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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by seguno2: 12:40am On Oct 05, 2023
pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

Is it legal for a man to do DNA testing on his child

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Nobody: 12:59am On Oct 05, 2023
Quality20:
No its not a way to go. Children born in ur home ate urs, nobody can lawfully claim them other than you. Don't embarrass those innocent kids or their mothers

I agree. Even if a woman bring home 4 babies and you find out they’re not urs, ur duty is to take care of those babies regardless. Women go through a lot in marriage. As a man, I find all ways to make life easy for my woman. I cook, clean, go to work and bring money home. If another man sleep wit ur wife outside, check urself. You’re probably doing something wrong. The baby she has in as much as you’re married are all urs, no matter the father. I agree

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Ajalalomo: 1:01am On Oct 05, 2023
seguno2:


Is it legal for a man to do DNA testing on his child
What you should ask is, "Is it unlawful for a man to conduct DNA tests on his children?"

DNA testing is advisable, particularly if the husband is questioning if he is the child's biological father.

It's normal for a woman to get upset if her husband requests DNA evidence, but a woman who has nothing to hide will undoubtedly want her husband to do it in order to clear up any concerns.

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by NewDea4: 1:02am On Oct 05, 2023
pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

His money, his choice

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by 2Radii: 1:15am On Oct 05, 2023
Quality20:
No its not a way to go. Children born in ur home ate urs, nobody can lawfully claim them other than you. Don't embarrass those innocent kids or their mothers
Satan will pun!sh you...Simpson

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by seguno2: 1:23am On Oct 05, 2023
Ajalalomo:
What you should ask is, "Is it unlawful for a man to conduct DNA tests on his children?"

DNA testing is advisable, particularly if the husband is questioning if he is the child's biological father.

It's normal for a woman to get upset if her husband requests DNA evidence, but a woman who has nothing to hide will undoubtedly want her husband to do it in order to clear up any concerns.

Please what is the difference between legal and lawful
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by tochez24(m): 1:50am On Oct 05, 2023
pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

Even if i marry a virgin, i MUST conduct DNA on all my children.... once my wife says she pregnant, i will immediately make provision for the dna even before she begins antenatal.

Women are not stable, they're emotional beings which can make the do and undo at any point in time. I'm not taking that risk!!!

I'm a man and men ought to be ontop of their games at every point in time, anything less is unacceptable⚠️

Every man needs to HUSTLE o

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by emmanuelewumi(m): 1:51am On Oct 05, 2023
tivhador:
SIMP



Very common among people from certain part of the country, their culture permits it

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Ajalalomo: 1:59am On Oct 05, 2023
seguno2:


Please what is the difference between legal and lawful

I meant your question should be is it illegal to do dna
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by sulakishop(m): 2:12am On Oct 05, 2023
Personally, I don't think it is wise, rather It should be made compulsory for every child born

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Diligence: 3:07am On Oct 05, 2023
The question is untenable considering empirical thousands of cases that many women HV given children to men other than the actual fathers!

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by UncleKoboko: 3:27am On Oct 05, 2023
pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?
Those 3 adjectives doesn't not qualify NO WOMAN ALIVE IN THIS GENERATION, UNLESS YOU'RE JUST FOOLĪNG YOURSELF.

EVERY RIGHT-THINKING MAN DESERVE TO DO DNA TEST ON HIS CHILDREN OPENLY OR SECRETLY.

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by UncleKoboko: 3:28am On Oct 05, 2023
Quality20:
No its not a way to go. Children born in ur home ate urs, nobody can lawfully claim them other than you. Don't embarrass those innocent kids or their mothers
Or deh

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by UncleKoboko: 3:30am On Oct 05, 2023
VinnyBaba:


If you are Married to a MODEST Girl, no NEED.🙂

But you get married to a TEAR-EYE, SEMI-OLOSHO, 20+ BODYCOUNT Lady,
It's Necessary! 🤨😒
Any girl with more than 2 BODYCOUNT can never on this earth be a modest GIRL.

DNA is very important and necessary on girls like that.
GIRLS WITH MORE THAN 2 BODYCOUNT.

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by rafcrown(m): 3:54am On Oct 05, 2023
SECRETLY OR OPENLY.WHY ARE YOU AFRAID?

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by gabbytabby: 3:55am On Oct 05, 2023
Olosho wey marry public dog with possibility of seed doted all over. You win some you lose some.

Na the dishonest society una creat be dat.




some
IjebuWarrior:
Dis one don enter one chance... grin

Olosho everywhere disguising as housewives. grin
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Amumaigwe: 3:59am On Oct 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Well, sounds like is a man who has already written off the relationship and simply looking for a reason to pin it on. undecided

You are right. And DNA verification will be such a good and justifiable reason. Isn't it?

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by tunde1200(m): 4:03am On Oct 05, 2023
See another one oh.
Make I no talk wetin dey my mind.


Habanero05:


I agree. Even if a woman bring home 4 babies and you find out they’re not urs, ur duty is to take care of those babies regardless. Women go through a lot in marriage. As a man, I find all ways to make life easy for my woman. I cook, clean, go to work and bring money home. If another man sleep wit ur wife outside, check urself. You’re probably doing something wrong. The baby she has in as much as you’re married are all urs, no matter the father. I agree

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Palevu: 4:06am On Oct 05, 2023
You get mind breakup with your helper, man reclaims shop container built for is girlfriend after breakup.

https://www.gistus.ng/2023/10/you-get-mind-breakup-with-your-helper.html

Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by tunde1200(m): 4:06am On Oct 05, 2023
emmanuelewumi:




Very common among people from certain part of the country, their culture permits it

And which part is that educate us pls.
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Charly68: 4:09am On Oct 05, 2023
Nothing wrong where the wife portrays wrong signals .
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 4:09am On Oct 05, 2023
cutesharon:
As a lady, it is not bad since she is sure there is no foul play na. As long as it is also okay for the woman to secretly leave the marriage after the test due to trust issues. A courageous man will confront the wife before such test. grin grin grin

Yep, it is okay.

She can leave and go and be single mother on the streets.

No sane man should want hypocrites who blatantly exhibit their trust issues against men anyway.

Some selfish beings don't want to trust men but demand men must trust them.

A woman that is not a slut and has never been slutty would not be worried about testing if the kids she claims belongs to a man actually belongs to him.

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 4:11am On Oct 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
That is it! Once you begin to tamper with trust, you might as well end the relationship there and then. undecided

Then 98% of women should not be in a relationship then.

Once they use side eye to try to find out who is on the screen of a man's phone calling him, ................end the relationship.

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by KIDfurniture(m): 4:13am On Oct 05, 2023
If you can afford it let her know . If she refuse or reject.. send her packing with the kids.



































pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 4:13am On Oct 05, 2023
Sleekfingers:
I did DNA for my 2 sons, without telling my wife. But she later found out. She was angry, saying all kinda stuffs. I didn't even say a word. Planning to do for my daughter too.
Because Nigeria is the headquarter of paternity fraud. So my advice to any sensible Nigerian is to do DNA oooo.

She can shove her anger up her ass!

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Kobojunkie: 4:41am On Oct 05, 2023
Gamesmart:
■ Then 98% of women should not be in a relationship then.
■ Once they use side eye to try to find out who is on the screen of a man's phone calling him, ................end the relationship.
Did any of those women put guns to the heads of any of those men they are in relationships with? If you check, na the men ask them out so? undecided

2. Focus! The op asked about a man doing secret DNA tests.. dont derail the thread with your particular delusinsn abeg! undecided
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by zedegit: 4:43am On Oct 05, 2023
pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

Yes to avoid conflict at home. Very few women will accept it even if she was faithful.
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Kobojunkie: 4:45am On Oct 05, 2023
Amumaigwe:
■ You are right. And DNA verification will be such a good and justifiable reason. Isn't it?
Well, once a DNA test is necessary to vefying trust it means the relationship itself lacked trust. How many people are willing to remain in a relationship where trust has been proven by the need for DNA verification to lack? undecided

So the moment you start thinking you need to DNA test the kids, it means your have near no trust in the relationship yourself and need the DNA verification to convince you to have some in the relationship. Such a man has pretty much checked and is only looking for a reason to completely exit the situation. Even if the tests prove no unfaithfulness, the man who once has no trust left would need to do work in order to revamp his interest in said relationship. undecided
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by BouquiLake: 4:48am On Oct 05, 2023
You should also ask

Is it right for a wife to secretly pin another man's child on her husband?


pradoyeep:
A virtuous, faithful and loving wife doesn't deserve DNA verification, except for official reasons.
Now as a man, is it right to secretly do DNA test on your kids, even when there are no traces of cheating?

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 5:04am On Oct 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Did any of those women put guns to the heads of any of those men they are in relationships with? If you check, na the men ask them out so? undecided

2. Focus! The op asked about a man doing secret DNA tests.. dont derail the thread with your particular delusinsn abeg! undecided

Nonsense points!

Your argument was that a relationship should probably be ended when acts that you regarded does not show automatic "trust" is demonstrated. And I gave you the implication of your weak argument.

What the hell as 'who asked who out' got to do with that? Or if guns or magun were used for the chat up? Or what has 'who cooked the best asaro' got to do with your weak point?

Selfish beings! You just want to have advantages and privileges but no accountability for women, right?

Just admit that it was silly to say a relationship should be ended because one party has concerns about fidelity. Not only women are allowed to have that and men should be trusting mugus because "women deserve it".

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Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by gabbytabby: 5:08am On Oct 05, 2023
Husband has a right to know but at times when you want peace and they are giving you peace you can choose to let sleeping dogs rest.
Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Gamesmart: 5:09am On Oct 05, 2023
gabbytabby:
Husband has a right to know but at times when you want peace and they are giving you peace you can choose to let sleeping dogs rest.

I would love to be your neighbour and know your wife.

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