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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Kobojunkie: 8:44pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
armyofone:It's not even that. I mean one can still have all the sex one wants without worrying so long as one uses protection. In this day and age, this is common knowledge. These people refuse to use protection, but then many have the audacity to blame the government for ruining the country. OP is here crying out that the problem he consciously created by his own irresponsibility is killing him completely as if it is about him when there are 5 innocent souls who have probably had their lives made miserable by his blatant disregard for human life. 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Ifyok50(m): 9:27pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
Op, now, you need to be thinking about the way forward. No allow overthinking or depression kpai you. Get your wife something to do if she's doing nothing at the moment. Hustle hard. Use your free time to learn any skill in your area of interest. That your in-law too, needs to be something doing to assist the family. If he/she has none at the moment, get him/her or ask him/her to get him/herself one. He/she needs to be productive and not be an extra burden on you. When next you want to meet your wife, pls use something. By now, you guys should be on family planning. Be prayerful. This is the time for you to draw closer to God like never before. Cry out to God for help. He's the only One that can truly help you. Your children for now, should be in public school until things improve and get better for you, which I know they will. So don't give up! Others I must also commend you op, you try. That means you probably got married early, which most nlanders have failed to point out. You try joor! But pls, take caution, and don't bring another child into this world again. The ones you have are okay. I pray the Lord send you help from Zion shortly. It is well. Shalom! 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Immunity1555: 12:06am On Jul 22, 2023 |
Mozino007:What are you calling nuisance? You well at all? People that are mortgaging your future you don't see, you don't criticize You turn your eyes away because of the left over You are picking to survive. Nonsense. Nuisance kill you there Monkey |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Tonytonex(m): 1:49am On Jul 22, 2023 |
armyofone:hmmm! It's well oh. Konji go kill man pikin be dat. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Tonytonex(m): 1:57am On Jul 22, 2023 |
Microwhy:please, explain more on the bolded. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Kobojunkie: 2:56am On Jul 22, 2023 |
Tonytonex:It means he believes poor folks are imbe-ciles that should not be expected to properly reason their existence by themselves hence the reason why he keeps thinking they aren't to be held responsible for even this kind of wickedness. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Ezekiel2122(m): 7:44am On Jul 22, 2023 |
Gerrard59:Whatever it is, its now in the past, with no solution.. Whether we blame or beat him... Doesn't in anyway change the situation be found himself now... That's what I'm saying 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by achimendy(m): 12:05pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: First of all, blame yourself for your family current predicament. You brought it all upon yourself and family all because you fail to plan, and now you're blaming the government, is it the government that told you to be giving birth without planning for your children?? We all know things are hand now, but you have to be sensitive and plan ahead. How do you expect 48k to cater for the wellbeing of 8 individuals? Is not possible. One of the major principles of success is to take 100% responsibility of your actions. So if you want to move forward stop the blame game, strategise and plan with your wife on how to change your financial situation around, if is for you to start saving no matter how little do it. If is to start a side hustle aside your salary work, do it. This is the time to put your brain to work and stop blaming Tinubu because he will not help you. And Dont ever think of running away from your family. Goodluck sir. 2 Likes |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by omababe(f): 1:40pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
teekay213:Just sent you one. Please reply. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by bukatyne(f): 7:59pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
abba190: Shebi he has decided not to listen to the 'West' and has many children. And he has opened a lamentations thread for himself. I know there is no point engaging you; your posts on this thread has shown you are not capable to think properly on this topic. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by armyofone(m): 5:07pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Tonytonex: Konji doesn't kill. Just when the thought of konji comes to mind, kill it by switching the thoughts to empty bank account, no food to eat, no money for travel and vacations, zero job, hopping on motorcycle instead of driving your own car etc The fear of feeling the skin is the beginning of wisdom. 3 Likes |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Tonytonex(m): 8:19pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
armyofone:you are very correct. It's like you're a reader. Though, I don't understand the bolded. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by armyofone(m): 8:37pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Tonytonex: Lol ! Abeg o don't let GloriousGbola catch me talking |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by armyofone(m): 8:40pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The fear of skin to skin is the beginning of wisdom There should be platforms for condom distribution. 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Tonytonex(m): 8:44pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
armyofone:who is that? And why |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Globad(f): 6:54am On Jul 30, 2023 |
MichaelSokoto: You're yet to explain |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Immunity1555: 10:26am On Apr 21 |
Mozino007: Truth is bitter Na you go die |
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