Adachizzy:
But why are you flirting?

Do you think cheating is only when you insert your prick into an outsiders’ hole?

But flirting and all is cool because you're a man?
You are married and there's two of you there. Respect each other and that particular institution!
From the way you sound sef, you're on your way to voracious cheating!

I dey suspect you, na una two fit dey CHEAT together

Oga respect your self, don’t be stupid. Why will u fled with women knowing fully well you have a wife. Your wife na stone? This entitle arrogance of men can cheat and women cannot cheat is the reason most first borns are from side boyfriends and men are been kill silently by their wives. If u want to live long and train your children and not another man child, respect your self.

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

Same marriage that did not stop you from flirting with imbeciles online

You cherish marriage a lot and yet you can't keep to it .

If the marriage ends , life goes on and besides it won't stop you from taking care of your children and you will have all the imbeciles at your feet .

You men can't take half of what you dish out to women, marriage is sweet but people like you are the ones that makes marriage sour .

Nkechi Bianze is you guys nightmares, you can check her out on Facebook.

Innobee99:
Na una quote be that

You dey mind dem , na him make dat one give po**n star belle

Dem go get fine and sexy wife and begin filrt with jezebel daughters online .

Small money wey him get don dey shark am .

Adachizzy:
But why are you flirting?

Do you think cheating is only when you insert your prick into an outsiders’ hole?

But flirting and all is cool because you're a man?
You are married and there's two of you there. Respect each other and that particular institution!
From the way you sound sef, you're on your way to voracious cheating!

Don't mind him, his wife is trying to let him know that the two can play the game perfectly

Sucre6:


Both of them are not mentally matured enough, why would a married man flirt with other girls to the extent of the wife finding out.

This makes it obvious that he's not mentally matured too.

If you must flirt, never get caught, if you are not smart enough to handle it then don't because u are building bridges that leads to ending that marriage when there is no trust, the marriage is as good as gone

Exactly...the first paragraph

Adachizzy:


Lord over her or stop flirting and disrespecting her and their union??
What is wrong with men on this space!!!

Don't mind the mumu

Two old people deceiving themselves...

It's not advisable to flirt or cheat on ur wife and rub it on her face. Don't abuse your "privilege". If you can, don't cheat. But it's only a foolish woman and one with ashawo tendency that threatens her husband with "if you cheat, i'll cheat back". Maintain your stance. The consequences of cheating are not the same for a man and woman, whether the women like it or not. So, let her Bleep around and find out.

Crucialgem:
Women are being so biase with their comments on this topic, op said he will never cheat on her and why should a woman ever think of retaliating her husband if he cheats that mentality is so wrong and unafrican

You say this and then say that women are biased. What's this complete lack of self awareness?

Iseoluwani:


We know your type, u are frustrated about life, so because u pay house rent, then u should cheat. One of the bots holding your brains is loosed.

Dindinrin. No be only frustrated about life.. Na frustrated about your stupidity.

When your brother's wife cheats, advice your brother to allow her still be staying in his house. Daft idiot

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

Then don't cheat. U dey like to flirt with girl but won't like guys to flirt with ur wife.continue soon u will learn the hard way. Make her trust u by focusing on her.

If I may ask you na just 2years of marriage and una dey get this kind of thinking o

Oluwa a wa pelu yin

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

Dude, your wife is already cheating. Do you need a prophet to tell you this? Ignore those people saying trash here. You're the man and it was you that went and married her, paid for her head and did everything so you have the right to flirt whoever you like.

If a woman does the same, chase her out of your house ASAP. Let her go and make her own money, paid for a man's head and bring him into her house , then of course she's absolutely free to flirt with other men. If she can't do the above and she cheat, chase her out immediately

People still dey Marry?

Being long i saw Couples.

Voracious kwa? 😄

Adachizzy:
But why are you flirting?

Do you think cheating is only when you insert your prick into an outsiders’ hole?

But flirting and all is cool because you're a man?
You are married and there's two of you there. Respect each other and that particular institution!
From the way you sound sef, you're on your way to voracious cheating!

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

Na from clap dance dey start

This is hilarious.

Talk about seizing her power source. Lollz.

Those words make it clear what will happen if she messes up and yet it's not even a threat

thesilentman:
You are right.And this is the right time for you to display your masculinity over,if she responds by being submissive,keep her but if she turns out the opposite,let her go!
Everytime my wife tells me that some men out there made advances towards her thinking i'd feel jealous(pysche game wey be say na my discipline,)
[b]I Just tell her calmly,"do whatever you know will favour you and your children on the long run!"[/b]Works like magic.

Op you better repent or u will destroy ur marriage. The way many men talk as if cheating is their right baffles me.

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

Let's not sugarcoat things, she's going to cheat. I can bet on anything she'll cheat infact with different guys not even one. You should try to understand her views concerning that during dating. If she have this type of mentality she'll definitely cheat because she wants it but she need a reason to kill her guilt so it would seem like you made her do it.

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

Don't cheat on your wife, it's not good. If you do, delete all traces.

Make sure you remind her that, if you cheat, it's seen as men thing and if she cheats, she's seen as a prostitute and may never earn the respect of anyone again. You cheating is different from her cheating.

Stay focused on your marriage.

Touchypro:
Let's not sugarcoat things, she's going to cheat. I can bet on anything she'll cheat infact with different guys not even one. You should try to understand her views concerning that during dating. If she have this type of mentality she'll definitely cheat because she wants it but she need a reason to kill her guilt so it would seem like you made her do it.

another angle to it.

Adachizzy:
But why are you flirting?

Do you think cheating is only when you insert your prick into an outsiders’ hole?

But flirting and all is cool because you're a man?
You are married and there's two of you there. Respect each other and that particular institution!
From the way you sound sef, you're on your way to voracious cheating!

The guy is a cheat. There is nothing anyone will tell me. How can he not know that flirting is cheating? And because the innocent girl makes harmless statement, the ashawo man came crying to nairaland so we can nail the wife on the cross. Yege yege

Valoromega:
So as a man of you cheat should your wife cheat back. Besides I'm not flirting to her face, the people I was talking to was a long time ago and she found out.
I've never cheated on my wife and I don't plan on it.

But the question is if a man cheats on his wife, she should chest back too?

You want to eat your cake and have it back? She should pat you on the head for cheating on her? This question should never cross your mind as a married man. My husband knows that the day I find out he cheated on me, he should kiss the marriage goodbye.

Her question "would you like it If she does the same" means, put yourself in her shoes as a woman, how will you react?

Crucialgem:
Women are being so biase with their comments on this topic, op said he will never cheat on her and why should a woman ever think of retaliating her husband if he cheats that mentality is so wrong and unafrican

What is cheating and what is flirting? Leave women out of this. Ask the OP if the wife too should start flirting, that's when you know that you re probably alone in taking flirting likely.

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

If she cheats and you know you didn't cheat, send her away.

earthsync:


Ohh So the man cheating on the wife to begin with is African and the mentality is rainbow

In any relationship, it is the man's job to provide the funds and the woman's job to stay loyal. Society has made men feel useless without money so when they make money to fulfill their responsibility, society should not judge them harshly for cheating.

its normal for her to react, u can't be doing what u say u do and expect ur wife to play dumb (if she does, u are a dead man)

moreover, it is wrong for her to threaten u to retaliate with same but u sef, discipline ursef

Since you have known that what can make your wife to cheat on you lies with you, detest from doing it.

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WANT OTHERS TO DO UNTO THEE

Crucialgem:
Women are being so biase with their comments on this topic, op said he will never cheat on her and why should a woman ever think of retaliating her husband if he cheats that mentality is so wrong and unafrican

You and the OP deserve a big knock.

So you don't know flirting with other women is also cheating? You think it's until you enter bed that it finally becomes cheating?

And because he said he will never do it is the assurance that he won't? We should just believe that?

isabi2lof:


Same marriage that did not stop you from flirting with imbeciles online

You cherish marriage a lot and yet you can't keep to it .

If the marriage ends , life goes on and besides it won't stop you from taking care of your children and you will have all the imbeciles at your feet .

You men can't take half of what you dish out to women, marriage is sweet but people like you are the ones that makes marriage sour .

Nkechi Bianze is you guys nightmares, you can check her out on Facebook.

Nkechi Bianze?
The one that said she will never kneel down to any man but on her wedding day, she still knelt down to her husband?

That's the person you are taking serious?!
Nightmare kor.