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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by DWJOBScom(m): 12:04pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Please do not try it
go for someone within the age of 26 - 30

Communication and relationship is key

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Mayeldah(m): 12:06pm On Sep 02, 2023
At 35, you shouldn't be considering marrying a lady below 25 years old, those are children who don't know their left from their right

go for ladies 28-30 years old. they are matured and age difference is good enough.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Holluwhakemmy(f): 12:08pm On Sep 02, 2023
kevwemike:
One of the greatest mistake I made in my life is the woman I marry, pls my brother calm down do alot of test on the woman, I mean hard test, pretend as if u are broke for several months see her reactions, as am telling u now I live alone 😭😭😭 with my 2 boys 5 and 7years old taking care of them all alone no help from anyone, sometimes even to go Hussle is hard bços to live them alone at home na war and now school go soon resume, house rent is there too, but I still believe God will provide. Pls brother marry a woman that have head oooooooooooooooooooooo, no go make mistake for ur life. God bless you.
what happened? Why your wife abandoned you with two children?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Westerhoffe(m): 12:11pm On Sep 02, 2023
madone:
If you ask me, marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of her intelligence, spirituality and morals.
In the 80s to 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by peer pressure from all those marine children on IG and Tiktok.



Follow this advise…
Nothing more, nothing less.

When I once said during a discussion with some guys, that I can't marry a lady who is less intelligent than I am, they were laughing at me. But man, I know what I'm saying.

When you have with you a woman who is more intelligent, a fast thinker, man, you don't know what you have until you lose it.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by sudeba(m): 12:11pm On Sep 02, 2023
udede:
I'm still regrating it.
But once in a while you may meet one that is very mature, most of them have nothing to bring to the table except STI's.

U have said it all bro. STI everywhere. Gals need proper orientation to always look after themselves. Go for infection test every 3 months.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Entanglement: 12:12pm On Sep 02, 2023
TimT:
Why so young?? What do you both have in common?
25 Nd above is fine...
But mental capacity matters.. remember who you marries irrespective of her age, will be the one to handle you, your family, and also your household... So no use your hand carry tictoc customer put for house
so you expect him to marry a repentant boko haram (evening newspapers) angry
Those ones that have seen life to the extreme?

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by whichway007: 12:14pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.
beauty will always fade away,but character and understanding saves the day

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by maasoap(m): 12:14pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

35 and 18, that age gap is much. Unless the girl is specially created, a man might be setting himself up for a life of frustration and possible failed marriage.
At 33, I married a 25 years old lady. No issue, 12 years and still counting. May be I was lucky, I wouldn't know.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by itsme01: 12:18pm On Sep 02, 2023
Younger women are easy to mould with love care and affection

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by spiSeyi: 12:19pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice.
Will you allow her to continue with her TikTok & IG lifestyle undecided? Then if you can't, don't marry any girl below 27yrs in this Gen Z age. Just imagine that a Yahoo boy of 20yrs on Tiktok is dragging your housewife with you grin

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Sweetvie: 12:23pm On Sep 02, 2023
KingLennon:
Even people wer never marry before dey give marriage advice smiley. People wer even their relationship never last reach 2 years dey give advice sad
😂😂
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Sweetvie: 12:25pm On Sep 02, 2023
madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.
Well said!
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Hotguy27: 12:26pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

It depends on a lot of things.
But generally, I will recommend you marry someone with age difference not more than 6.

Maturity and readiness are important in marriage.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by YoungmcCoy56: 12:27pm On Sep 02, 2023
they're so childish, they feel they're forever young. so i advise you go for ladies in their late 20s/30s they're the sweetest

Meanwhile, Haaland is a beast in front of goal so far in the 2023/2024 season so far

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rce7gWTWjsA?si=5iYBoYLypnSkccEW

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Edusouls(m): 12:27pm On Sep 02, 2023
KingLennon:
Even people wer never marry before dey give marriage advice smiley. People wer even their relationship never last reach 2 years dey give advice sad
am telling you, you don talk finish
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:28pm On Sep 02, 2023
18 - 22 years ain't no women, those are a bracket of GIRLS...

Even if I be 30yrs old, I no fit date a lady less than 25yrs...

Fine, ditching the age of a thing since many of u believe that age is just a number, wetin dey inside her head matters a lot, but I will always consider the age first, then look for the maturity in her...

Age means a lot to me, though...

u won't see me near young girls, I chop matured meats always...

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Edusouls(m): 12:29pm On Sep 02, 2023
You won’t find any Good advice in nairaland, bro if u wan marry go marry, everyone is talking about getting Good women as if themselves are Good..,

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Chicastle: 12:30pm On Sep 02, 2023
ednut1:
Can you keep up with the sexual needs of that young woman At 35 most Nigerian men already have high blood pressure, weak erection, diabetes, pot belle etc . If she cheats inside the marriage you will still complain. Marriage is not sustained by youth too. So i can never understand men’s obsession with younger women

So make we go Marry mama ?

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by stevups(m): 12:31pm On Sep 02, 2023
skywalker240:
In this modern generation, an 18 to 24 or even 25 and 26 years old girls are still in their hoe phases, only an idiot would venture into such investment

I married my longtime girlfriend of almost 13 year's when she is already in her 30s


To be honest you are correct

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by akinsmail51: 12:32pm On Sep 02, 2023
Marrying a younger lady is a plus always. Most especially if you are fortunate to marry a pure one, tear rubber, intact with her followcome.

You'll enjoy her naivety, she'll respect you and admire you a lot as a protector, provider and lifetime companion.

Of course, this depends on the level of good home training she'd and your how responsible you're!

The only cons I observed (because I have actually married one) is that she will always want you to be by her side and you do most of the thinking at home.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Kobicove(m): 12:33pm On Sep 02, 2023
At the age of 35 what will you be discussing with an 18 year old girl?

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Myer(m): 12:34pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

The challenge might simply be companionship. You might be speaking from two different generations.
But if you're both able to understand each other, I don't believe it's an issue.
Besides submission will even be easier for her as long as you don't abuse it.lol

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by folake4u(f): 12:34pm On Sep 02, 2023
KingLennon:
Even people wer never marry before dey give marriage advice smiley. People wer even their relationship never last reach 2 years dey give advice sad

I swear. 😂😂😂
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by ednut1(m): 12:34pm On Sep 02, 2023
Chicastle:


So make we go Marry mama ?
u no be papa 🤣

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by stevups(m): 12:35pm On Sep 02, 2023
Mayeldah:
At 35, you shouldn't be considering marrying a lady below 25 years old, those are children who don't know their left from their right

go for ladies 28-30 years old. they are matured and age difference is good enough.


Word on Mable

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Juliusable007(m): 12:35pm On Sep 02, 2023
You've said it all
madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by SUFFERInSMILIIN(m): 12:36pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Don't waste your time on Nigerian women are prostitutes even the married women and Wost

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by matm: 12:36pm On Sep 02, 2023
The only thing most 18 to 22 year olds know is pressing of phones and mid night chatting.Common domestic chores and washing their own clothes is a big deal to them.Cooking is a no.U must buy cooked food for them from restaurant or u give them money for food, make up, pads, creams etc lest for months, no talking term with u if u married to any of them.
They believe generally that every thing should be done for them since they are still kids .
(liabilities).
There might be exceptions but they will really come from poor wretched families and good religious background.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by LordIsaac(m): 12:36pm On Sep 02, 2023
Stick with the very first advice from the first response. Just add sense to it and have a strong self-worth!
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Ishilove: 12:37pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.
In the years past it could have been considered, but this present generation of young people are a case study.

Allow her mature a bit more and gain more life experience before considering proposing marriage to her. One of the worst things that can happen to a marriage is when one partner wakes up one day and starts resenting the other person for not allowing them enjoy their youth.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by stevups(m): 12:41pm On Sep 02, 2023
Westerhoffe:



Follow this advise…
Nothing more, nothing less.

When I once said during a discussion with some guys, that I can't marry a lady who is less intelligent than I am, they were laughing at me. But man, I know what I'm saying.

When you have with you a woman who is more intelligent, a fast thinker, man, you don't know what you have until you lose it.


When I was making millions, I rushed go married my beautiful 23 years old girl... Omo when we chopped the money finish together... I almost committed suicide. If not because I'm street wise..

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Fiscus105(m): 12:43pm On Sep 02, 2023
kevwemike:
One of the greatest mistake I made in my life is the woman I marry, pls my brother calm down do alot of test on the woman, I mean hard test, pretend as if u are broke for several months see her reactions, as am telling u now I live alone 😭😭😭 with my 2 boys 5 and 7years old taking care of them all alone no help from anyone, sometimes even to go Hussle is hard bços to live them alone at home na war and now school go soon resume, house rent is there too, but I still believe God will provide. Pls brother marry a woman that have head oooooooooooooooooooooo, no go make mistake for ur life. God bless you.



Oga , marriage comes with heavy responsibility, if u loose job unexpectedly and still expect wife to be loyal to you 100%,. It's only a mad woman will do that ok.


Dont use ur own yardstick to justify every other woman.

You dnt want to leave ur kids to hussle........indeed, be expecting manner. it would soon fall ok.

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