matthew 19:9) Hence, if a husband and wife decide to separate or to divorce for any reason other than adultery, neither partner is Scripturally free to date someone else or to remarry.—Matthew 5:32; 1 Corinthians 7:11.

Does a marriage need to be registered legally to be approved by God?

God expects Christians to obey secular laws regarding marriage. (Titus 3:1) When it is possible for a couple to register their marriage legally, their doing so shows respect for secular authorities and for God’s standard that marriage is a lasting commitment. a

What roles and responsibilities does the Bible assign to husbands and wives?

Shared responsibilities. Husbands and wives should treat each other with love and respect. (Ephesians 5:33) They should care for each other’s sexual needs in a loving way and avoid all forms of unfaithfulness. (1 Corinthians 7:3; Hebrews 13:4) If they have children, husbands and wives share the responsibility of raising them.—Proverbs 6:20

The Bible does not discuss in detail how married couples should share secular work and household chores. They can decide together what will work best for their family.

A husband’s role.

The Bible says that “a husband is head of his wife.” (Ephesians 5:23) He is the head in the sense that he should guide his family and make decisions that will benefit his wife and children.

He should strive to ensure that their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs are cared for. (1 Timothy 5:cool He shows that he values his wife’s qualities and capabilities by working closely with her and by carefully considering her opinion and feelings when making decisions. (Proverbs 31:11, 28) The Bible says that a husband ought to care for his responsibilities in a loving way.—Colossians 3:19.

A wife’s role.

The Bible says that a “wife should have deep respect for her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33) God is pleased when a wife respects the role that he assigned to her husband.

Her role is to assist her husband, helping him to make good decisions and supporting his headship. (Genesis 2:18) The Bible speaks highly of a wife who fulfills her important role in marriage.—Proverbs 31:10.

Does God require married couples today to have children?

No. In the past, God commanded some of his worshippers to have children. (Genesis 1:28; 9:1) But Christians are not bound by that instruction. Jesus never commanded his followers to have children. Neither did any of his early disciples say that married couples must have children. Couples can decide for themselves whether they will raise a family.

How can the Bible help your marriage?

The Bible contains principles that can help couples get their marriage off to a good start. Bible principles can also help couples to avoid or overcome difficulties.

Bible principles can help a married couple to . . .

show true love.—1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Colossians 3:14.

deal with differences.—1 Corinthians 10:24.

be good listeners.—James 1:19.

show respect.—Romans 12:10.

be forgiving.—1 Peter 4:8.

be loyal.—Mark 10:9.

be patient.—Ephesians 4:2, 3.

work as a team.—Ecclesiastes 4:9.

strengthen their commitment.—Song of Solomon 8:7.

Regarding the Bible’s view of customary or tribal marriages, see The Watchtower of October 15, 2006, page 21, paragraph 12.

Bible verses about marriage
Proverbs 18:22: “The one who finds a good wife has found something good.”

Meaning: The Bible speaks positively about marriage.

Malachi 2:15: “Do not deal treacherously with the wife of your youth.”

Meaning: God wants husbands and wives to be faithful to each other and to treat each other respectfully, even after many years of marriage.

Mark 10:9: “What God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”

Meaning: God intended for marriage to be a permanent bond of companionship.

Hebrews 13:4: “Let marriage be honorable among all.”

Meaning: Couples should place a high value on their marriage and work hard to protect it.

1 Corinthians 7:28: “Those who [marry] will have tribulation in their flesh.”

Meaning: No marriage is perfect; couples need to work together to overcome challenges.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Jashub: 9:23am On Jun 25, 2023
Marriage in this age is scam .

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by talented321: 9:24am On Jun 25, 2023
MANCHI, Eve betray Adam since from day one.
By the way who write this book called bible?.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Likoya: 10:20am On Jun 25, 2023
You and your stupid God can go to hell with your stupid rules.... I didn't ask anybody to bring me to this world, I just found myself here. Yet the idiot claims to give people freedom of choice...Why didn't you give me freedom to choose if I wanted to come to this world first?

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by tonytony208(m): 10:22am On Jun 25, 2023
Jashub:
Marriage in this age is scam .

Not necessarily

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by hopefulLandlord: 10:22am On Jun 25, 2023
I'm a Virgin and I'd remain one till I die. I pity these Christians getting married and having sex. the word "Christian" means "Christ-like" which means we are to act like Jesus Christ. Jesus never married, neither did he have sex so any Christian doing otherwise is a sinner

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by tonytony208(m): 10:24am On Jun 25, 2023
Likoya:


If it is Mohamed, he won't even knock. He will use force to break the door and use sword and to cut the person into pieces.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by jogsman01(m): 10:24am On Jun 25, 2023
Likoya:

mad people fool this platform cheesy

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by murphyrichy(m): 10:24am On Jun 25, 2023
One of the most useful topics to make frontpage today.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Righthussle: 10:25am On Jun 25, 2023
Na this stupid teaching kill Osinachi Nwachukwu.
Man dey beat you , leave the marriage, you say bible say na only adultery fit make you leave. Commit adultery make you fit leave the marriage you say no. Las las na 6 feet comot am for the marriage.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by ReacherSaidNoth: 10:25am On Jun 25, 2023
Everywhere I go they hype this thing called marriage. You could almost mistake it for a wonderful experience instead of the burden it really is.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by gentlegenius(m): 10:27am On Jun 25, 2023
Jokanem:

What about separation and divorce?

There may be times when a husband and wife must be apart from each other, such as when one mate needs to travel to care for a family emergency. But the Bible discourages separation resulting from marital problems. Instead, it urges couples in such a situation to work toward reconciliation.—1 Corinthians 7:10.

Adultery is the only Scriptural grounds for divorce. (Matthew 19:9) Hence, if a husband and wife decide to separate or to divorce for any reason other than adultery, neither partner is Scripturally free to date someone else or to remarry.—Matthew 5:32; 1 Corinthians 7:11.
Adultery is NOT the only condition for divorce. The bible gives 3 conditions for divorce... Adultery is just one of them.
Here they are:
1) Matthew 19:9. This verse explains that a man can divorce his wife if she commits sexual immorality.
2) Deuteronomy 24:1-2. It explains that a man can divorce his wife if he finds out something he does not like about her. He can also file for a divorce if the woman does not “please him”, and she can remarry if she wants.
3) 1 Corinthians 7:15. This verse reveals that couples who are unbelievers can separate if one of the parties insists. When this happens, they are no longer bound to each other.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by OceanEye: 10:28am On Jun 25, 2023
If you live peacefully with your wife, and it seems, that is how it is going to be for the rest of your lives, you are doing well in life irrespective of the foundation that brought the two of you together. Irrespective of your beliefs and so called religions.

Being human with your significant other is the first priority to managing the 'marriage'.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 25, 2023
After calling marriage a scam, the moment they are closer to 45 or there about you will see them raping young boys/girls or snatching married men/women from their spouse.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Mpox: 10:33am On Jun 25, 2023
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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by CheedyJ(m): 10:34am On Jun 25, 2023
Jashub:
Marriage in this age is scam .
Not all though, a lot of marriages are still working out big time. You know say na bad news dey sell pass na why we no dey too hear of successful marriages .

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by kennyz247(m): 10:43am On Jun 25, 2023
Marriage is not for everyone

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by jcross19: 10:43am On Jun 25, 2023
Jokanem:
What Does the Bible Say About Marriage?

After creating the first man and woman, God brought them together in marriage. He instituted marriage as a special bond between a man and a woman as a foundation for the family unit.—Genesis 1:27, 28; 2:18.

God wants married couples to be happy. (Proverbs 5:18) In the Bible, he provides standards for marriage as well as principles that can help a marriage succeed.

What are God’s standards for marriage?
From the beginning, God created marriage to be a union of one man and one woman. (Genesis 2:24) God does not approve of polygamy, homosexual acts, or couples living together without marriage. (1 Corinthians 6:9; 1 Thessalonians 4:3) Jesus taught his followers to adhere to God’s original standard for marriage.—Mark 10:6-8.

In God’s eyes, marriage creates a permanent bond. When a man and a woman get married, they promise to be loyal to each other and to stay together for as long as they are both alive. God expects them to keep that promise.—Mark 10:9.

What about separation and divorce?

There may be times when a husband and wife must be apart from each other, such as when one mate needs to travel to care for a family emergency. But the Bible discourages separation resulting from marital problems. Instead, it urges couples in such a situation to work toward reconciliation.—1 Corinthians 7:10.

Adultery is the only Scriptural grounds for divorce. (Matthew 19:9) Hence, if a husband and wife decide to separate or to divorce for any reason other than adultery, neither partner is Scripturally free to date someone else or to remarry.—Matthew 5:32; 1 Corinthians 7:11.

Does a marriage need to be registered legally to be approved by God?

God expects Christians to obey secular laws regarding marriage. (Titus 3:1) When it is possible for a couple to register their marriage legally, their doing so shows respect for secular authorities and for God’s standard that marriage is a lasting commitment. a

What roles and responsibilities does the Bible assign to husbands and wives?

Shared responsibilities. Husbands and wives should treat each other with love and respect. (Ephesians 5:33) They should care for each other’s sexual needs in a loving way and avoid all forms of unfaithfulness. (1 Corinthians 7:3; Hebrews 13:4) If they have children, husbands and wives share the responsibility of raising them.—Proverbs 6:20

The Bible does not discuss in detail how married couples should share secular work and household chores. They can decide together what will work best for their family.

A husband’s role.

The Bible says that “a husband is head of his wife.” (Ephesians 5:23) He is the head in the sense that he should guide his family and make decisions that will benefit his wife and children.

He should strive to ensure that their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs are cared for. (1 Timothy 5:cool He shows that he values his wife’s qualities and capabilities by working closely with her and by carefully considering her opinion and feelings when making decisions. (Proverbs 31:11, 28) The Bible says that a husband ought to care for his responsibilities in a loving way.—Colossians 3:19.

A wife’s role.

The Bible says that a “wife should have deep respect for her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33) God is pleased when a wife respects the role that he assigned to her husband.

Her role is to assist her husband, helping him to make good decisions and supporting his headship. (Genesis 2:18) The Bible speaks highly of a wife who fulfills her important role in marriage.—Proverbs 31:10.

Does God require married couples today to have children?

No. In the past, God commanded some of his worshippers to have children. (Genesis 1:28; 9:1) But Christians are not bound by that instruction. Jesus never commanded his followers to have children. Neither did any of his early disciples say that married couples must have children. Couples can decide for themselves whether they will raise a family.

How can the Bible help your marriage?

The Bible contains principles that can help couples get their marriage off to a good start. Bible principles can also help couples to avoid or overcome difficulties.

Bible principles can help a married couple to . . .

show true love.—1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Colossians 3:14.

deal with differences.—1 Corinthians 10:24.

be good listeners.—James 1:19.

show respect.—Romans 12:10.

be forgiving.—1 Peter 4:8.

be loyal.—Mark 10:9.

be patient.—Ephesians 4:2, 3.

work as a team.—Ecclesiastes 4:9.

strengthen their commitment.—Song of Solomon 8:7.

Regarding the Bible’s view of customary or tribal marriages, see The Watchtower of October 15, 2006, page 21, paragraph 12.

Bible verses about marriage
Proverbs 18:22: “The one who finds a good wife has found something good.”

Meaning: The Bible speaks positively about marriage.

Malachi 2:15: “Do not deal treacherously with the wife of your youth.”

Meaning: God wants husbands and wives to be faithful to each other and to treat each other respectfully, even after many years of marriage.

Mark 10:9: “What God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”

Meaning: God intended for marriage to be a permanent bond of companionship.

Hebrews 13:4: “Let marriage be honorable among all.”

Meaning: Couples should place a high value on their marriage and work hard to protect it.

1 Corinthians 7:28: “Those who [marry] will have tribulation in their flesh.”

Meaning: No marriage is perfect; couples need to work together to overcome challenges.
you can register your marriage in secular court but you can't listen to secular music? Even that titus3:1 you quoted only talks about obeying the law of the land going , as Christian what are you doing in the court of unbelievers? What do you have in Commons with an unbeliever? The children of God have their own world to live! Concerning marriage about marrying more than one wife, is never a sin if not God could commanded moses and added it up with the ten commandment . marrying more than one wife is a problem which may derail your faith in Christ so the best is to marry one!

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by dustydee: 10:44am On Jun 25, 2023
Jokanem:
What Does the Bible Say About Marriage?

After creating the first man and woman, God brought them together in marriage. He instituted marriage as a special bond between a man and a woman as a foundation for the family unit.—Genesis 1:27, 28; 2:18.

God wants married couples to be happy. (Proverbs 5:18) In the Bible, he provides standards for marriage as well as principles that can help a marriage succeed.

What are God’s standards for marriage?
From the beginning, God created marriage to be a union of one man and one woman. (Genesis 2:24) God does not approve of polygamy, homosexual acts, or couples living together without marriage. (1 Corinthians 6:9; 1 Thessalonians 4:3) Jesus taught his followers to adhere to God’s original standard for marriage.—Mark 10:6-8.


Lies. Stop twisting the scriptures to suite your interpretation and understanding. Polygamy is not a sin and the bible does not condemn it. It's the "white" people that twisted it to be so and since then have been looking for scriptures to justofy it and yet found none.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by emmabest2000(m): 10:47am On Jun 25, 2023
Likoya:
You and your stupid God can go to hell with your stupid rules.... I didn't ask anybody to bring me to this world, I just found myself here. Yet the idiot claims to give people freedom of choice...Why didn't you give me freedom to choose if I wanted to come to this world first?

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Jashub: 10:47am On Jun 25, 2023
CheedyJ:

Not all though, a lot of marriages are still working out big time. You know say na bad news dey sell pass na why we no dey too hear of successful marriages .
80% of most marriages end up in divorce and you're hear saying " most "? You must be delusional
Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Akalia(m): 10:49am On Jun 25, 2023
Likoya:
You and your stupid God can go to hell with your stupid rules.... I didn't ask anybody to bring me to this world, I just found myself here. Yet the idiot claims to give people freedom of choice...Why didn't you give me freedom to choose if I wanted to come to this world first?
You will make a very good vessel for kingdom activities.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Jashub: 10:50am On Jun 25, 2023
tonytony208:


Not necessarily
Apart from sex and procreation , what other benefit is marriage to a man in this era ?

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by CheedyJ(m): 10:51am On Jun 25, 2023
Jashub:
80% of most marriages end up in divorce and you're here saying " most "? You must be delusional
Provide the source of your stats. . You're d deluded one here bro. Does a 'lot' now means the majority in Nigeria?

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Jashub: 10:53am On Jun 25, 2023
CheedyJ:

Provide the source of your stats. . You're d deluded one here bro.
Olodo ...go and check infographics. In fact, check the International stats on divorces cases worldwide. You'll see that you're the one who's delusional
Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by tonytony208(m): 10:53am On Jun 25, 2023
Jashub:
Apart from sex and procreation , what other benefit is marriage to a man in this era ?

Companionship, bro.

If you can choose right, she will stick to you in your old age and care for you when you are too old to care for yourself.

This is when the relationship you build with her over the years will bear fruit.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by talented321: 10:56am On Jun 25, 2023
Oil dey your head, thanks for this.
dustydee:

Lies. Stop twisting the scriptures to suite your interpretation and understanding. Polygamy is not a sin and the bible does not condemn it. It's the "white" people that twisted it to be so and since then have been looking for scriptures to justofy it and yet found none.

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Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Emmexguy123: 10:56am On Jun 25, 2023
I don't even know which of the religion is saying the truth.
Christian Bible says marriage is between one man and one woman.

Islamic Koran says one man and 4 wives and even above.

Other religions will as well be saying another things.

How exactly do I know what to do considering the fact that every religion claims to be the major one?

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